Younger Dancers
rickdugan
Verified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
As I sit here and think of the various dicey activities that I engaged in with dancers during 2013, one thing that sticks out in my mind is the downtrending in the ages of the girls that are offering up alternative services.
I am not sure how to feel about this. For many years, the girls that I engaged in edgier activities with were at least in their mid to late 20s and, since I was 40 and under myself, I didn't think much of it. However, I am now getting older while, at the same time, the girls offering these things are getting younger. Shit, some of the girls that made offers to me over the past couple of years were not old enough to drink, while I am 43.
This changing dynamic is starting to give me pause. If I was 50 and they were 30, then I doubt that I would care so much, but at 19 or 20 most girls know so little about life and their options that it makes me wonder how informed their choices really are.
Anyway, in 2014 I think that I will need to set a higher minimum age standard for my dicier activities. I simply no longer feel comfortable messing around with a girl who is not only young enough to be my daughter (albeit I would have needed to have her at 21 or 22), but is also too young to make decisions with her eyes wide open.
I am not sure how to feel about this. For many years, the girls that I engaged in edgier activities with were at least in their mid to late 20s and, since I was 40 and under myself, I didn't think much of it. However, I am now getting older while, at the same time, the girls offering these things are getting younger. Shit, some of the girls that made offers to me over the past couple of years were not old enough to drink, while I am 43.
This changing dynamic is starting to give me pause. If I was 50 and they were 30, then I doubt that I would care so much, but at 19 or 20 most girls know so little about life and their options that it makes me wonder how informed their choices really are.
Anyway, in 2014 I think that I will need to set a higher minimum age standard for my dicier activities. I simply no longer feel comfortable messing around with a girl who is not only young enough to be my daughter (albeit I would have needed to have her at 21 or 22), but is also too young to make decisions with her eyes wide open.
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The young ones are fine and firm but it is difficult for me to really connect with them even when it is strictly p4p. I think the younger they are the more they struggle with the weirdness factor of being with a perv twice their age. Too fine to resist though if the opportunity presents itself.
When we were arranging the OTC visit, she was genuinely confused about how hotels "worked." I had her call me when she got near the lobby, but it was clearly the first time that she had been in one, or at least a nice one anyway.
Her confusion and naivete really caused me to pause. Don't get me wrong, it didn't stop me. After all, I had already had her ITC. But after this trip I adopted an informal policy of never doing p4p again with a girl who was not old enough to drink.
But I welcome the opportunity to educate a young woman in the ways of the world from the perspective of my bed. They should learn these things from a knowledgeable man and not some wet behind the ears boy they went to high school with.
And even though I keep getting older for the most part strippers stay the same age. Enjoy life while you can boys.
I can put up with a *little* jaded for hot enough. The problem is that the jaded ones don't seem to put as much effort into maintaining the hotness.
The young ones, though, I can put up with a *lot* of flaky and naive for some young, sweet, tender, fresh, tight pussy.
old enough to not worry that she is underage,and mature enough to understand what our relationship is about, as well as experienced enough to be a good provider.
I have the same issue that I would rather not engage services from someone younger then my daughter but as I age I realize how limiting that is. At some point I would be looking for dances from a 50 year old, not going to happen.
I am providing self counseling related to this issue and should be soon ready to reset the clock and invite 19 year olds back into the VIP, still have to worry about the maturity issue:)
It also seems that the younger girls often don’t have a clue; IME.
I’m also 43; and sometimes do feel a bit guilty about “molesting†a very young dancer especially if she looks very young (e.g. spinner; etc.) – but at the same time; it’s not as if they are being forced and they are probably fucking guys their age w/o even getting paid and probably have been fucking since they were 13.
You couldn't pay me to get it up for a woman my age.
When the crows feet and preggo bellies start to kick in on the young ones, I'm gone faster than you can say "Wanna dance?"
So, why do guys of all ages, and I mean from 21 to 80 flock to her like white on rice? My conclusion is that there is an aura of sexual wickedness about her, not evil, but when you talk to her you sense that sex is like air, food and water to her. And it drives all men bonkers. On top of it all she's bright and loyal to her family.
Am I in love? No, but I am certainly in lust! Of all the women that I have met in my 32 years of marriage, she is the only one that if she were to ask, I would probably say yes, or Hell Yes! to.
As I look back, my other favorite dancers have shared these traits, though to a lesser degree. The maturity and smoking sexuality that comes with age is what does it for me!
But isn't this going to far the other way? I mean really...the girls are willing to indulge you for money. They are adults, albeit inexperienced. If I were you I'd steer clear of the major league druggies just 'cos that is a bad scene. But 18-21 year olds? I suspect there are 30 year olds in some socioeconomic strata that have never been in some upscale hotels. Or, if they have, have only been there for OTC.
And it's not like Juice or Dougsta would lie to us, is it? Those dudes would never tell a lie. Thing is...I keep following Juice's advice to show with a bucket of the Colonel's XXXtra KRIS-pay and I keep finding that the filthy lucre works better. Why d'ya think that is? Maybe Juice is a wizard or something...
I do not ask for the age of the dancers. Sometimes they just give it away. Sometimes, you can friend them on Facebook and figure it out from there. Sometimes, the other dancers tell you how old they are. Sometimes, they say something like their kid graduated high school, so someone like that is a minimum of mid-30's. To be honest, a lot of it is conjecture, but you can always make a reasonable guess how old they are.