Fingering the pussy
Clackport
Washington
In your experience, do most dancers let you finger their pussy?
I'm asking this question, because in my area if you want to touch the dancer you have to do VIP. In VIP you can touch anywhere besides the pussy. Having said all this, I've had a couple of dancers put my fingers in their pussy. I've initiated putting my fingers in a couple other dancers' pussies, the dancers didn't have a problem with it. So I'm 4 for 4 right now, but I feel like the streak is gonna end soon.
There have plenty of dancers I've wanted to finger, but I didn't do it because I feared they would end the dance or go tell the bouncer.
What have been the reactions of dancers you tried to finger, but they didn't let you?
Thoughts?
I'm asking this question, because in my area if you want to touch the dancer you have to do VIP. In VIP you can touch anywhere besides the pussy. Having said all this, I've had a couple of dancers put my fingers in their pussy. I've initiated putting my fingers in a couple other dancers' pussies, the dancers didn't have a problem with it. So I'm 4 for 4 right now, but I feel like the streak is gonna end soon.
There have plenty of dancers I've wanted to finger, but I didn't do it because I feared they would end the dance or go tell the bouncer.
What have been the reactions of dancers you tried to finger, but they didn't let you?
Thoughts?
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If she is sitting across your lap then that can be fun if she allows you to get your fingers wet. The best place for this I've been to is the Blue Moon Lounge in Phoenix where you pay $41 for a three song set of "dances". The first two songs are basically spent talking and rubbing on each other. This is when you can get your fingers wet. Of course this time is just as often spent with the dancer's hand wrapped around your hard member, so you may be distracted?
During a dance, I will move my hands down towards that area. If she squirms, changes positions or just out-and-out says not to, then I know the dance isn't going to be real handsy down there. This is pretty common.
Occasionally, a girl will let you play with her clit, at which point, you start to think you've got something. If she likes that and is helping you not get in trouble for doing that, you've got a winner.
I've had girls in the dance area at topless clubs move aside their drawers and let me lick a little. Also have had VIPs in nude clubs where the girl has said "Put your hands on the couch at your sides," then "accidentally" sat on one, allowing access. It's possible, even in clubs where fear of punishment for breaking rules is high. You just have to be subtle and build some trust first.
Went to a club in Renolast year and for the 2 for 60 private dance - that turned into 3+ for 60 becase it was a really slow afternoon - it was nearly a fisting situation. Cavernous and wet wet wet...
But, generally,
Though there were several dancers in the past few months that gave me the look of go-down-there-and-hit-me and it turned out pretty well. She enjoyed it more than I did, so she got charged $30 for cumming and staining my shorts. After that, she gave one awesome labia-gripping-my-dick grind while both of our eyes were intensely staring.
From Urbandictionary
2.
fingering
1)part of foreplay that definitely requires an art other than 'sticking your fingers in a pussy' as delineated in previous definitions. many males still don't understand this, but true fingering will also constitute stimulation of the clitoris using fingers. if you are truly talented, you can do both at the same time. we appreciate that ;)
For many, clit stimulation is the be-all and end-all. Some like direct finger-on-clit contact, but it's too much of a sensation for others, who will either prefer you work the hood over the clit rather than the clit itself, or even not really consciously go after it at all.
The G-spot is kind of a mysterious thing. I literally think it's somewhat whether the woman believes in it or not (they do say the second-largest erogenous zone, after the skin, is the brain). It may be its own unique thing, or it may just be the nerves on the "back" of the clitoris, which isn't just the nub on the outside but is actually nerves that can extend well into a woman, up along and around her vaginal cavity. But yet some women don't seem to notice anything if you stimulate the generally accepted G-spot area. It's worth a try to see if a woman likes the stimulation there (do some reading on where & how). If not, then don't keep doing it.
Of course, then it's fun to mix -- some of both. Trying to find the right mix is a great part of the fun, though, in most club settings, unless you've found a way to make bouncers & cameras disappear, the need to be subtle often precludes truly thorough efforts.
Plus, certain women are very into the initial feeling of penetration, as in stimulation around the labia. Some light teasing there can be a good precursor. Others prefer the feeling way in deep, while others don't want you fiddling with their cervix.
Long story short: You've gotta just try a bunch of things. This is where chemistry comes into play. In addition to finding a girl who will let you try (a rarity in many parts), you want a girl who's willing to be honest as to what is/isn't working with her, and you have to have the confidence, knowledge and self-esteem to say, "If I try five different things and none of them work, one of the next five things I try will."
I will gargle for an hour and say 2 Hail Mary's and hope for the best.
"Finger no good."
Sometimes in AMPs I've limited it to FOV for this reason. Even when I do do FIV, I go about it slowly, in stages.
In lots of reviews posted various places, at the best FS dive SC's, it sounds to be okay, and in the front room.
Where I have done booth dances, I have instead made them DATY.
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You *made* them DATY? Just exactly how did you do that? Sounds a bit like rape to me.