Old Guys "Weird Out" Younger Men in Strip Clubs

Nice. But if the whipper-snappers can't handle the sight of me with my arms wrapped around the object of their lust, they should stay home and play with their legos. :)

Very good post, boatmonkey. I have a foot in both camps but I am fast approaching yours. There will come a day when the most exciting thing for me might be an additional item on the cafeteria menu at the nursing home. But I am trying to have some fun while I still can, and my body still operates the way it should. I am still young at heart, and there is a reason for that old saying that youth is wasted on the young.

I have to side with looneylarry I'm 20yrs. in either direction and those 20 creep up on you quickier than you think. I'm just looking at Hef and a few others for direction, but I would never say I wont be looking for laps in my golden years, it's very possible!!

nymphincola had this to say in a review for my favorite club. "I do believe however that there is something insanely wrong with my fellow patrons who believe in "two for 20s" and pressure the girls go beyond their comfort zone; because of you all, I get stuck with girls who have bad attitudes. Titty bars are to have a good time, and some of you old patrons are ruining the experience."

My reply to him was "if you can't run with the old dogs, stay on the porch".

The younger patrons should hope and pray they still have the interest and ability those older guys are showing in young women when they get that age. Older men like that are inspiration for the rest of us.

I think the real thing that should weird out these young bucks is that if guys can't get dances from younger girls then the clubs will be filled with 50 year old strippers, because that seems about the median age of club patrons.

I really don't give a flying fuck what these young assholes think. Truth be told, most dancers prefer their older customers anyway,.

As an old dude, I'm happy to weird out young customers. My dancer friends tell me young guys just want to talk (probably because they don't have the money to pay for dances), and so they like the old guys who will spend money on them. It's nice to have hot young girls run over to me when I enter the club, leaving the whipper-snappers in the dust.

Boatmonkey, I love this thread! I think I'm a bit to the right of Shadowcat in terms of age. I've been enjoying nude and scantily clad women for many, many years, (playing 'doctor' at age 8) and starting in high school when we could sneak out to a drive-in movie, that God forbid, had a short clip from a nudist colony. When seeing a bit of external thigh from Bridget Bardot turned you on, you know I was born into the wrong generation... These young guys who grew up with 'friends with benefits' or even a middle-schooler who learned oral sex practically before she had her monthly 'friend', or went to college with girls for whom 'hooking up' is a typical Wednesday night activity, don't have a clue about how we old farts enjoy current times. Many of us are married to women who still much prefer to receive (very occasionally) rather than give oral sex.

Although I have never really felt that young guys are weirded out by my being in a club, it certainly is true that in some clubs, the girls hang out between numbers mostly with guys who could be my son, or, holy shit, not far from being my grandson. But I have also had a number of strippers tell me that they prefer older guys to younger, drunk, aggressive, often cheap, guys who are closer to their age.

We old farts appreciate labia majora and labia minora, and even aureoles, more than some young studs. We also enjoy whatever attention Mr. Happy might get, and even are willing to pay for it. The odd nipple in the mouth from a very well turned breast is still a thing to behold.

Fortunately, we're not totally out of the game. The idea that 60 is the new 40 is great, but sometimes the calendar doesn't lie. A purple pill may be a good friend, but Mr. Happy is still pretty much on his own.

My wife is out of town tonight, so in a few minutes I'm going to check in on a couple favs I don't see often enough. There may be a few young newbies (at least to me)on hand whom I will certainly enjoy, but it's likely to be one or two more mature ladies who will occupy my time and help empty my wallet.

Clamheart, I agree that we older gents have a different and deeper appreciation of the female body than I did when I was younger. We also are experienced lovers and know how to treat and please a women who is in our arms and open to our advances. My favs have appreciated that. And my message to the young guys is: "Old age and treachery will overcome youth and skill".

