I'm a wife who loves taking her Daddy to the club. I love watching women, throwing money at them, paying for hubby to have a good time. Anyway the last couple weekends I've noticed dudes who very obviously don't want me there. Rude comments and looks, very off putting comments. Apparently I take too much attention. How do you all feel about wives in the club?
I have no issue with it, especially since it often results in getting a flash of civvie titties when a dancers has some playtime with her while on stage.
Perhaps some guys think the presence of wives/SOs creates a more inhibited environment, but I have found wives to be a bit more wild than guys at certain times.
I have no issues when strippers pull my breasts out. Whatever makes them more money! I typically try to wear outfits that allow easy access for that very reason!
Shadowcat, I agree. I have been going to strip clubs for a long time and we , as customers do not want to see someones dumb wife in there causing a scene, trying hard to take attention away from the REAL talent by actng wild.
I even talked to many dancers who said they hate female customers because they tend to get grabby more than the men and have no respect and also mess up the girls money. I think all these women who insist on going into GENTLEMENS clubs do it because they aret supposed to, ANYTHING they arent supposed to do is the first thing they want to do. Its this kind of toxic personality that these types have. They get some kind of pleasure from annoying people.
I once went into a male strip club with a woman I was dating who didnt want to go in alone and her friends didnt want to go with her. I paid a bigger cover than she did and also as a NON dancer male I was NOT allowed anywhere on the floor and had to remain at the bar the entire time. She got a dance with some really muscular guy and I didnt give one fuck. Most of the male dancers are gay anyway, plus I am not a jealous type. They dont allow gys on the main floor because jealous husbands might go in starting trouble. I have seen more jealous wives and GF starting trouble at strip clubs than men. They feel more self entitled.
I once saw a jealus wife go in and try hitting her husband that was getting a dance. She pulled the dancer off by her hair and the dancer ended up pummeling the woman to the ground. The husband was likely so humiliated. This could have all been avoided if they would NOT allow the women in. Its a GENTLEMENS club. Get it???
Also many women like to go in wth their boyfriends/ husbands under the excuse of "Lets have fun, I like women too"
In reality its realy just a spy mission so they can see what their man does when they arent around. They keep a close eye on how their husband or boyfriend acts around the pros.
And if you are a guy...trust and believe that when an argument happens or cheating accusation comes up SHE WILL use the strip club "Fun Outing" against you. LEAVE YOUR HEN AT HOME or let her go do her thing and you do yours.
The dancers dont want her there and the customers dont want her there.
The dancers might act nice because its there job , but believe me they are telling other customers and dancers how they cant wait until the bitch leaves.
Quite a lot of posts from punks (one that is beyond). The moment you own that SC you can make it how you want just for your own comfort. Until then customers, such as a man’s wife/girlfriend/s or even a friend, have precisely 100% as much justification to be there as you. The current part time Ms Brahma(s) was a very recent SC visit with me. She’d been to DC and west coast SCs in years past visits. X wife and I went to SF SCs twice and one in Reno. A previous ex, we went to Showgirls and another in SF. Had a great time every time, not one (see above) did we getany looks, not a single stripper had shown any issue with a couple (on my actual last visit a stripper recognized me and asked when I’m bringing her back in again). To Sativa, take your M to the SC anytime he says it’s ok, every time, without concern. Note, there’ll be SCs that are more couple friendly than others. For the SCs I go, it’s very rare not to see one or more couples in it.
Many, not all, female customers want to be the focal point, which just makes them annoying. They are also louder, like young men, and add nothing positive. Do I care if they are there? Nope. Mean nothing to me. Do I want them there? Nope
I withesssed out of control / obnoxious behavior from 3 30/something women at Stilettos in Atlantic City. They were there with their male SOs. While the men were very respectful, the women were shouting and grabbing. Real life example of some of the points made by other commentors. ski's "like young men" comparison is spot on/
At a club in The Block years ago, I was with a woman and her boyfriend. We were refused entry at 2 clubs before ultimately being able to after a 3rd club. I don't know if entry was refused due to jealousy risk, fear of pimping, or another issue. Ultimately, we had a fun, drama-free night.
No problem with it as long as the women customers don’t try and make the show about themselves. Pretty much the same exact rule for male customers too.
Over my lengthy employment I haven't noticed too many wives or girlfriends coming in with their hubbies or boyfriends or whatever they happen to be calling themselves but of course nowadays some clubs actually do cater to couples so in general I think that's where they should go but on the other hand I've been in regular clubs where couples do come in and as long as they don't cause a scene and actually sometimes the wives cause a scene and actually sometimes the husband's cause a scene when they see that their wives are getting too much attention from other men so the shoe can certainly be on the other foot and I've seen it
More couples are coming to the clubs than 10 or 15 years ago. I have no problem with this. Women customers should not cause problems just as men should not.
