Comments by apieceofsausage

Sex workers are definitely not higher income workers generally, but maybe it's different in Belgium vs the US. Most strippers here don't make crazy money, the average OF girl makes barely anything, the vast majority of escorts (whether they work the streets or not) don't make much either. 6 figure sex workers are definitely not the majority. However I do agree that this is a weird ass law.

69 is the worst position known to mankind. Cowgirl >>>> the rest

I've definitely made myself get off during a no-extras dance, but there's really nothing the guy could do to influence it except keep his dick hard. It's just something that happens if I'm doing the lapdance grind on someone's crotch for a super extended period of time. (30+ minutes)

1. I worked there briefly from May-June of this year, weekday day shifts only. On the days I was there, I never saw a guy lingering too long (especially at the bar) before a girl would sit down with him. I'm also the type to walk up to any and every guy in the club. 2. Not every girl there does the "not getting naked if no one is tipping" thing. I didn't and I know several other girls who didn't either. 3. To my knowledge no, there are no punishments if a dancer doesn't get naked or allow full contact in VIP, although I could be mistaken.

Forgot to mention it, but yes, it's full nude on stage although some dancers don't get full nude if there aren't a lot of customers or if nobody is tipping.

As someone on the other side of it, back when I was interested in sugar dating I never took SDs on dating apps seriously 'cause there's never any follow-through from them, or they just flat out don't reply even if we literally matched, so I assumed most of them aren't even real SDs and stopped swiping right. Seeking and SecretBenefits are the only places I've ever found genuine SDs.

"Safety has to come first" just 'cause a FEMALE boxer born with FEMALE genitals happened to be better than that crybaby italian chick. This is why women's sports aren't taken seriously...men don't go screaming "cheater!" 'cause another man produces more testosterone than him and is therefore better at *insert sport*.

Calling Imane a man is admitting a man can be born with a vagina and uterus, which is something that the fox-news-watching group has been vehemently arguing against for awhile at this point. It's a little funny to witness.

She has lost several times across her boxing career. Her having extra testosterone is a typical biological advantage that many athletes have over their opponents (Michael Phelps had several things that made him biologically predisposed to be better at swimming.) She was born with a vagina and uterus, in a country where transitioning is illegal AF (so zero way they'd send a literal trans woman to compete for them), and she won fair and square. The italian bitch is just a sore loser.

from what I've seen, Imane is a cis woman with a hormonal imbalance.

I for one am a proponent of deepthroating hairy balls. Hairless balls remind me of molerats. Men seriously don't need to be shaving anything except maybe their heads after they start balding.

caseyx basically said my thoughts one of the most common "tips" given on stripper forums (for nude clubs) is to "not take anything off till people start tipping" and that shit is absolutely terrible advice. I'd make basically nothing on stage if i kept my outfit on until a "sufficient" amount of money hit the stage, 'cause guys don't really start tipping like that till you get naked. there are a lot of customers who go into strip clubs to nurse one beer and never spend a single dollar on any of the girls, so i can understand the frustration, but a lot of strippers these days don't seem to grasp that "working for free" (AKA putting in effort even when you aren't being paid yet) is literally just a part of the job description and refusing to do that is stopping their money. I wouldn't say a club being slow is the dancers' fault entirely though, it's a lot of different factors.

Pubic hair FTW! On both genders I find being completely smooth down there super unattractive. Glad the culture is shifting back.

What could possibly compel someone to get on TUSCL just to post about trump every goddamn day?

Agreeing with Muddy that I suspect a lot of y'all just have a realllyy low threshold for what's considered fat (and it's also likely dependent on area.) I can say in the clubs I've visited (DMV+WV, I generally stick to gentlemen's clubs and some dives, never urban clubs) that I've never seen a woman who looks like she wears anything above a (straight-size) large, and even then it's usually only 1-2 girls who are that size. Almost all of the girls are skinny or right above that.

I've never heard of that. Y'all are two people so being charged twice makes sense, it's not like her being a specifically female customer really adds anything for the club. I personally think female customers should *always* be charged admission actually, 'cause they normally spend next-to-nothing once they're actually in the club.

Never in my life have ever thought to text a dude this. Just comes off desperate

You can (PG) crossdress wherever you please.

I appreciated the feedback (and said such), but now you look silly trying to pass off your opinion as a universal truth that I just have to accept (and that anyone complimenting me is somehow "not telling me the reality") It's perfectly fine that you in particular aren't attracted to me, and I got the answers to my main question already from everyone in here (all with different types, me not fitting all of them.) I suspect you're trying to "knock me down a peg" and are seeking some sort of satisfaction out of trying to offend me, but I wouldn't be bothered even if you called me a hideous 2/10. 🙂

Seriously strange choice. I don't think anybody was particularly gunning for this guy to be the pick.

This club doesn't enforce dancers being on a strict schedule. Management has no idea how many girls will show up day to day, and I doubt they'll change to being more strict about it since a lot of girls work there particularly *because* there's more freedom. Getting your favorite dancer's number is the best bet.

Not trans, just have a very random username LMFAO. I didn't even think about how that came off (My stage name is a regular name though, I find quirky stripper names to be highly tacky) I don't think I've ever heard of a trans stripper ever working in a fully nude strip club.

Not seeking positive validation from that crowd (I don't date/sleep with men under 35 anyway, I'm not personally offended when they aren't attracted to me), just genuinely wondering why they don't spend money on me. I got my answer, since the general consensus seems to be that it's my hair (and partially my body type.) I don't plan on forcing any weight gain but I may start wearing wigs here and there to see if I start making more money. I appreciate the thoughts from everybody. I should branch out and try other clubs (I've only ever worked at two) but currently I've got an unpredictable schedule and the clubs in my area (DMV) are normally strict about scheduling (working 4 days a week minimum, for example), which leaves the options slim. When I'm out of school I'll probably go full time.

@-ggofv Nobody in the club would ever consider me ghetto at all whatsoever. The comments I usually get from men and the other dancers (personality wise) are always about how sweet I am, so I know I don't give off any sort of ratchet vibe with my attitude anyway. @-readytomonger Maybe I'm too skinny for the younger crowd, but being skinny is almost always a positive for a stripper (from what I've seen) so it must be the combination of me being black and skinny. To be fair though, that picture doesn't give my boobs enough credit, but it's the only lingerie pic I had upon posting this. - I'm gathering though that the main issue is with the hair. Gonna have to wrestle with whether I want to make more enough to go through the effort of getting a wig on my head every week vs just leaving it and accepting that only older guys like it. Thanks for the replies!!

@-ilbbaicnl I wondered that, but I haven't been on this site long enough to know the age demographics. Also, it's difficult to really see any patterns since I'm usually the only black dancer there or one of two, and from what I see the other black girl has the same general customer base as me (she doesn't look anything like me either. Darker, long straight hair, more athletic build) Don't wanna assume that younger guys just don't like black women, but maybe the one's going to gentlemen's clubs instead of urban clubs don't.