SoonerSam

Unfortunately, I haven't any information on that club at all, bud. I haven't been there nor do I know anyone that has. FI was definitely THE mileage club in OKC. As for other clybs, some are okay, but not nearly what Fantasy Island provided.

I'm with EarlTee. Why are you asking?

Papi, even if Fantasy Island ends up closed down, there are a couple other clubs in OKC that cater to black crowds. A new one called the Oklahoma Gentlemen's Club opened recently. I think it's where the old Onyx Club used to be on NW 10th.

Club>Goer, I'm kinda the same way with respect to dancers and getting dances, although I tend to not worry as much about the sales pitch. I would like the chance to briefly talk to a dancer before I commit to buying dances simply because I think I can tell by a short conversation what kind of dance I will get without going into specifics with her. Other dancers, though, I've thought were so hot that I simply asked her while stage tipping or got the waitress to send her over. I think your OP is spot on, but I'm also not as concerned with how she tries to sell me. Having said that, I have had dancers who were not necessarily on my radar approach me and "sell" me on her LDs. That's more rare for me, but it does happen from time to time.

Hahaha Slick! Seriously, though, there is no protocol, man. However, you need to do one thing, simply two words: just ask. There's no big secret here. You see a girl you like, while she's on stage you tip her and ask her to join you at your table, which you can then ask her for a dance. Or you can ask her when you tip her. Either works, and if you ask her while she's on stage, she'll be more likely to come by since she knows you're interested in spending money on her. You can't wait for them to make the first move, otherwise you'll do exactly what you did - walk out with a full wallet.