"Finishing" a Lap Dance
cptndshon86
I'm sure most guys have been in this situation, you're getting a LD or you're in VIP and the dancer just hits 'that' spot and you're at the point of no return. In my limited experience of attending gentlemen's clubs, I have only encountered this situation twice. The first was when the dancer was vigorously rubbing up on me, she was obviously trying to get me to finish, well hell, she did. The second was an interesting experience. It was much more sensual, and the dancer barely even touched me. She was nude, and the music and the mood was just right. I remember it vividly, she spread her legs over mine, leaned toward me and gently sucked on my neck. She smelled beautiful, and that was incredible. Here's the deal: what the hell am I supposed to do when I finish at the end of the dance? In my two experiences, the dancers acted like it was cute. The dance is over, and I would rather stay for a couple more songs and get a few more LDs, but I still have a raging hard on and a cumstain seeping through my belt, so I feel obligated to beat it (I mean...leave..).
Patrons, what are your experiences with this type of situation? Do you leave the establishment when the dance is finished, or do you stick around and hit the bathroom to clean up?
Dancers, similar question, what are your experiences, what do you *really* think when a patron finishes when you're dancing for him, and is it bothersome when it happens? Are dancers normally pretty keen when a patron is about to finish and doesn't want to so he pushes her away a little bit? This topic may have been covered before, but hey, new perspectives are good for everybody :)
Patrons, what are your experiences with this type of situation? Do you leave the establishment when the dance is finished, or do you stick around and hit the bathroom to clean up?
Dancers, similar question, what are your experiences, what do you *really* think when a patron finishes when you're dancing for him, and is it bothersome when it happens? Are dancers normally pretty keen when a patron is about to finish and doesn't want to so he pushes her away a little bit? This topic may have been covered before, but hey, new perspectives are good for everybody :)
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I had a great dance one time from a stripper who was at her last night on the job because (I found out later) she had gotten pregnant and was dropping out of school and moving back home. She got very wet and into it and was grinding so much that she tore my suit pants at the crotch (still need to get them fixed). There are some freaks who really see it as a challenge to get the guy to pop and God bless them for that. Most of the girls I know can tell that you are highly aroused and they try to help you out, but know that you appreciate the effort. I can usually convey to them that I was very, very close and that I thoroughly enjoyed my time with them. And, of course, padding the green a little tells them all they need to know.
Usually they'll push me away gently and I'll get the hint. I'd rather you didn't cum on me, thanks very much, and no one has. A tap or a verbal warning so I can move out of the danger zone is appreciated. Outfits are expensive and it seems like the guys that I go back to the VIP with understand this on some subliminal level.
this has never happened to me. and i'm glad it hasn't, i just can't picture cumming in my pants to be fun.
but at the same time, when i read about stuff like this on TUSCL, it really makes me wonder if i've ever gotten a really good lap dance
Once or twice a shift on average? Really! Who are your customers - super horny 18 year old virgin nerds?
You need a clientele of elderly Canadian oilmen.
Um, dude, I hate to say it, but there really is something wrong with you. You're a man, man. Our lives revolve around sex. We're sexual animals. Enjoy it. No room for worrying about a freakin' stain. Don't care what others think. Be proud of busting a nut.
You worried about other customers seeing the stain? Who the hell cares? Do YOU stare at guys crotches in the club? Of course not. Neither do we. Customers are too busy staring at dancers, not you. And if they see a big stain, so what? Be proud of it.
And I hope you aren't all concerned about whether the dancer gets any on her. That's her problem. They're professionals. Change into a new outfit and she's fine.
Reminds me of years ago I was walking thru the parking lot of a club during the day, and a guy was coming out of the club with a smile on his face. In the daylight it was hard to miss the fact that he had a HUGE dark wet stain in his loose, light gray shorts, and a tent in his shorts from a post-lap boner. The guy was walking proudly, he head held up high. I smiled, and gave him a thumbs up.
I was proud of that guy.
lol
lol! *deeply amused*
And I'll bet you don't need to get off like that, either. Because you have a line of much hotter girls waiting for you at a moment's notice. And anyway, who wants to get off all the time? I mean, really, it's just sex. And in your pants? Gross. And certainly not sanitary.
Now I understand. Thanks.
Like I said, if that's your thing, go for it. Have fun.
fetish_dancer: Yeah. Coined by my current fave (at least, she's the only one I've hear use it) when she was talking about some of her customers on the very subject.
god, fail.
Take your dick out of her mouth.
Umm, fetish, baby, guys rag on each other. It's a thing we do. I was ragging on him. Girls don't get that. They think we're being mean to each other. I was pulling his chain. I was also ragging on the guys here who seem wound up tighter than a drum. There are a few.
But maybe I'm overthinking