Tips
Timex345
Illinois
I absolutely hate being asked by a stripper for a
tip on top of the money I pay for a dance.
I figure the money I am already paying for a dance is sufficient.
I have a new policy of letting the strippers who dance for me know straight off
that I won't tip extra. If they cop an attitude, I just move on to the next stripper.
If I receive great service and have a great time, I certainly tip. But, to be guilt
tripped into it angers me.
tip on top of the money I pay for a dance.
I figure the money I am already paying for a dance is sufficient.
I have a new policy of letting the strippers who dance for me know straight off
that I won't tip extra. If they cop an attitude, I just move on to the next stripper.
If I receive great service and have a great time, I certainly tip. But, to be guilt
tripped into it angers me.
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Maybe I'm just a contrary son of a bitch, but I've more often than not just put it straight back. :)
I used to have a policy of, "if she asks for a tip, I turn her down, and never dance with her again", because I was so irritated over it. But then I realized, the reason I'm so irritated is because she's made me uncomfortable because I have to tell her no. And I've been pretty consistent in saying that 20-year-old girls should not be able to make you feel intimidated or uncomfortable ... That's something I've put into practice at the table, where I can always graciously and effortless turn down dances, so a couple of years ago I started doing that with tip requests also. I smile, make total contact and use a bit of command-voice, turn her down with something like, "I don't tip, but I show my appreciation by buying more dances". The girls just generally take that very graciously, and my current CF, who had asked me for a tip after our very first dance together, is obviously enough still with me and become my CF even though I turned her down. And, ironically, she now over-achieves during dances so often, that I do tip her sometimes, and she doesn't even have to ask for it now (or maybe, she's been trained not to :)
Me - “Diversify your bonds bitch” (that's yo tip right thur)
It is what it is – strippers' #1 job is to get as much $$$ out of a PL as possible – IMO all one can pretty-much do is learn to navigate the stripper-waters.
I tip if I'm in the mood – even if she asks which I don't like – I understand it's sorta her job and I take for what it is – if I'm not in the mood; I don't get mad; it's not worth-it and doesn't accomplish anything; if I don't wanna tip I just calmly say something along the lines of “I'm a little low tonight” - no need IMO to be stern w/ her b/c/ that will porbably not accomplish much – I just see it as her being a stripper and doing what strippers do (good or bad).
Well here I sometimes think you've been a bit too SW-ified, and then you come out with something like this. You said that pretty nicely, and I think agree completely. Getting pissed or feeling horribly uncomfortable over things strippers do, just makes each trip less fun. Plus, speaking for myself at least, if I have to get nasty, or think up snarky comments, that's usually to cover up weakness -- someone in control just handles it. Which is not to say that strippers still don't manage to irritate me sometimes, but one of the best things I ever did for my strip club experience is to figure out I'm in control, 20-year-old girls aren't really scary at all nor capable of making me feel uncomfortable unless I give them that power, and therefore be able to graciously and without getting all worked up, be able to easily handle very common situations, like, "Would you like to tip me?", "You don't want to dance with me, why not?"... And do so without being snarky, mean, or passive-aggressive
Sometimes my mangina acts-up
But having said this, I think one needs to learn to be selective and deliberate in which one's they decide to do this with.
The money should never be a payment for anything, just a show of care and willingness to support them.
SJG
Beethoven's 9th
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t3217H8J…
If she wants more, then that will come with additional sessions or dances. And the likely hood of these will depend on how she did the first one.
SJG
@LDK82 needs to meet you. He won't need to finish up in the bathroom as he has spent years learning to quickly cum in his pants, and he never stops boasting about this.
SJG