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5 months ago
I just literally came from a club event that a young lady asked me to take her to. Alright not literally but just before the after party and the after, after party, and the roll in the hay after, after, after party.
The event was a competition with dancers from various local clubs. It was a nice show that got raunchier and raunchier with simulated and not so simulated sex acts on stage. The place was packed to the rafters and close to half of the audience were women. Mostly dancers from a variety of clubs but some like my companion were not.
One thing that was blatantly obvious was that the women were much louder and more animated in expressing their approval and excitement. This was especially true during the raunchiest acts on stage. At one point the women pushed their way forward and crowded the men away from the front row seating.
In short this sums up my comment and observations over the years. Women in general don’t seem to know how to behave IMHO. I don’t care who else is there but I should not notice anyone because if I do there is a good chance they are acting the fool and I didn’t come to see you demand attention consciously or otherwise. Just sit down, shut up and discreetly touch yourself like everyone else.
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6 months ago
@nicespice
What is this “friends” you speak of?
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6 months ago
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gammanu95My casual drinking is your alcohol poisoning.
@blahblahblahs.
“Punk” in the prison vernacular has an entirely different meaning, as in “save me a punk and a bunk”. Very similar to what sailors mean when they say "it's not gay when you're underway".
Always glad to help spread knowledge. – babydoc
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6 months ago
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gammanu95My casual drinking is your alcohol poisoning.
“Life of Brian” by Monty Python
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6 months ago
I really don’t like having things (the possessed possess the possessor) but what I do have are a whole butt-load of medications. I make sure to always restock in countries that you can buy over the counter and compared to the USA they are usually very inexpensive and have proven to be very useful on occasion. Azithromycin in particular has saved me many a doctor’s visit along with the accompanying bills.
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a year ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
My first serious GF wanted to be a Flight Attendant. She definitely had the looks for it back when that was even a requirement (45 years ago). She never followed through and we did not remain a couple but I do remember being very jealous whenever she would bring the subject up. Probably youthful insecurity.
As far as today goes, you really need to fly foreign flag carriers. Most still require their FAs to be young and attractive. And though I can’t call it dating I did recently hook up with a FA from KAL from my flight when we both RONed in Seattle before she headed back to Korea and I flew south. (* RON = remain overnight).
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a year ago
@iknowbetter
Not so far...
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a year ago
As to her proposal I’ll save the details for a later date after some things develop. What I did do was put together a decision tree plan – if A then B and ABC have to happen before XYZ. We’ve agreed to go forward one step at a time over the next 4 to 6 months.
If that sounds crazy it probably is and the question becomes who is the real crazy person. Here is a snippet of one of our conversations:
Me: So why me?
Her: Everyone else I’ve asked said no.
Me: But I never said yes.
Her: But you didn’t say no.
She got me there. In for a penny, in for a pound. lol
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a year ago
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Dan3635Gulf Coast. I’m not your boss.
"What if I took my retirement savings and bought a struggling club next year?"
So how did you go bankrupt?
- Slowly at first then suddenly.
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a year ago
I recently met a dancer with a one month old newborn. After a thorough and complete visual inspection I can attest that she had a perfect body. No stretch marks or body damage of any sort. I did not check the tightness or looseness of her pussy but still - one month - damn.
Lucky girl or good genes who knows.
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a year ago
@sinclair.
Thanks for the opportunity for me to swap lies. lol
For everyone else, it’s the internet so write it off as a fantasy.
Anyways in general my experience has been that whenever a girl gives you her OK for you to fuck another girl it’s NOT OK.
But specific to question posted, it has only happened once. We were regular fuck buddies and as you describe, she was unable to participate and sent me off with her best friend. We went through the first round missionary and then the girl wanted a second round and mounted me cowgirl. Yeah, here comes the Penthouse letter part. The door opens and in walks my fuck buddy. The two of them carry on a conversation without interrupting the ride.
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a year ago
@Call.Me.Ishmael
Fair enough but maybe some day when time is short you may want whatever juice you can squeeze out of life. That and I've always found drama to spice up sex left, right and center.
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a year ago
@rattdog "the 9.5 girl disrespected the girl you were with, which in turn was a sign of disrespect towards you. and your girl not saying anything or acting upon that situation showed at the time that she didn't have your back."
BINGO! BINGO! BINGO!
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a year ago
@Brahma2k … “These girls are around you because of your money, period.”
Not true! Why just tonight three of them told me they want to have my baby. And they are all three scheduled to begin working on it over the next two days. LOL
Time for bed. Gotta rest up for fatherhood.
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a year ago
Just an update. No, I wasn’t scammed. As I posted I’ve known her in passing for quite some time. Other than when we first met, she’s never spent any time trying to chat me up since I made it clear I had other girls of interest.
She never told me her story. My club-GF (who now is my temporary real GF) and another waitress along with a male employee told me the story. It was last night when I was back in the club that the girl in question came up to me and sat down openly talking about the weight of the world she was carrying around. No plea for money or anything at all other than for a sympathetic ear that she felt she could trust.
I’ve been scammed more than once and I’ve known too much about too many women’s lives that I would rather have not known. In all probability it was always because I have a sympathetic ear that opened me up to being scammed or pulled into the depths of their nightmare lives. But at my age, I am well aware of that character flaw recognizing it as a vulnerability that I am on guard of.
