How to juggle Favorite Dancers
Lionshare
Pennsylvania
I have 5 favorite dancers at my favorite club. Two are day shift gals, and the other three are nights. Of those five I just started an otc relationship with 1 of them. By that I mean, I did an otc with her and I told her I wont be seeing her itc anymore, except for a few dances if Im there.
Of the two dayshift girls, 1 is a commuter who lives in a different state byt flies in to make money every few weeks. So that solves the who to visit during day shift.
Now at night that leaves two girls there when I visit. So how do you guys decide how to spend your time at the clubs. Do you like variety and shy away frim designating favorite. Or do you pick just one favorite and stick. Or do you do what I did and get multiple favorites and have to decide whuch one to spend on each visit? This creates much more drama than I anticipated. In hindsight I would have never given any of them my number, except for my otc girl. Then I wouldnt feel pressured everytime I visit.
Of the two dayshift girls, 1 is a commuter who lives in a different state byt flies in to make money every few weeks. So that solves the who to visit during day shift.
Now at night that leaves two girls there when I visit. So how do you guys decide how to spend your time at the clubs. Do you like variety and shy away frim designating favorite. Or do you pick just one favorite and stick. Or do you do what I did and get multiple favorites and have to decide whuch one to spend on each visit? This creates much more drama than I anticipated. In hindsight I would have never given any of them my number, except for my otc girl. Then I wouldnt feel pressured everytime I visit.
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I have two favorites. Different clubs but they know each other (vaguely).
One is a 10 but lower mileage. I've been using the other one to ramp up the mileage with the 10. should I feel guilty, cuz I do. Lol
However, I've been able to successfully juggle multiple faves. It just takes money. When I had several faves in the same club at the same time, I'd make certain that I got the same number of dances (usually four), from them. They were all happy with that. I even encouraged them to get to know each other. I like it when all of my faves know each other. (Even though that seems contrary to usual logic. It has worked well for me.)
But now, I'm in a different situation and I have to watch my club spending. Like Victor2 said, "play their schedules." I'm able to do that. At one club I have three faves. Fortunately they work different enough schedules that I can go in when just one of them is in, or two, and even all three. So, I plan my trips accordingly. (And, I can get all three for OTC when I want to.)
I tend to love variety. When I SC, I like to get dances from whom I feel like getting dances from in that particular visit – not get dances, or feel obliged to, from the same girl just b/c I have in the past or b/c she wants/expects me to.
I go to the SC to be entertained and get away from it all – I don’t want to deal with any dancer drama along the lines of how many dances I need to get from her or how much I am going to spend on her to keep her “happy†– I SC to have my needs met and not to worry about keeping so and so “happyâ€.
Just my personal view/preference.
I choose among the remaining three based on who I hadn't gotten dances from my last visit or two. All the dancers seem to know this too, and usually say, "Oh here to see Stephania today," or something similar when they see me.
Seems some clubbers are dealing w/ SOS (Significant Other Shit) at the club and paying for it :)
I try to stick with them all giving me the same deal on dance prices. I have run into two of the dancers talking to each other a lot. One found out from the other that I had a deal going on with the other that was just not two for $30, but two for $20 if I got more than 4 dances. When the other dancer found out, she told me she could do that deal too. I have gotten that deal a few times, not always. I usually get tired of getting dances from the same dancer after 4 songs if not sooner. Some of my favorites like to sit and talk for a while too.
If you have multiple favorites at one club, they will keep you busy. I remember one time I saw 8 favorites show up. Now I'm down to only 2 or 3. I don't ask what their schedules are. I hope at least one favorite shows up but sometimes 3 or more show up. One draw back if you don't like it, one favorite might go and tell the other girl you are here after you got dances from the first even if you were thinking about skipping out or avoiding her for a while.
I even have one favorite I pay more than the others. I try to leave myself an out if I ever get caught on the price. I usually only buy one set of two dances from her. I believe she doesn't talk to the other two. No complaints so far. She only seems to show up sporadically. If all Memphis dancers used to be like her, I see why that was a popular club. She's hot.
Either you'll be in luck or experience some major drama. It might be fun to watch.
I don't make promises. I don't claim exclusivity. In fact, I tease them all the time when I see them talking to another guy "WHAT? I thought what we had was special and you weren't dancing for anyone else" in a very sarcastic tone of course. I lay the groundwork with most of them that this is what it is. Also, once I've met a girl OTC, I almost never get dances from her again. Hell, I don't really get dances from anyone except as an audition for a new girl. I always tell the girls I like to save my money for outside the club.
Then, when I'm in the club and I see one or more girls I've met before, I simply say something like, "Im not up for meeting tonight, just hanging out. Feel free to sit here and have a drink if you'd like, or, if you want to stalk the room and make some money, I won't be hurt" If they mention a dance i just remind them that that's not my thing.
Now.....sometimes I do play the dating card and act like there's a connection. that makes juggling a little harder. But, to be honest, I'm close enough to those girls that they rarely even go into work when I'm in town. If I make the trip into their city and they go into work instead of going out with me, then they made their decision to dance for other guys over me so I have no qualms about talking to other girls in front of them.
That is what is nice about lots of favorites, even if one or two accidentally get pissed off for whatever reason, there are lots more who aren't. After a week or two, the ones who were realize you aren't married to them and come back around. If not, then no problem. The only time I haven't seen a dancer come back is when she got fired.
When I first started going to strip clubs, I originally let one dancer dominate and she seemed to dominate all the other dancers as far as I was concerned. After one night when she got super pissed off for no good reason that she quit the club for 3 months, I was surprised at how many other dancers came up to me so quickly. I started missing her after 3 months but then she showed back up with a better attitude.
I have to say that is one pissed off dancer who quits a club just because you might be there. I think she really thought I was some kind of sugar daddy or something. She was crazy. got all super pissed off because I didn't buy her something. This something had nothing to do with strip clubs. It was contact lenses she wanted. I have no idea what kind of crazy idea she had that made her think I would pay for them. So I did experience lots of drama with a dancer who I never slept with who expected something for a reason I never understood and she got so pissed off about it she quit the club for 3 months just because she knew I would be there on some nights. That is crazy.
I'd tend to agree.
This from the guy who spend the better part of three years having an all but exclusive relationship with one stripper. But she's gone so, as shadowcat so eloquently put it, I get to be a slut again.