How do you make it two club if you have a gf whose house you stay at all the time? Do you tell her your out with the boys or somthing? What lies do yall make up lol?
Some people are not built for relationships, and some people just are a bad fit. If you have to lie to her then let her go. That way you can do what you want or find someone who will let you do what you want. Women already like drama. Giving them a reason to be dramatic is not going to end well.
Just go to the club and have a great time. Just before you leave, walk up to the biggest, meanest mofo there and feel up his GFs right in front of him. When he finishes beating the crap out of you (and assuming that you live) they'll take you to the hospital and your excuse will be complete. Easy least!
I go when I am out working. Easy to find the time. Since I don't stay long in clubs, no problem there. If I should wish to make a "special" visit, I just happen to have to work some extra hours.
I think prophet juice has the best alibi - tell her you're at church. Of course there isn't church at 10pm at night but tell her you're working with a youth group or joined the choir and they practice at night lol
First of all make sure you don't come hope smelling like perfume and smoke. Ladies aren't stupid and they'll know where you were. Depending on your job or shift, you can always tell her you're working late. As for me, my wife use to be a dancer and when I go to the clubs, she wants to hear about it when I get home.
Drinking with the guys is the best excuse, but it only works really well when she really doesn't know the guys. If she is around your friends a lot and becomes suspicious, it wouldn't be too hard for her to get a friend to trip up by providing the wrong answer to a question.
Working late has its advantages as it doesn't involve other people, but it really only works best if you aren't supposedly chained to a stationary work phone or you legitimately work late a lot. There are only so many times that she will call your work number, and not have you there to answer, before she starts to question where you might actually be. If you answer it most of the time, then you have a certain amount of air cover for the times that you do not.
The gym may be a decent excuse, but I'm not sure how much time you can cover with that excuse. You will also need to sprinkle in real visits that provide some actual results, lol, or else she will get suspicious.
And whatever excuse you use, watch what you put on your phone. It is a guarantee that she will snoop on it at some point, especially if her suspicions are aroused.
The OP says he’s a young guy – most young guys like to party/SC late at night – so there is only so many excuses one can use to be out late at night.
IME – most SCers w/ S.O.s do it during the late afternoon/early-eve at most and use the excuse of working late or having a drink w/ a coworker – but this excuse is harder to use at 11:00 pm at night and later.
Papi- your right about whole first paragraph. Ya and for late nights I'll need a better excuse then work late cause no construction site gets off that late. I'll say out with friends or just straight tells her cause she already knows I use to go all the times with my cousin
Here is a great solution for young guys living with their GF, although not foolproof: take your girl to bed and fuck her so long and hard that she falls asleep exhausted. Then go to the club.
say you and a buddy were at a pool hall and entered in a tournament. some of those nightly tourneys start at 8pm and can actually last way past midnight.
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But I usually club when I'm out of town on business. Might not be an option for you depending on your job though.
Working late. Drinking with buddies. Going to the gym.
"Gym" would never work for me. Sometimes you would HAVE to go to a gym and/or show some results of your workouts. :)
Drinking with the guys is the best excuse, but it only works really well when she really doesn't know the guys. If she is around your friends a lot and becomes suspicious, it wouldn't be too hard for her to get a friend to trip up by providing the wrong answer to a question.
Working late has its advantages as it doesn't involve other people, but it really only works best if you aren't supposedly chained to a stationary work phone or you legitimately work late a lot. There are only so many times that she will call your work number, and not have you there to answer, before she starts to question where you might actually be. If you answer it most of the time, then you have a certain amount of air cover for the times that you do not.
The gym may be a decent excuse, but I'm not sure how much time you can cover with that excuse. You will also need to sprinkle in real visits that provide some actual results, lol, or else she will get suspicious.
And whatever excuse you use, watch what you put on your phone. It is a guarantee that she will snoop on it at some point, especially if her suspicions are aroused.
IME – most SCers w/ S.O.s do it during the late afternoon/early-eve at most and use the excuse of working late or having a drink w/ a coworker – but this excuse is harder to use at 11:00 pm at night and later.