In the end the money I gave her was less than the amount of beer I spill every time I club. As stated above, no one really knows what burdens or demons another person is carrying around. I didn't mind helping her out.
On the personal front I totally agree that clubbing in a bad state of mind isn’t a good idea. That first night when I crashed, I was already half way there and tried to drown myself in pussy and alcohol. My temporary -GF had a good time but I did not. So last night flying solo I tried to drown myself in alcohol and pussy. I must be a magnet for assholes because while I was sitting at the bar being accosted by women realizing that I was alone, some physically huge drunk asshole kept accosting one of the female bartenders. Both verbally and then physically. I’m old and wise enough not to white knight nor do I believe that I could take him but she was a friend of mine and I was in a bad mood. I spoke up and threatened him. Thankfully in what I believe was shock he backed down and left her alone. Stupid move on my part I know but that’s what happens when I’m in a bad mood. So don’t do what I did and for pity sake don’t be an asshole.
OTOH I believe that later in the evening at a different club I got engaged to the most stunning young woman around. Maybe I’m getting over my depression.
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a year ago
@RiskA
Not falling for some tear jerk story is how not to be a simpleton 101. I've been around that block more than once and I can assure you that I know I don't know 10% about my flakey club-GF though I've been inside her and "known" her for close to a year but the smiling girl stuff is 100% legit. Been around that block a few times also.
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a year ago
@blahblahblah23
If last night was any indication I must already be there.
Me: “Again??? Really, again? But I'm tired. Yes baby, Whatever you say baby. As much as you want until you tell me you’re bored with me.”
And then you all wonder why in the stillness of the night you find me drinking myself to sleep listening to this song:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xDKUPoKX2jg
Nice to see you still posting @blah. Keep the incels straight. lol
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a year ago
@Call.Me.Ishmael
“…or they fall in love…”
What’s wrong with that? I fall in love two or three times a week. Hell sometimes two or three times a night.
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a year ago
@RiskA
No worries. Water off a duck. I’m still a manic-depressive and I’ve had the glass half full/empty discussion directed my way by many a person. I take it in stride because in the end I’m an optimistic pessimist.
Yesterday was an interesting one. My mere presence or appearance made one girl gasp, one girl cry (the second in a week), one girl ask me with disapproval why I still don’t have a girl friend (she and her cohorts have been trying to hook me up for a long time) and then finally my club girlfriend squealing with joy as she had hit the lotto with a ticket I bought for her. And I went to bed early because … well today is ‘beer is on the menu again day’ after the antibiotocs and I’m up at one in the morning ready to start. Manic today! Yaaay!
I don’t know if the crying were tears of joy or something else. Neither would stop long enough to speak. These were phone calls made for me by other girls. I didn’t see any babies in the backgrounds. So that’s good.
Right now, I am seriously debating on whether to make my club GF my girl friend – girl friend OTC. That’s what she wants but we went through this before. It would only be for a few weeks and she may/might/possibly/probably never see me again. So, I don’t want to do that to her but it would keep me out of the clubs for the next three or four weeks.
Girls! You can’t live with them something, something blah blah blah…
Sun will be up soon and I think I will have just one more report for the board and then simply fade away.
Cheers.
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a year ago
@nicespice
hey good to see you're still here
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a year ago
@drewcareypnw
Just for clarification (again my fault for not being clear enough) her job in the previous establishment was not as a cocktail waitress or a dancer. Her job was to give blow jobs. That's all they hire girls to do there.
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a year ago
@RiskA
I didn’t realize that I’ve made any complaints about there being something wrong with strip clubs. I’ll try to be more careful but as I said in an earlier post, I’m on a manic-depressive cycle.
I only drop in here once or twice a year so I’ll be gone again soon. And I don’t know that I can manage a three month break but I did just start a three day regime of antibiotics so no more alcohol until September 16 when I will be back at it celebrating Libertad with some very enthusiastic young women.
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a year ago
@Mate27. The only way he could have made it worse was if he told her to get on her knees so he could see the top of her head.
He left moments after his victory lap. I ordered her a drink and had her sit down to compose herself. The head waitress and another waitress came over to console her and yes, I left a big tip.
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a year ago
No. It was intentional but thanks for noticing. Sometimes I think my efforts are wasted.
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a year ago
@shailyn
Without getting too deep into my situation, yes I am not now in Mexico nor am I in the US. I will be entering Mexico on a valid passport (not US) in the open to begin what I need to do. Rather than wait there for what might be months I would like to leave under the radar so to speak and re-enter the same way.
Leaving the country before everything is complete sends me to the back of the administrative line.
The way dual or multi-nationality is supposed to work is if you are entering a country where you are a citizen you are supposed to use that country’s passport. If you entered a country on a different passport (different from the country you are entering) you are supposed to leave on that passport. And yes, I am a US citizen so I don’t need a visa or anything to get into the US. You can’t get a passport without being a citizen.
And finally, no I am not interested in TJ clubs but I think that the only way to sneak out and back in is to cross the border on foot. TJ may be the best spot to cross because of the high volume of traffic. Or it might be the worst place to cross if the Mexican government has decided that the place to spend their money on new tech is in TJ for the same reason - high volume of traffic.
Hopefully some or at least one of the TJ mongers can shed some light on my question.