No Oral For You

I'm thinking it's probably #2, although another option (which I realize is completely wrong but still...) sprang to mind: She just started culinary school and she wants to keep her palate as pure as possible.

I agree-- #2. I've had a dancer tell me no kissing or BJ because they had to save something just for their significant other. This was after providing FS in multiple positions in a club. I guess everyone is entitled to enforce their own rules, no matter how idiosyncratic and counter-intuitive those rules appear to others.

#1

As for #2, in my experience strippers are willing to give oral even if they have husbands or steady boyfriends. They don't regard blow jobs as sex.

#5 is clearly the most plausible.

But I've never seen ol' jerikson-dude end a post with "Juice! Juice! Juice!"

BTW, I wonder what's up with ol' #sausage.fingers. Perhaps he got back together with jayzex. Hope he treats that chick nicely this time #dotherightthingjuice

I'll go with #1 as well, for the same reason as jackslash.

I am going # 1 as well.

#1, or maybe you are eating the wrong foods.

I suspect #5, although it would be an insult to real women everywhere.

I can believe any of those except #3. So it is probably that one. Don't ever tell a stripper you sign. :)

I've gone through this kind of shit before where the babe would not deliver a certain kind of act.

For me, it's a combo of #2 and #4, between the two the greater would be #2.

You guys did better with a list of the options narrowed down for you.

And the answer is ...... #2. She’s been dating a new guy for about two months, and they haven’t had sex or anything yet, but oral sex with me wouldn’t feel right under these circumstances.

Shadowcat, going into the club I was kind of expecting #3 because I had previously told her my sign and she’s into astrology. You’re right about not telling them your sign, but I’m not sure how you avoid it because they just ask when you were born. I could lie...but I don’t know what sign she would want me to be in order to fuck me.

As usual with SS, I have many questions. Here are a couple. #1 -- how do you date a stripper for two months and not have sex with her? She swallowed my cum the day after I met her. Give him two months time, some money and a job, and San Jose Guy might be able to have sex with her. Who is this guy?

#2 -- Why is every other form of sexual activity perfectly fine but a blow job is disloyal to the bf? It seems to me that once you cross a certain line (which we crossed long ago), the details of how you fuck a PL really don’t matter.

Here’s the best part. I reluctantly said ok to her terms, and in the end she included oral! That’s SS. Not as bad as driving away with a stripper in the back of your truck who gets shot as you leave the club parking lot, but a strong dose of SS nonetheless.

I think what was really going on here besides the guy she’s dating is that she didn’t want to be told that she had to perform a certain sex act. Once I agreed, and it was her choice to do that for me, it became no problem. Either that or I’m an incredibly sexy stud with the most beautiful cock she’s ever seen, and as soon as she saw it she just had to have that thing in her mouth right that second. Yea, on second thought, that must be it.

@JohnSmith69: "I think what was really going on here [...] is that she didn’t want to be told that she had to perform a certain sex act."

I know my ATF had this attitude about a bunch of stuff. Said she didn't mind doing it for me because I appreciated it, and returned the favor.

SS? Normally, I'd say yes, but I learned my lesson with her in that respect. :)

"No Oral for You"

@JS69 - Another Seinfeld pop culture reference?

Yes Steve, good catch. I love the soup Nazi episode. Your in depth knowledge of Seinfeld seems inconsistent with the theory that you are a 16 yo girl, but I'll wait for Dougster to argue otherwise before I make up my mind for sure.

#3. I had to laugh about that one.

A stripper I met back in August said she was really into astrology and really good at it. It took her three guesses to get my sign and seven to get what month I was born in.

^ wow - that's pretty good for a stripper

JS69: "I think what was really going on here besides the guy she’s dating is that she didn’t want to be told that she had to perform a certain sex act. Once I agreed, and it was her choice to do that for me, it became no problem."

I can see that, absolutely. It's fundamentally about self-determination -- and when it's sex work, you HAVE to concede that space. "Saving it for those she's intimate with" is just the form that the drawing of borderlines takes. In "normal" jobs there is such a thing as being told "too bad if you don't like that part of the job, earn your pay", but "normal" job descriptions do not include putting your boss' dick in your mouth.

#2, my guess was correct.

My guess about the bf is that one of three things.

1. He's got another girl he's fucking and may not have told her. or

2. He has sexual problems and hasn't brought it up yet.

3. He doesn't have a clue she has been very sexually active and thinks she is one of those girls who rarely put out and he being a pussy about going for sex.

4. She's still pulling your leg and only just wants to save certain sexual acts for her boyfriend but didn't want to discuss this or get in an argument about it.

Shark, "2. He has sexual problems and hasn't brought it up yet."

Um, pun intended?

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My guess was going to be that maybe she gained a little weight and she was avoiding empty calories.