I got a lap dance today and the girl was really grinding on me while faceing me which I was really enjoying. Shw was working hard and was starting to sweat and then she started moaning and pretty soon says "oh I'm cumming". Afterwards she told me thtat that was the first time she had cum during a dance. Although I have to beleive it was all part of the show and not real, she was pretty convincing. Anyone have any experiences like this? Is it common for dancers to fake orgasms during private dances?
I don't think that it is at all common for dancers to fake orgasms during private dances. I also don't think that it is common for dancers to have orgasms during private dances.
I agree. However a stripper could fake it too if she wanted to if she thought that might get you to buy more dances for some reason. Did you say anything about orgasms or did she? I have run into multiple dancers at one time who liked to moan a little bit either out in the club kidding around or in the dance room kidding around.
I had a fav earlier this year that told me it was not uncommon for her to come during dances and occasionally while on stage using the pole -- all when she had a clit ring. Can't remember why she said she no longer wore her jewelry. She also never claimed to cum while dancing for me.
Another current fav is either a world class actress or actually has come numerous times while dancing with me. Once she became comfortable with me and given the physical reaction of her body I believe her.
And why shouldn't the dancing girls have some fun too.
Just this past Sunday I licked a stripper's pussy until she came, and then she said, "You wanna clean up the mess you made?" To which I promptly licked the cum from her pussy clean.
While that does not constitute "dancing," it was during a LD that this happened. Does that count?
If so, it has happened several times for me. I love having to clean the stripper cum out of my goatee.
If they leave a damp spot on your pants, I'm pretty sure they've cum. My CF does this often and is so embarrassed and every time I say I'm glad it was a mutually pleasurable experience. A couple visits ago she actually let me feel the dampness of her panties after the dance.
Why are you guys so obssessed with figuring out if it's real or not? The whole idea of a strip club is you're paying for a fantasy. I do my best to believe the dancer really likes me, I really have the biggest dick, and she really did cum during the dance. If she can convince me, then I'm happy.
You must be the same guys who go to the Matterhorn at Disneyland and look for every little flaw in the "rocks" so you can say "See? It's not real!"
When my ATF wants to cum she straddles one of my legs and grinds on it. I had my #2 cum just a few weeks back from grinding on my cock, but it only happened that one time. This is a bikini club so her bottom was on, and I could smell her pussy and feel she was damp. She actually changed clothes after we were done.
AFAIK no other dancer has cum for me, although a few have faked it. I hate when they do that.
How could any guy who has made women cum for real in real life not be able to tell? Of course they're probably thinking of their girlfriend doing them with a strap on while they grind, but they do cum in dances. Want a physiological clue? When women orgasm their nipples get very erect, very hard and once done go soft. Now you know.
I have had them cum on me before during a dance. Like others have stated your pants are went from the outside and not the inside. ;-)
But yes it doesn't happen often but it has happened.
The last one was really grinding on me and I could tell the dance started to be for her and not me....she kept going and going until she got herself off.....yep paid for two dances and got 3 1/2 because she wanted to cum.
I believe that my CF orgasmed during her last VIP with me. None of her actions resembled anything I'd seen from her before and I was giving the southern region a good rubbing. Her humidity reading was pretty darn high, too.
Most of us PLs don’t cum from dances – I need to be inside the dancer (not over pants of course) in order for me to cum – I would think it’s pretty much the same thing for the dancer?
I will sometimes have some wetness/pre-cum while getting LDs; but I have not cummed. I have had many dancers leave a wet spot on me but I assume that although they may have gotten very wet; that does not mean they came.
Had an interesting experience last week that helped me understand this phenomenon. Earlier in the week got LDs with a dancer I had enjoyed previously. Each time she had danced for me, including last week, she claimed to have O'd. Saturday I saw her OTC at my hotel for a much more unrushed episode. She exhibited the same reactions she had in the VIP except that this went on for many minutes. I would have estimated at least a half dozen O's. When she left me she thanked me for the two great orgasms she had enjoyed. Wonder which were real and which were fake.
What the hell is pre-cum? I thought that was when you nut earlier than you expected usually before you do anything sexual. If the girl left a wet spot and it ain't an orgasm, then what the hell is it? Can't be sweat.
A woman can leave a snail trail a mile long on your pants (or other places) and it doesn't mean she came. But it is a great way to convince a customer that she did.
I have had dancers cum during a dance when it was practically going into her and I was giving her some really racy sex talk. One one occasion one requested I finger her quite liberally during a dance and she came as well crying out loudly. Then she wanted a tip....on top of the dance money.
