Extras

Some of us don't even consider mutual crotch rubbing to be extras. That's a normal dance, right? Anything less than that doesn't even qualify! Lol

I have no interest in being teased. FS is the objective. When it is not available, fine, but I won't be buying dances that are just dances.

Some of us don't actually have to pay for sex.

I want heavy contact lap dances, but yeah I don't usually go looking for extras.

Crotch rubbing? try an ointment for that

From what I've read here and elsewhere there are apparently enough lonely guys, usually older, who just pay dancers for sitting with them and cuddling. Would most of us here settle for that? Of course not. But it seems to be common enough that many dancers will seek out that kind of deal because they will bank without having to do much of anything. And getting paid to do nothing is very high on most stripper's agenda.

^ well, who would really pass that up?

@sclvr5005.. I'm pretty sure getting paid to do nothing is high on anyone's agenda..

I go for the cuddle and the fuck

But !

I only spend money big money on extras....very little money on cuddling and dances

What duo said.

see me and dabigtipper live in the same area and go to some of the same clubs even shot a few messages to each other
extras are very popular around here.. recently i havent really been going for extras but keep money in my pocket just in case

I don't know Rell but anyone who props themselves is good in my book.

I really don't get how extras could be popular, i don't think many of the people who post here like them

@ malaika- perhaps, but strippers tend to take it to the next order of magnitude.

I beat Da pussy up !

Unless there is contact without clothing in the way then it isn't an extra.

There's no logic to what people want sexually.

Everyone's definition of "extras" may be different. My definition certainly is. It's a gray area and really - who cares what anybody else thinks it is as long as you're happy with what you get?

And as far as folks going to clubs not looking for extras - to each their own. I wouldn't want them judging me so I'm certainly not gonna judge them.

My 2nd hand information: the "fantasy date" type cuties rarely will pay even $10 a song to just talk. They are not favored over a guy who wants a 15 or 30 minute dance, or if a dancer thinks there's several custies with whom she can just grind and go.

I'm looking for a good time with a dancer that turns me on. If she turns me on, I don't need the extras.

I always get extre ketchup and musterd

Thanks for sharing your perspectives on extras. I know they are more than just mutual touching but some places you can't even touch and you pay money for air or table dances. Not judging anyone, to each their own. To answer one of the comments above about them not having to pay for sex, if you take a girl on a date you have paid for sex just in a different form. You can quote me on this "If I ain't cumming I ain't going"

I always aim for the highest level of extras available, FS being the ultimate for me (either ITC or OTC).

@Dabigtipper-I've asked the same question myself. I want as much as I can get yet at the same time there are fellow TUSCLers that may be in relationships where extras would violate the parameters of their relationship.

I prefer fucking in the comfort of my home or her house, not in a club. I will do foreplay in a club though, DATY, FIV, sucking titties etc.

Yeah if I wanted to pay for sex, I'd hire an escort. After all, ranukam is right. There are ways to get extras for free in a strip club (still wish I can get the ultimate level though)

Extras (HJ; BJ; FS) obviously cost more $$$ - so if one likes variety – the cost of extras can often prohibit this.

Perhaps in some areas like Detroit extras may be more common than LDs? But down here in Miami; where extras can be had; I notice way more people heading to the LD room than the extras room.

First off we lose the notion that I would pay $30 for a dance and not get extras.

Yes, I'm one of the ones that goes to the club for dances but extras aren't required. Since I'm not asking for extras, I ain't paying over $10 per song. That better include some fair to good 2-way contact or we are done. I know where I can get rubbed off sitting at the bar for $5 per song with extras always available in VIP. Hell, could probably get bbhj during standard lap dance if I talked sweet enough.

What was the original question again.... Oh yeah, I do ITC extras with the right girl for the right price.

Probably get BBHJ? Dude, what's up with you dick that she wants it raincoated even to touch it with her hand?

Joe....know thats just crazy