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Women who work in showclubs are sleazeballs doing sleazeball things for money.
I have visited a showclub for the final time this past week. I am done and wanted to announce it
on this website. So, no more lame posts for me.
REMEMBER... She only wants your money dumbass!
I am such an idiot for all of the money and wasted emotions I have spent on these sleazeballs.
Thank God I got out before I did something stupid like buying a birthday gift for a stripper.
I have visited a showclub for the final time this past week. I am done and wanted to announce it
on this website. So, no more lame posts for me.
REMEMBER... She only wants your money dumbass!
I am such an idiot for all of the money and wasted emotions I have spent on these sleazeballs.
Thank God I got out before I did something stupid like buying a birthday gift for a stripper.
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If you "wasted emotions", then it's good that you got it. I think many of us made the mistake of getting too emotionally involved to some extent or other, but then we have our epiphany and wise up. Someone who doesn't have the emotional IQ to enjoy strippers without getting emotional over and over, really shouldn't be in a strip club.
The fact that she's making a living doesn't make her a sleazeball. Sometimes I wonder if some guys' perceptions of strippers are more about what they feel about themselves, projected onto the strippers. I have a dim view of strippers who are ROBs or predatory, but beyond that, mostly thrilled that insanely hot young women will socialize with me and wiggle around on my lap and touch my junk, all for mere money.
And they are not called showclubs; they are strip clubs (what are you a Pollock?).
The fact that they work for money is not a reason to criticize strippers. Rather, it's a reason to be smart with your money so you get good value for what you pay.
This. A thousand times this.
Brilliant!
You have failed yourself.
Every stripper is just out for money, that should be a relatively easy thing to figure out.
Here's what needs to happen:
1. When a stripper is being nice, you need to realize it's just to drain your pocket and you have to just play along and not take what she's saying too seriously.
2. Find a stripper(s) that isn't totally blatant about wanting to take your money. There are plenty of them out there that are more coy about it and some that are even polite. Those are the ones that you want to hang with. An easy way to find these girls is taken them back for a lap dance. Do they wait for the next song to start or start in the middle of the song? A bitch will start in the middle, if that happens throw the cost of the lap dance on the floor and immediately walk out. If she waits until the next song starts and sits and chats with you, she's a keeper.
I spent $25 on a couple of lap dances last night. I'm through.
except maybe after 6 days.
Can't really say that I wasted my money. Could have spent 25 on several things that I got no enjoyment out of. That would be a waste of money.
As far as dancers go, some do care about people they meet. That's what I find scary.
It's a job but the dancers are humans. If you have a customer you like, they may get treated better. Almost everyone is after money, not just dancers. I don't work for free. If someone isn't after money, watch out because their motives mean they are after something else. If she wants to be friends or something more, you will need to consider whether to run or play along with it. One of my friends once joked if I permanently hooked up with a dancer who liked me, I would have instant family. Time to run.
I started going to strip clubs AFTER I came on this website. I made sure to learn from you guys' mistakes and wised up before I even went waist deep in the club. That and starting off with a small amount of cash to spend per trip helped a lot. That is how you are suppose to learn.
So....your saying she doesn't love me ???
Oooo dear god !!!
Over all I have found that strippers and others who work in P4P are not any more devious than civilian women. Mostly the difference is that with civilians they are social sanctioned, or socially approved of. So I think back to a girl I made a play for in high school. She chewed me up and spit me out on the ground, and then hid behind authorities. She could do that because she could invoke her legitimated status.
I recently learned that she has been long married to a very well paid executive in one of our largest corporations. Somehow she could sense that in very deep and fundamental ways that I was not like this guy. She had other boyfriends, but she dumped them and went for this guy not too long after high school.
With sex workers, they do not enjoy this social legitimacy, and so their feelings and their vulnerabilities are closer to the surface. Now yes they want money. But this is right out in the open.
So I find that the sex workers are easier to deal with. And as so many point out, lots of them have low life boyfriends. I don't aspire to become one of these, but I do note that their must be something in the lives of both these women and the men which delegitimates them.
Only thing tough, the sex workers will not be sexually faithful to you. My ex wife was always sexually faithful, and no matter how bad things got, she never would have been sexually unfaithful. But this was mostly so that she could "be right".
Relationship going bad with a sex worker and the first thing she will do is be sexually unfaithful.
But I don't find the goals and ambitions of sex workers to be any more manipulative or exploitative than those of civilian women. The sex workers are out in the open. With the civilians it is covert and they actually believe that they have the moral high ground as they expect you to live up to their standards.
You learn better how to understand women when you start dealing with sex workers.
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#1 You went there to see and do "sleazeball things" for money...and you PAID money (which has worth) so (at the time) you thought it was "worth" it and you thought the Women "worthy" of it.
#2 You "raised" your standards of "worth" when you realized even strippers don't sell "emotions" for money. You, on the other hand, thought "emotions" could be bought for money. Who, I ask you, has the higher standard of "worth"?
#3 We at TUSCL and the women who entertain us, can never agree 100% on the "worth" of that entertainment, but we're all willing to buy and sell it for a mutually negotiated price. And we all enjoy ourselves for 15 minutes for $xxx. Maybe that makes us "sleazeballs."
#4 But YOU sir, want to buy and sell SOULS for $xxx. That makes you the Devil Himself.
Congratulations on your last "Lame Post" you Devil, You.