What do we learn on these boards?
Mouse and Verfolgung had an interesting exchange on another thread about opinions. I've been reading this board since it's inception as well as a few other SC related boards. My question is, Has anybody actualy learned anything or formed an opinion different from what they originaly had about CS's, dancers or customers based on these chat boards?
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One mistake you made, it isn't the patrons money the dancers pay their bills with, it is the dancers money once they earn it. Also, I posted that I "can't" vouch, whereas I meant I CAN vouch, in a previous posting.
"I've found it amazing that some of the men who go to clubs actually have bad feelings towards the girls. If they don't like the dancers, why pay to show up?"
Some words of wisdom. :)
I think customers who are prejudiced against all dancers, and dancers who are prejudiced against all customers, are over-represented on internet forums about stripping.
I think all dancers have to deal with a lot of customers and other people who demean and belittle them. Some let it get under their skin more than others, but few if any of them are totally unaffected by it. If you've gotten the impression that dancing is just a 100% party, I have to think the dancers you know don't talk about the hard parts, so as not to spoil your fun. And that's fine, but we should have some appreciation for what they go through to provide us the service they do, even if we'd rather not hear about the bad stuff.
I've come to understand more of the "why" and "how" of what dancers are like over all the years I've been on these boards, but maybe only 5% of that is due to anything on the boards. Both customers and dancers are incredibly uninsightful about themselves and the other side, since they usually need to see the other side as something that is determined by what they want to see themselves as.
I've always maintained that these boards primarily want to be circle jerks, with people just reinforcing each others beliefs to minimize the sum total of cognitive dissonance going around. Objective souls do exists but their ain't many, and even among them all they may be able to see the way things are clearly, they usually have little interest in or ability to explain the why.
But, that's no different than anything else. Want something done, usually got to do it yourself. :-)
That's just the RickyBoy playing catch up. Trying to pretend like he gets it when he does not.
I guess my focus is always OTC-centric as this is one of my primary clubbing objectives, along with simply enjoying my time ITC.
@Fraudster: "That's just the RickyBoy playing catch up. Trying to pretend like he gets it when he does not."
LOL. I guess not all of us are so hip to the game that we are "OTC'ing" with "OTC numbers." LOL. Do what you want of course, but if I were you I'd stick to discussions of psychiatry, where you have at least a shred of credibility. ;)
I can say that I've changed or modified many of my earlier opinions about how one should conduct themselves in a strip club based on senior members advice and my own increased experience. One example; I used to ALWAYS tip dancers on stage. Now I tip only dancers I'm interested in.
Many thanks to the senior board members for their help, patience and advice. Special thanks to those guys who took the time to answer my questions and provide advice in the private message arena. I won't call you out by name but you all know who you are. Thanks, really! In a little less than 90 days, I've transformed from a HUGE PL who had no idea how to cajole a stripper into OTC into a more confident and savy customer with 1/2 dozen working OTC contacts and growing.
(p.s. How's that bid to have yourself made into moderator of this board working out for you, tenishomo?)
Strippers? No. Strip Clubs? Some. Shy Customers? Very.
Yoda has contributed a shitload to this site in terms of reliable reviews and is giving up a lot of free time moderating over on the pink site. Those customer boards were becoming a zoo before he took over. Most of the people who he has banned were jackasses who didn't know their asses from their elbows and probably couldn't get laid in a whorehouse with a fist full of fifties.
Now he and I don't see eye to eye on a number of things, most especially the merits of taking dancers OTC, and every so often we will debate some issue back and forth, but with all of that I haven't been banned and I tend to believe that he is pretty even handed. I talk about OTC, ITC activities and other "controversial" (from a dancer perspective) things on the pink board all the time.
Maybe they ought to just make SW a strictly dancer site since customers seem even less wanted there now than ever.
On the other hand, stripping involves a lot of bullshit and strippers want to go to the web to escape it, not wade back in it.
So txtittyfag is a play on the user “txtittyfan?”
How did you dig this up?
So basically you have no new perspective. Just digging up shit from 10'yrs ago. Cool bro, it's a free forum so have at it, personally I think it's a cop out. Btw this opinion is from 2018 not 2004. If it matter to ya.
Having said that I don't mind old threads if they are interesting and not just to continue an old-ass discussion - I found this thread interesting to read though.
And this was a cool topic to revive. And I've always had the same thought that Juice posted here five years ago: we should have a thread filled with links to the best and most informative threads in TUSCL history.
And like nicespice, I FINALLY see where the txtittyfag name came from. I guess he succeeded in running txtittyfan off the board as I never see him post here anymore.
“Many dancers have tried to post here over the years. Most give up after being ripped and called names by other posters.”
This is an interesting viewpoint. I’ve only encountered one user like that who wants to come after me and my troll accounts. Otherwise, the board has been friendly enough with me.
*Has* the bored gotten more female friendly over the years? I know the dancer directory helped, but it seems like BJ was very popular as well. And Nina, while controversial, is also well-liked here.
Ah, thanks for that twenty.
I suppose it makes sense that yoda has that viewpoint, which foreshadowed him being more regular on a different site.
You grouchy senile ass fucker.