All this may be true, but what I really object to is the older guys who often seem to fall in love with the hot young strippers, and inevitably lock down the hot girls for hours, talking and acting like they're 20 again and on a date. That's fine, but it sucks for the other guys waiting for a dance from her. Guys, we're not there to meet girls and find a date. We're there to watch lots of hot girls, and in my case get some great lap dances from some hot girls. I have no interest in talking to them, or wooing them, trying to be their boyfriend. I want them to give me some lap dances and then move on so the next hot dancer can have a chance.

This is a great thread. Most of the comments are postive, well thought out and well stated. I am a 61 year old guy that doesn't require any purple pills yet, but also has a wife of 35 years that is no longer interested in bedroom activity. When you young studs reach that 50 - 60 age range the odds are very good that you too will find yourself married to someone that you love, but no longer is interested in sex or helping out with your needs. Thus many / most of us "old farts" that you see at strip clubs are nice guys looking for a little companionship and maybe a little physical release. So, give us a break. The financial information and dancer preferences mentioned above for some of us older guys that will indeed help support those dancers is right on. There usually is more than enought dancer time and dancer attention for all of us.

Thanks for all the comments, guys. This is my first article but I enjoyed writing it and will try to come up with some more of my thoughts. I appreciate your responses!

I did go out last night as I indicated, and I ran this thread by my fav. She agreed that she prefers guys who appreciate her as more than one in a line that jerikson40 seems to want. (His last phrase about the 'next hot dancer can have a chance' is either misstated or arrogant as hell that the girls can have a chance with him...)

In most clubs, if a guy wants a dance with a particular girl, he either walks up to her and asks, even if she's with someone else, or makes eye contact and gestures, or asks a waitress or other dancer to tell the girl he's interested. Very few dancers will pass on that opportunity. In fact, last night I tapped my fav on the shoulder while she was sitting with someone else, and she responded immediately. I don't see old farts locking down girls for hours. In my experience, it's the girls who seek out whom they want to sit with, not a bunch of duffers staking out territory.

Clamheart, relax. No need to get upset and defensive. When I talked about giving other dancers a chance there was nothing arrogant about it. It's a fact that dancers are there to make money, and the more dances they get the more money they make. They LIKE IT when you buy dances from more than just one dancer. Economics 101. And I see old guys, usually regulars, lock down the hottest dancers all the time. Like the original post stated, old guys often have time to spend all afternoon at a club, and go there on a regular basis. And I'm constantly seeing regulars who are ALWAYS there. And they come there on a regular basis to spend time with who they think are their girlfriends. You're dreaming if you think that's not the case. Guys who are trying to re-live their younger days. And many dancers LOVE having reliable regulars. Especially during dayshifts, when business is slow. Again, Economics 101.

Young guys should hope that they can still enjoy the ladies at the clubs when they get older. Physically, and socially. Most dancers prefer older customers. Young guys usually don't spend money, are rude, and don't know how to play the game yet. And if guys are smart, they will go for the older dancer who takes care of her self. You get the good body with the much under rated "experience" factor (that the young guys don't appreciate yet).

Girlfriend likes older customers. Besides fatter wallets, they have a softer touch emotionally and physically, and are more at ease with themselves and straightforward to deal with. IOW if they're looking for extras they just say so, instead of groping around or playing mind games.

Personally I love to weird out or see the jealousy of cocky!! young guys (mostly early 20's and up to 30) both ITC and OTC. I should say I'm in my 50's and still date ladies as much as 30 years younger in the real world and P4P. I know for a fact as I've matured I've become a much better lover and young women are extremely appreciative. I've had the drunk cocky young guys approach my date and ask why she's with the old guy. The response they got from her was "when you learn to appreciate and satisfy a woman like he does, you will have someone like me with you - now go play with your X-box and get some manners". You have to love it when a hot 23 y/o lady does your dirty work for you :).

jerikson40> "but what I really object to is the older guys who often seem to fall in love with the hot young strippers, and inevitably lock down the hot girls for hours, talking and acting like they're 20 again and on a date"

Last time I knew SC's were all about selling a fantasy. If it's a guys fantasy for a girl to be his GF ITC or OTC and he's willing to pay for it, all the power to him if it makes him happy.

"Guys, we're not there to meet girls and find a date."

