Getting her to LDQ in VIP

The simple answer is get your dick hard and keep your dick hard long enough for her to get hers. If you want the theater of it all, tell her it turns you on if a dancer cums and watch her go to work. Give that girl a Tony!

I had a favorite once that told me that she didn't like to cum before coming to work because she just couldn't get into the mood again. The same probably holds true ITC for them.

Even in a club without much privacy, and even if two way touch is limited due to a lack of privacy, a dancer can often position herself in a way where things will feel great to her as well. Two questions for this scenario are 1) does she WANT to get off as well, and 2) CAN she get off under whatever circumstances are available?

Different humans obviously can have widely varying degrees of effort required to get them to that point, so there’s no guarantee that it’s even possible for a dancer in a particular scenario… As wallanon pointed out, a Tony or an Oscar nomination is sometimes in order! lol

Having said all of this, if the answers to questions 1 and 2 above are both yes, find out what she likes that is both possible for the situation, AND that is also comfortable for her to share with you. For instance, gently kissing her neck or shoulders may get her even more worked up, or whispering the right things in her ear may help amplify other sensations she might also be feeling in the moment…

TL;DR Find out what gets her motor running… 😁

The strip clubs where you can find that are right next to restaurant where you prepare food for the waitstaff.

In more than 15 years of regularly visiting strip clubs, two of my favs I think probably had orgasms, and two more maybe had orgasms. It involved gentle nipple and clit touching/kissing, it ways that the majority of dancers I've gotten dances with would not welcome or allow. They need PLs for money, not orgasms.

There are some things money can't buy, or at least can't be bought with the money that 90+% of PLs can afford to spend.

ILB is right. This isn’t really a thing.

So not to split hairs on this, but didn't the LDQ only exist so that the LDK could get his? I don't ever remember him talking about getting the dancer off in his one or two song sprint to glory.

They fake it...

Its really rare for them to get off with just any customers

I've definitely made myself get off during a no-extras dance, but there's really nothing the guy could do to influence it except keep his dick hard. It's just something that happens if I'm doing the lapdance grind on someone's crotch for a super extended period of time. (30+ minutes)

It isnt really about “rare for them to get off with any customers”. If shes not willing to LDQ, not willing to allow FOV etc its one of the number one ways to tell she has a boyfriend pimp/isnt open to most extras. A lack of those things means you should definitely stop seeing that dancer after a couple songs

“It involved gentle nipple and clit touching/kissing, it ways that the majority of dancers I've gotten dances with would not welcome or allow. They need PLs for money, not orgasms.”

In other words, avoid those dancers.

Also it becomes increasingly impossible for a dancer to avoid LDQing as time goes on and she grinds more and more customers.

This is why non LDQ dancers are essentially scammers, because what they do to prevent LDQs is they mix in a bunch of airdances into their lapdances. They will maybe lapdance for 3 minutes in a 15 minute dance, the rest of the time is them air dancing and posing, blowing in your ears or massaging you, putting their boobs in your face, etc.

@icey that's not true lol