If you're visiting a strip club that isn't known for extras but suspect some dancers might offer more comprehensive services, this guide will help you identify and approach the right entertainers efficiently and safely.
Initial Recon
Before entering, research is crucial:
Check relevant forums (USASG, TUSCL) for recent intel
Look for reviews mentioning "high mileage" or "friendly" dancers
Note any names that appear repeatedly
Avoid peak weekend nights for your first visit - weekday afternoons offer better conditions
Strategic Positioning
Upon arrival:
Order a drink and choose seating with good sightlines
Observe for 20-30 minutes before engaging
Let dancers approach you initially
This passive phase provides valuable intelligence
Key Indicators to Observe
Stage Performance Analysis
Dancers who give minimal stage effort but work the floor aggressively
Those who frequently skip stage rotations for VIP sessions
Performers who seem disinterested in tips but focused on private dances
VIP Room Patterns
Track which dancers spend the most time in VIP
Note session durations (30+ minutes repeatedly suggests possibilities)
Observe their appearance when exiting (disheveled clothing, reapplying makeup)
Monitor how frequently security checks those areas
Approach Behaviors Different dancers use different sales techniques:
Standard: "Would you like a dance?"
Suggestive: "Looking for some fun tonight?"
Direct: "I can show you a really good time in VIP"
The Critical Rule: Always Confirm BEFORE Going to VIP
Never, ever go to VIP on vague promises. You need clear agreement on:
What services are included
Total cost (room fee + tip)
Time allotted
Going to VIP "hoping" something happens is how you waste hundreds of dollars.
Testing the Waters: Complete Conversation Scripts
Initial Contact When a promising dancer approaches:
Her: "Hi there, looking for some company?" You: "Sure, I'd enjoy that. Can I buy you a drink?"
This investment of $20-30 often pays dividends in information
Probing Phase (after 5-10 minutes of conversation)
You: "I'm new here. What makes this club special? I've heard some dancers really go above and beyond for their customers."
Watch her reaction carefully. She'll either:
Play naive: "What do you mean?"
Show interest: "Well, that depends on what you're looking for..."
Getting More Direct
You: "I appreciate dancers who really know how to take care of their clients. Not interested in air dances or strict rules. Are you someone who's more... accommodating?"
If she's not interested, she'll make it clear:
"I just do regular dances"
"This club has strict rules"
Changes subject or suggests stage tipping
If she's potentially interested:
"I'm very open-minded"
"I like to make sure my customers are satisfied"
"What exactly are you looking for?"
The Commitment Conversation (Still at your table - NOT in VIP)
You: "Let's be clear so we're both comfortable. I'm looking for more than just dances. Are you open to that?"
If she says yes or seems interested:
You: "I'm interested in full service. Is that something you provide?"
She MUST give clear confirmation before proceeding.
Negotiating Terms (Still at your table)
Once she's confirmed she provides extras:
You: "What would that run me total? Room plus your time?"
Her: "VIP is $100 for 30 minutes, and I usually get $400."
You: "So $500 total for full service?"
Her: "Yes."
You: "Perfect. Let's do it."
Red Flag Responses That Mean DON'T GO:
"Let's just go back there and see what happens"
"I can't talk about that here" (without offering alternative)
"Trust me, you'll be happy"
"Let's start with dances and go from there"
"We'll negotiate in VIP"
Any reluctance to confirm services
Alternative Confirmation Locations
If she says: "I can't discuss that here because of cameras/management"
Your response: "I understand. Where can we talk privately for a minute?"
Options:
The smoking area
A quiet corner
The parking lot briefly
Even the bathroom hallway
If she won't have this conversation ANYWHERE, she's not providing.
VIP Execution
Once you have clear agreement:
Confirm once more before walking to VIP: "So we're good on what we discussed?"
Pay room fee to the club
In VIP, before any money changes hands: "Just confirming - $400 for full service like we discussed?"
If She Changes Her Mind in VIP
If you get to VIP and she backtracks:
You: "We had a clear agreement. Are you not comfortable with that now?"
If she refuses:
Leave immediately
Don't accept "partial" services for full price
Don't argue or create a scene
Consider it a learning experience
Optimal Conditions for Success
Best times: Weekday afternoons (2-6 PM)
Best days: Tuesday through Thursday
Appearance: Business casual, well-groomed, fresh
Demeanor: Confident but respectful
Budget: Bring 50% more than planned
Attitude: Patient and transactional
Common Pricing Structures
Typical ranges (varies by region):
Exit Strategies
If uncomfortable at any point:
"I need to visit the ATM"
"Let me think about it over another drink"
"I just got a text I need to handle"
"I'm going to check out the stage for a bit"
Pro Tips for Success
Build rapport but don't waste time - 10-15 minutes max before getting direct
Be generous with drinks and stage tips to girls you're interested in
Stay discrete - Never loudly discuss arrangements
Respect "No" - Move on immediately if she's not interested
Cash only - Have exact amounts ready
No photos - Ever, for any reason
Regular status - Best arrangements come from repeat visits
What NOT to Do
Don't ask every dancer - word spreads fast
Don't negotiate aggressively - these aren't street workers
Don't get drunk - you need clear judgment
Don't bring up other girls' services - each negotiation is unique
Don't complain to management if disappointed - you knew the risks
Safety Considerations
Never bring more cash than you're willing to lose
Keep your drinks in sight
Don't flash large amounts of money
Trust your instincts about sketchy situations
Have a backup plan for getting home
Final Thoughts
Remember: Not every dancer provides extras, and that's perfectly fine. Many excellent entertainers strictly provide legal services only. This guide is about finding mutually agreeable arrangements between consenting adults who choose to go beyond standard services.
Success requires:
Clear communication
Respectful approach
Proper confirmation BEFORE committing money
Understanding that this is a business transaction
The cardinal rule: If you don't have explicit agreement on services and prices before going to VIP, don't go. Hopes and implications are not enough - you need clear verbal confirmation.
Stay safe, be respectful, and good luck.
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