You should probably read the board more. There's an overwhelming amount of guys on here wanting to date or OTC/P4P with the girls.

"When I talked about giving other dancers a chance there was nothing arrogant about it. It's a fact that dancers are there to make money, and the more dances they get the more money they make."

Odds are she is making more money sitting there with the "older guys" than she would giving 2-3 dances to 6-10 different guys. That's stripper economics 101 Not to mention the fact that she isn't going to leave her regular with $$$ alone at the chance of another girl catching his attention or swooping in on him.

These are just my thought's and totally agree that there are plenty of girls for everyone to enjoy.
P.S. If I was trying to re-live my younger days, I would be trying to marry them - NOT HAPPENING!

I was going to rebut jerickson40's points, but jackoff did a good job already. I don't really think these old guys (oops, that's probably me) are trying to "date" these girls. And they are not escapees from the retirement home with time on their hands during the day. While jerickson40 is busy at work and can't stake out his territory during the day, these older guys are probably taking time off from their work, cause they might even OWN THE DAMN COMPANY. So, until young buck wants to start up his own business and see it be successful, he is faced with working his 8-5 job and getting his paycheck, and waiting until after work to go to the club.

And another thing, dancers' schedules are all over the board. The dancers that dance during the day may not at all during the night, some may do both occasionally, some may have irregular schedules. So to think that the old guy goes to the club in the afternoon to stake out the dancer and thus get an unfair advantage, is faulty reasoning.

If these old dudes are delusional, so are the young guys. Neither thinks these girls are going to be their girlfriends. If the old dude wants to spend his wad of money, let him. If the rich young dude throws money at a girl, you don't hear the old guys bitching. THAT'S the Golden Rule: he who has the gold, makes the rules. If some young Mark Cuban kind of guy monopolizes a hot girl, I don't like it but what am I gonna do? Until I make my first million, I just need to accept it.

While I'm not the oldest guy here, I am an "old guy", at least based on the comments above. Yeah, I'm one of those "regulars" who locks down the hottest girl in the club (well, I think she is) for hours at a time. Until I run out of money.

She hangs with me in the club because I'm spending money, or because nobody else is spending any, and she knows I'm good for a drink or two when it's slow. She gives me time because when we're not in the club, I'm spending way more money on her, and she knows it, and knows that I'm a picky motherfucker and won't spend any more on a girl who gives me short shrift. She goes out with me because I'm paying her to fuck, and I don't give her any shit about handing over the money when we're done.

When I'm out of money, she's gone.

I also tend to treat her with some measure of respect, because I like it when pretty women choose to talk to me instead of young shitheads who seem to think that words like "bitch" and "shawty" are terms of endearment.

Honestly, some of these girls should get Oscars for their acting ability in the face of that kind of treatment. I spend a fair bit of time with the girls at a local club in the smoking area, and so I guess they've gotten somewhat comfortable with my presence, and some of conversations they have about customers would curl your toes. Then they go out, put that smile on their face, and start with the "hey baby" like they weren't all complaining about what an asshole the guy was just three minutes before.

If the young guys really want to spend the kind of time with the girls that the regulars get, then maybe they ought to think about emulating the regulars, rather than complaining about them.

Wow. Old guys also get real defensive...

Guess I'd better not say how pathetic it is that, as "jackoff" says, there are an "overwhelming" number of guys on here wanting to date the dancers.

Okay, well I'll just slowly back out of here and let you guys congratulate each other on being awesome-er than anyone else.

I have to side with jerikson40 on the irritation I can feel when I see girls who aren't circulating because some guy has them all tied up and is just sitting and gabbing. Not long ago, I watched a beautiful black girl I was interested in listen and listen to a guy, who actually wasn't what I would term "old" at all, maybe 45, and I figured I would wait my turn. After about 45 minutres, when I was about to return to work, she gets up and comes over to me. I laughed and said "What's he telling you - his fucking life story?" and she laughed and shushed me and said "That just happens sometimes".

