Move With a Favorite
inno123
I purposely avoid having a 'favorite' dancer. Part of the whole point of clubbing for me is not having a distracting relationship.
But for those of you who do or once did: If the dancer changed clubs would you follow her? If the club was more expensive how much more would it take for you to just look for a new favorite instead? If the club was farther away how many extra miles would you be willing to drive before just looking for a new favorite instead?
But for those of you who do or once did: If the dancer changed clubs would you follow her? If the club was more expensive how much more would it take for you to just look for a new favorite instead? If the club was farther away how many extra miles would you be willing to drive before just looking for a new favorite instead?
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I've never had what most people here would consider an ATF though (I've never had any sort of relationship or contact with a dancer outside of seeing them in a club), so I'm probably not the best judge of an ATF relationship. I did have one girl that I enjoyed seeing at the local DV who went to Las Vegas once a month or so to work a weekend there. I went to her club in Vegas to see her there, but I didn't make the trip special just to see her; I was already going to be there anyway for a friend's birthday. But, once she stopped working at the local DV, there really wasn't much reason for me to go there any more. Club distance in my area wouldn't play much into any decision about following a girl if I found one I really liked though.
Before that it wasn't unusual for me to follow a girl and try out her new club. Found some good clubs that way. Found some bad clubs that way.
In all honesty, I tend to prefer a club more than specific dancers. That said, there are dancers who if I like them in one club, I will more than likely like them in a different club. My first ATF, I got to see her dance in 4 different clubs and she got my money in all of them. Of course, all of them were within an hour of home here in Omaha. If she danced 2 hours away from home, I might have passed. I never did see her in Wisconsin, for instance, no matter how hard she tried to get me to go there. And she was not the only one I saw at multiple clubs.
With all that said, I have a hard time conceiving of my current ATF leaving her club, unless she drops out of the stripping business (again).
I once went to one of the nearby clubs in Columbia SC when an old favorite who apparently still had my phone number called me up after not seeing her for a whole year or two. She was working the week at Platinum and wanted me to visit. In that one case, I went to visit but it had been a year or two since I last saw her. This was several years ago. The last former favorite who moved to another club a year or two ago I ran into and I refused to give her my phone number after she asked. I was mainly afraid she was crazy enough to show up at my house and not leave me alone. If she knew I didn't change my number, she could have gotten it from her cell phone records.
Bet that has happened. :))