I have to agree. Had an excellent example recently. Her nipples where as hard as pebbles & her pussy wet & she sure was moaning & making a lot of other noise. If it wasn't real, it sure helped me to think it was & enhanced my orgasm a great deal. ;) ;)
Oh my... So, FYI squirting is very rare. Most women can't do it and the ones who usually don't experience it frequently. I know that camming has changed people perspectives on this, but squirting on cam is easy to fake. Women do get wet when they are aroused, but they also get wet when they are wearing uncomfortable pants. Our bodies lubricant themselves as a response to friction. Wet pussy does not equal an orgasm.
And yeah, stripper fake orgasms. All women do. The ones who don't are lying. In the club it's usually to make a guy feel special and keep him in the hook. In the real world it might be to protect someone's ego, manipulate him into thinking your more into him or more sexual than you are, or to just make someone stop fucking you b/c you are not having fun. Lots of reasons.
Loved the post about getting an orgasm from the pole due to a piercing. That is batshit. Or maybe not. But I have certainly never seen a girl go that crazy, grinding her junk on a pole. How would that even work? I'm trying to imagine a position that would even be possible in. I think I could run one out using the stage faster than the pole... Generally, we use the pole for balance, spins and tricks. None of those things involve much clit to pole contact for more than a second or 2...
I do a very theatrical fake O. It's all about speeding up the breath, making a little noise and throwing in a few ugly faces. (Ugly faces are far more realistic than just tossing your head back and moaning.) Then I tense up, grap on to whoever and twitch a few times. The twitch comes from my pelvic region, but I exaggerate it by letting it radiate into my thighs and stomach. (During sex I can "butterfly" twitch my internal muscles on command.). After the twitch phase comes the completely limp/breathless phase. Then the "embarrassed" giggle.
I've had a few girls squirt on me from kitty play. One in particular I used to see on a regular basis. She soaked the private booth every time! I miss those days.
First off, we've all seen "When Harry Met Sally". Someone already mentioned this. Second, to all the ladies who fake orgasms, I have some great advice. Every 5th or 10th time, instead of faking it, just say that it ain't gonna happen this time. That way, when you do fake it, it'll seem more real and convincing. Please don't stop faking orgasms and us men won't stop faking that we actually listen to you and pay attention to your conversation.
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Is it possible? Sure. But the odds heavily favor it being bullshit. And it apparently worked, cause you're still thinking about it.
'Tis possible.
Another current fav is either a world class actress or actually has come numerous times while dancing with me. Once she became comfortable with me and given the physical reaction of her body I believe her.
And why shouldn't the dancing girls have some fun too.
While that does not constitute "dancing," it was during a LD that this happened. Does that count?
If so, it has happened several times for me. I love having to clean the stripper cum out of my goatee.
You must be the same guys who go to the Matterhorn at Disneyland and look for every little flaw in the "rocks" so you can say "See? It's not real!"
AFAIK no other dancer has cum for me, although a few have faked it. I hate when they do that.
But yes it doesn't happen often but it has happened.
The last one was really grinding on me and I could tell the dance started to be for her and not me....she kept going and going until she got herself off.....yep paid for two dances and got 3 1/2 because she wanted to cum.
I will sometimes have some wetness/pre-cum while getting LDs; but I have not cummed. I have had many dancers leave a wet spot on me but I assume that although they may have gotten very wet; that does not mean they came.
Wet spot means arousal but not orgasm IMO.
Similarly – a woman’s cuchie can and often get wet w/o having an actual O
I have to agree. Had an excellent example recently. Her nipples where as hard as pebbles & her pussy wet & she sure was moaning & making a lot of other noise. If it wasn't real, it sure helped me to think it was & enhanced my orgasm a great deal. ;) ;)
And yeah, stripper fake orgasms. All women do. The ones who don't are lying. In the club it's usually to make a guy feel special and keep him in the hook. In the real world it might be to protect someone's ego, manipulate him into thinking your more into him or more sexual than you are, or to just make someone stop fucking you b/c you are not having fun. Lots of reasons.
Loved the post about getting an orgasm from the pole due to a piercing. That is batshit. Or maybe not. But I have certainly never seen a girl go that crazy, grinding her junk on a pole. How would that even work? I'm trying to imagine a position that would even be possible in. I think I could run one out using the stage faster than the pole... Generally, we use the pole for balance, spins and tricks. None of those things involve much clit to pole contact for more than a second or 2...
I do a very theatrical fake O. It's all about speeding up the breath, making a little noise and throwing in a few ugly faces. (Ugly faces are far more realistic than just tossing your head back and moaning.) Then I tense up, grap on to whoever and twitch a few times. The twitch comes from my pelvic region, but I exaggerate it by letting it radiate into my thighs and stomach. (During sex I can "butterfly" twitch my internal muscles on command.). After the twitch phase comes the completely limp/breathless phase. Then the "embarrassed" giggle.
; )