First time OTC
SoonerSam
Well, I had my first OTC experience with a dancer at the club I frequent the most last night. It was pretty awesome. I first met her last Wednesday at the club, and she immediately became my current ATF. And after last night, she shot to the top of my all time ATF list. This girl is amazing. I have every intention of socking away money for her every chance I get. It was a true GFE, not rushed. She treated me VERY well. Of course, I treated her well, too. It was just awesome.
Can you guys remember your first time OTC experience with a stripper? What was yours like? Did any of you have an amazing first experience? Did anyone have a bad experience?
Can you guys remember your first time OTC experience with a stripper? What was yours like? Did any of you have an amazing first experience? Did anyone have a bad experience?
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Dude – that is a bit of a troubling statement – looks like you are in RIL territory.
You wouldn’t be the first guy to get totally fucked up by a stripper; financially and every other way.
You may see her as a goddess but she most likely sees you as an ATM that she will want to withdraw from as much as she can for as long as she can – IMO.
Be very careful that you don’t start giving her $$$ when/if she starts asking for it for anything other than p4p – i.e. pay on your own terms not hers – don’t fall for her drama of her not having money for this or that (rent; cell ph; car fixing; etc) – these chicks will use you and you may not even notice the reality of the situation b/c you may be a RIL.
I’m not saying you should believe me – but definitely keep it in mind.
Again, I have definitely been burned by a couple of strippers in the past. Stupid mistakes by me. Hopefully I have learned from them. But thanks for keeping me honest, Papa.
Well four years and $200,000 later I've come to realize how I've been used, abused, and shaken down. I knew better but thought just one more time. I had resources to help her. What I didn't take into account was whether she really wanted "help" or just money. I know her well. I know when she lies and when she doesn't. Has it been a blast? Most definitely ! Would I do it again? No. What she did for me I could now find 10 others to do it for less than 1/2 the cost. The emotional toll is almost as devastating as the financial
Rule #1: Never fall in love with a whore. Rule #2. Don't forget rule #1
Seriously, great thread. I'm glad to know I'm not the only one that gets attached to some of these girls. Great rules gawker.
I always said well i live literally two minutes from here..never showed (never expected her to, but dissappointed none the less) so after the third time of no call no show, i see her at the club and she walks over and apologizds and something came up blah blah. I just kinda looked at her and said, honestly i dont care, id still come here and drink my beer and get a dance or two from you whether you played the string a long or didnt, but i think its fucked up you lie to someone thats never asked anything of you. I just wanted to drink a beer and shoot some pool, maybe watch you shake you ass.
It was 4 years later at the Memphis Platinum Plus that I finally made my first OTC hookup. I remember she sat down with me and asked me if I liked redheads with big tits. I did. We did a couple of high mileage couch dances and I got brave and asked her if she would come to my hotel. I was a little surprised when she said yes. She wanted $40 upfront to make her tip out and I gave it to her. Knowing what I know today, I probably would not have done that.
30 minutes later she shows up at my hotel room, hair still wet from a shower. I appreciated that. By todays standard the sex was just so so but back then I was totally pleased.
Lately things have not worked out well for me. My last 3 attempts never got off the ground. Not a big deal. VIP is working fine.
I've only had OTC twice. The first was fun, a one time thing, but she was more business than pleasure, and she disappeared shortly after anyway. The second is my current ATF but I don't pay her OTC anymore. We're more FWB's; we hang out. I do pay her ITC of course though; it's fun getting dances with her and her friends.
So sad that her phone number is kaput.
I had a great arrangement with one girl I adored ... I'd pick her up at the end of her shift, take her to dinner and drinks, and then hit the hot tubs, for $$ to her and the cost of dinner/drinks/tubs to me. For her, it was a way to bump up her take on slow day shifts (often by as much as 200% on really slow days) for an extra two hours max of work.