Another time I was gabbing it up with my ATF and another stripper came by and said "Can I borrow her for a minute?" and then she whispered to my girl that another young guy in a ballcap wanted to have her dance for him. The love of my life barely said goodbye as she rushed to take care of business.

The lesson for me in these experience is don't wait forever for a girl. Be polite but tip her on stage or send the waitress or another dancer to tell her you would like to see her. At the least, you'll get in her queue. My ATF has one old dude that just likes to talk and actually pays her to sit and chat with no dances ever. But that's unusual and all the girls are there to pay their bills. Unless you are hienous, they will come see you if they know you want to spend some time AND MONEY with them.

Now let's all get out there and spend some dough this week helping these angels cope with life's challenges. And let's have fun together doing it.

Wanting to date dancers are not exclusively for old guys. I'm 25 yrs old, and I want to date my ATF the first day I met her.

My point is that is okay to think guys wanting to date dancers as PL, but these guy could be young and old.

60 is definitely the new 40, most young women enjoy us older men.

I more or less feel it should be the opposite attitude, the middle age and older guys being weirded out by young guys in a strip club. When i was in my 20s and 30s I rarely went to a club and then pretty much only for bachelor parties. When you are that age, you should actually be dating hot young girls - or at least trying to.

Chances are, if you are 20 something, you can't afford to really enjoy a strip club and you are the ones taking up the girls' time with meagre attempts to get keep their attention for little or no money. On the other hand, there are girls in your own age/socioeconomic class who will spend the entire evening with you for less than the cost of a couple of lappers, if you take em to a movie or out for a couple of drinks. If you aren't a complete ass, more of them are likely to sleep with you than the dancers are. maybe they aren't as slutty hot looking as you might want (although a lot of them are) an enthusiastic semi-cute "civilian" girl is still usually a better treat than the professional attentions of a girl who is ONLY there for the money.

Thickasabrick, I agree with you totally.

If you're a male in your 20's or early 30's, you should be able to date young, hot girls that are in their prime. You shouldn't have to go to a strip club to see or get attention from pretty women that are around the same age as yourself.And that's hard for me to admit, because I'm one of the younger guys. I'm only 24. And yet I go to the club once a month. That said, I work and commute back and forth college, so I don't meet a lot of women because I'm always on the move.

Honestly, I feel like strip clubs are more suited for older guys that, because of their age, know they aren't going to get attention from young girls anymore. So, a strip club is somewhere they can go and get receive the type of attention from the younger girls that they desire.

I guess it really depends - there are merits to younger guys going to strip clubs, especially places where the dancer quality is so high that you're not even likely to find too many college girls, etc. that are as hot. Not to mention, to get girls' attention at a strip club takes little effort - it's all about the $. For someone that has the $ to spend (some young guys do), it can be worth it.

Nice thead, I visit about 15-20 clubs throughout North America, some more often then others. I have found that if I reach the status of being noticed at a club, I more often then not have a challenge of brushing off the younger dancers as they will sit and talk and interupt my plans. I either have to tell them to "please don't let me interupt your working" or tell them I am just wanting to relax and enjoy the view.Problem is there is a respect among most dancers that once they have "marked" you as theirs the others stay away but within a distance. I would like all dancers to know that just because you see me sit and pay for a dance from one of you co-workers does not mean I am not available to all.I find this to happen with the youngest and newest of dancers more so then the more experienced dancers. As an "older" residence of the hobby, I would rather have a dance and ect with a over 30 MILF then a under 25 newby. This should put me in good graces with the younger hobbiest. Also the next time you see a dancer, setting for an extended time with somebody, just remember it may not be my/his fault and he might thank you if you come to his rescue. :)

Can't we all just get a thong (I mean, along!) At the risk of being berated for being too politically correct, I think the SC needs both the old and the young guys. Great job on the thread, boatmonkey. I think it's the same interesting points of view represented here that are needed in the clubs. More patrons = more $$$ = more dancers. Yep, I've talked myself into it... See you at the club!

I'm a few years older than bm. Personally, I haven't seen this attitude much. I have been guilty of irritation at the old KS farmers locking up their favs at the Paradise but otherwise I go with the flow. I understand my favs are there to make $$$ and don't begrudge their taking time with & $$ from other men. A few even declare and pay taxes; I encourage these to get more action. After all their tax $$ contribute to my Social Security payments, LMAO.

A few thoughts after reading all the posts:

@bm re: OP -- why were you so apologetic and defensive in laying out your points? Maybe that attitude was the reason for the posts following that j40 misreads as "defensive."

And @bm -- your example of "young guy in baseball cap" taking away the "love of your life" who barely said goodbye to U has nothing to do with age; it's a perfect example of the SC economy: Money talks; BS walks.

@j40: UR right that SOME guys [both older and young] are looking for dates or someone friendly to talk to. Hey, if a newly divirced guy neeeds this to get back on his feet, I don't begrudge him the time. And yes, SOME older men are "trying to re-live their younger days" and "and acting like they're 20 again." But you take what maybe true of SOME older men and blow it up into a stereotype of all older men. Probably why U got what you misperceive as defensive responses. Not defensive, just reacting to UR denigrating stereotyping.

I agree with LL, jackoff nailed it, especially the response of his 23 y/o OTC. KO!

Second point: Everyone so far has treated older men dating or seeing strippers for OTC as the same as older men dating twentysomething civilian women. I leave it up to the other older men here with OTC experience to talk about 20s strippers.

Young civilian women in their 20s ARE attracted to older men because we're different from the young boys they've dated. If the men are married, these young women with BFs or hubbies will often have affairs to see what they're missing. Older SINGLE men have to work more to seduce young women because without a wife they more easily threaten young women -- are they DOM's, rapists, users or are they discreet, safe and fun.

Twentiessomethings are tired of the career or gamer obsessed BF/SOs whose idea of sex after the initial infatuation period is gimmie a BJ followed by sixty seconds and done or the sexual equivalent of the two minute drill rather than being willing to spend 20 - 40 minutes pleasuring their women first. They want someone who's mature, confident and obviously already successfu; someone they might learn about life from not the release date of the latest tech toy.

I'm not trying to relive my youth; some parts of it were horrible. Except for some age-related medical issues I'm happy with my age and I certainly DON'T want to act like I'm twenty agasin. I'd be embarrassed.

I do want to feel nice soft, firm young flesh, perky tits and tight... These young women haven't fully matured yet and they can be flaky and unreliable. They'll drop U like a rock if a marriageable young guy comes along. But while you have their attention and lavish affection you can enjoy their youthful enthusiasm and joy with life; for the most part they haven't given up on all men yet like the 40s divorcees who hit the bars to play a hard game of Rapo.

Excellent read Joker44 & you're just hitting the tip of the iceberg why young women enjoy the company of a confident (instead of cocky) mature man.

Thickasabrick> Totally agree with this statement "I more or less feel it should be the opposite attitude, the middle age and older guys being weirded out by young guys in a strip club. When i was in my 20s and 30s I rarely went to a club and then pretty much only for bachelor parties. When you are that age, you should actually be dating hot young girls - or at least trying to."

I think I will or someone (with better writing skills) should start a thread about "Why are 20 something single guys in a strip club to begin with"

Yes, this is a great thread! Eye-opening, too. I'm on the old side; soon to be 50 (damn, that sucks to say out loud!). I never would've dreamed in a million years (which I'm feeling now) that younger guys were "weirded-out" by my presence in SCs. When I was younger, I never thought like that about older guys.. and don't think like that about the ones that are even older than I am now. Wow...

Maybe it's just a line that the girls are giving me, because I'm of that older ilk, but MANY girls have told me that they'd rather spend time with older guys for the many reasons mentioned above. The girls that I know who work days, work days BECAUSE of the older clientel. I'm told that in general, we are more appreciative, show more respect and aren't all "grabby hands." Also, we tend to spend more on them; more than just the dances as we tend to tip more and also buy drinks. Younger guys tend to just get a few dances at a time, but older guys typcially do longer dance sessions. (personally, I will get a minimumm of 6 dances at a time - if there's chemistry, and many times will get 10-ish in a particular session) So, if you were a dancer, who would you prefer to spend that time with?

I am also a "whale", and hog the girl I want to be with for MANY hours, during which time I request that she NOT spend time with other guys in the club. Do I want to "date" the dancer I am with? Of course, why whouldn't I? Is that unrealistic? No! In the case of my ATF, we dated for nearly three years, during which time we talked about marriage, she divorced her husband and I NEARLY divorced, so yes, I'd say it wasn't just wishful thinking, nor was it SS scamming.

So, I s'pose I owe those younger guys an apology for taking a girl off the menu while I'm ITC.

I love older men! I harldly ever pay any attention to BOYS in their 20's they creep me out.

It's not literally about chronology as much as it is about ATTITUDE.

Some old guys are great. Some are assholes. People who have "old guy attitude" (not as described in the post) of the typical "I don't mind if you think I stink" approach to life are very bad to be around, anywhere. But people who have "old guy attitude" (indeed as described in the post) of joie de vivre, nonchalance, and a certain level of experience that makes them seem happy about life, and willing to expend resources in order to gain positive experiences, are people who are very good to be around, anywhere.

Similarly, people who have "young guy attitude" are of several varieties, too. Young guys who think they know everything when they actually know very little, who use bluster and aggression at the expense of sense, and who try to get away cheap at a strip club because to them a $2 entry fee is too high -- these guys are the worst to be around, for many reasons, not the least because they (1) have very little positive to offer, but (2) often fool attractive women (in the 'real' world OR in the strip club) into finding them attractive on the basis of false assumptions: assumptions that, for instance, the aggression and violence are actually dominance and swagger and self-confidence, not the reality of insecurity and stupidity and lack of experience. But then again, as with old guy attitude, there are benefits to the young-guy approach to life too -- for example, joie de vivre, nonchalance, a certain level of inexperience that makes them seem happy about life.

boydaniels26, why do the guys in their 20's creep you out?

AS a strip club fan my focus is on the ladies and only t hem. Had I not read this article I wouldn't even be aware there were other guys of any age in the club.

I find that the average dancer prefers the older customer for a variety of reasons. The only time I thought it would be weird was when an OTC girl I had been seeing figured out that I had probably had lap dances from her mother! She just laughed and we still get together.

Something that has not been discussed in this thread is the older guy who prefers the older dancer (providing always she has kept the reasonably hot bod). That is my preferred game. Of course, I love the hot-bodied twenty year olds but about 100% of the time (in my experience) those hot bodies are attached to a head containing a brain the size of a pea. These creatures are lacking any life experience to realize that they have only a very few years to take advantage of their rare physical beauty. Let 'em waste those years on their male "think-with-their-dick" counterparts like jerikson40.

Keep your bodies together, girls; then come back to see me in 15 years or so after life has beat you up some. You will be much more interesting people then and I would be likely to spend some bucks on you in the VIP.

I really love older customers!..In general younger men are not as respectful and can be pushy (though not all). All in all, older men are generous and kind and that makes for a much better shift

@farmerart - One of my all time favs is in her mid to late thirties and looks even better than she did 2 years ago. I AWAYS have a good time with her bc we just enjoy each others company so much. Usually one of us will get both of us laughing uncontrollably. I've also enjoyed one or two in their early forties.

To me it is a very different experience than with a twenty someting hottie. Older is often mature, self-confident and knowleadgeable sexuality. Young is fun and exuberant attitude and lovely firm and toned bodies.

Would you prefer red or white wine? Both please!

There's a whole clothing website devoted to us "old dudes"...oldguysrule.com

@farmerart-"Something that has not been discussed in this thread is the older guy who prefers the older dancer" That is what I was trying to say above: "As an "older" residence of the hobby, I would rather have a dance and ect with a over 30 MILF then a under 25 newby"

I'm 21 & strongly prefer the older guys over the frat boys.. Not just when I'm working, but in my personal dating life too. They also seem to prefer me, as I've got a natural body. I do better on dayshifts & enjoy it more too.

I have to agree with DougS. I am in my late 50's and after reading this thread, went to my favorite SC. I asked this 8+ beauty why she was working Sunday afternoons and she said she liked the crowd (albeit small) better; older, less grabby attitude. Although these girls expect us to objectify them, they are still human beings with feelings, and older guys give them more compliments, attention and pleasure than the younger bucks who are grabby from the outset and too self-centered to realize that the experience (and accessibility) would be better if it was more of a two-way street.

I have never been wierded out by other guys' ages; frankly I am there to see T&A and could less about the other patrons as long as they mind their own business.

The only problems I have with the old guys are:

1. It's creepy when I'm getting a lap dance and I look to my left and 2 feet away is a guy old enough to be my grandpa.

2. They seriously hog all the action. I mean, these guys will come in throwing money around like crazy.

3. They are always the "regulars", which is kinda pathetic when you see a young hottie and you're really into her, then you see her pandering to some geezer because he's a "regular".

I guess you can't generalize the same facts about all young guys - some are successful in their early age, have the money to spend, and will treat the girls well too. I know I do my best in this area, but I can see that not all young guys will do that, especially the ones with limited income. It is slightly weird to see old guys at the club (we're talking over 50-60ish), but I do understand where they're coming from. More power to them for coming to see that hot 20-something year old ass. :P

As a dancer, I prefer older gentleman because yes they do know how to be polite and aren't trying to be all handsy with me, along with buying a drink or so they're also paying us for our time (time IS money) and i dont mean a dollar or two...so while you teeny boppers are complaining because dancers are all tied up maybe you should school yourselves as to why they're sitting with him and NOT you. Dancers don't enjoy bring groped and we sure in the hell don't like wasting our time with someone that doesn't VALUE our time... (for the record I'm 23...and if you ask any dancer young or veteran the answer will be the same)

I think the shelf life of this article is about done, but if anyone wants to shoot me a private message and keep the discussion going about this or anything else, feel free to do so.

Oh my goodness. Where does little Miss Journey work? :)

Not a self-righteous young stud, but do have a rock-hard cocks and hair (as long as there is the blue pill and rogaine)....

To the young dudes out there.... its a strip club... its fantasy....NOT Real. If you are going there to get your ego stroked... you seriously need to reevaluate things. Go to the dance club and find a real girl.

Boatmonkey Great article - The old guy has learned that the package is great but the contents are better ps: I'm 65 and still motivated -

great article and responses!!! I personally favor the older guys; not because they are less grabby, but because we get along well. i enjoy talking and flirting with my friendly older guy customers, most younger guys just cut to the chase and ask me for a date while the older guys know that i am not at the club looking for a date. older guys generally know how to play the game, enjoy playing the game, and to me that turns me on enough to crave the date with the older gentleman. this may sound strange but i like to enjoy my time with the customers and overall i have a better time older guys consistently. younger guys seem to expect me to be 'free' and attempt to waste my time keeping me from paying customers

at this point younger guys asking me for dates is just an annoyance. these young guys see that im busy giving lap dances to older gentlemen and they wait around until i am done with other paying customers to ask me for a date, "what are you doing after work?" and they pout when i refuse the date. i just dont know if they purposefully dont get it or if they think their approach style is going to be effective. i hate to be rude so i always talk to these younger guys briefly, but as nice as i am, dont they get tired of hearing NO? it will be a good day when these younger guys grow up and stop trying to date a stripper for free and instead earn her affection the old fashioned way with money and gratuities

the types of old guys that go to the clubs

1. the normal old guys who come in just to hang out, tip, buy some dances, buy some beer, and know their limits.
2. the rich old guys who go in and generally stay with the feature dancers.
3. the border line old guys, they generally have a select few dancers who they hang out with the most but they are sometimes creepy to them but they have likable traits. 4.the creepy old men that go in and generally have less $150 and are extremely rude to the girls and most likely had to take penis pills before going in and had to go into the bathroom to take their night pills. (sadly the most common old guy in the club)

put it this way.....if you have grandkids.....you're too old to be going in