I don't give a fuck if someone else wants to bring their girl in.
I'm old enough to not give a fuck what anybody else is doing in the club.
What would be a problem is if I mistook a wife/girlfriend as a pro, and they....or their partner gets worked up. Then I would say, get her the fuck out.
Well I'm not the type to make rude comments or give dirty looks. But personally I don't like it; enough that if I saw it more than once in any one club I'd probably not go there anymore.
That said, I think there's only been two times in my almost 40 year clubbing career that I've seen couples in a club. That's probably because the places I go to most often aren't where you'd likely go with your husband. Not unless you want to watch your hubby get groped and DFK'd at the bar, and then in the VIP get a BBBJ and DATY as a warm-up to FS. Because that's the kind of places I go to.
Probably about 20 years ago, I was at a notorious Detroit club and two or three women were sitting at the bar. Since that is my usual place to sit, I too sat at the bar. Soon, one of them engaged me in conversation, and I’m thinking I have a chance to take a horny civvie home, but alas she turned out to be a ho looking for some $$$. Can’t believe they didn’t give her the boot.
"WE asked a 100 men, ..." I don't know what you are trying to get out of this. Everybody has their thoughts, and fishing here ain't gonna mean anything specific. Trust your guts, move forward - If you want advice, be specific with questions.
BTW, other people in the club don't know if you are wife, GF, another wanna be stripper, a pimp is bringing you... unless you and them sit there in the club for a prolonged period of time, and if that is the case, and none of you are doing dances, then the opinions of those people shouldn't matter to you.
I just literally came from a club event that a young lady asked me to take her to. Alright not literally but just before the after party and the after, after party, and the roll in the hay after, after, after party.
The event was a competition with dancers from various local clubs. It was a nice show that got raunchier and raunchier with simulated and not so simulated sex acts on stage. The place was packed to the rafters and close to half of the audience were women. Mostly dancers from a variety of clubs but some like my companion were not.
One thing that was blatantly obvious was that the women were much louder and more animated in expressing their approval and excitement. This was especially true during the raunchiest acts on stage. At one point the women pushed their way forward and crowded the men away from the front row seating.
In short this sums up my comment and observations over the years. Women in general don’t seem to know how to behave IMHO. I don’t care who else is there but I should not notice anyone because if I do there is a good chance they are acting the fool and I didn’t come to see you demand attention consciously or otherwise. Just sit down, shut up and discreetly touch yourself like everyone else.
My wife used to go with me to clubs all the time. She enjoyed the attention she got from the dancers. Sicne I try not to be a hypocrite, I have no problem with other women customers.
Do I mind wives/gf/women in general being at the club? Not really. But do I want them there? Heck no!
Strip clubs were pretty much the last place men had where they could "let there hair down".
Every other place, women have crashed it some type of way. Barbershops, pool halls, golf courses, you name it. Anything that was once an establishment where it was majority men no longer is.
As soon as women join in, you can no longer speak the same way, act the same way - I mean, technically you could - but you run the risk of offending a women and possibly dealing with some unforseen repercussion for it.
By the same token, any establishment that is primarily women still is - so you get to keep all your women stuff and just add ours to it.
You ever notice no one ever ask the opposite? Is it ok if men are in the club/place of business where women congregate? You know why that is? Cause we don't want to be there!
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Perhaps some guys think the presence of wives/SOs creates a more inhibited environment, but I have found wives to be a bit more wild than guys at certain times.
I even talked to many dancers who said they hate female customers because they tend to get grabby more than the men and have no respect and also mess up the girls money. I think all these women who insist on going into GENTLEMENS clubs do it because they aret supposed to, ANYTHING they arent supposed to do is the first thing they want to do. Its this kind of toxic personality that these types have. They get some kind of pleasure from annoying people.
I once went into a male strip club with a woman I was dating who didnt want to go in alone and her friends didnt want to go with her. I paid a bigger cover than she did and also as a NON dancer male I was NOT allowed anywhere on the floor and had to remain at the bar the entire time. She got a dance with some really muscular guy and I didnt give one fuck. Most of the male dancers are gay anyway, plus I am not a jealous type. They dont allow gys on the main floor because jealous husbands might go in starting trouble. I have seen more jealous wives and GF starting trouble at strip clubs than men. They feel more self entitled.
I once saw a jealus wife go in and try hitting her husband that was getting a dance. She pulled the dancer off by her hair and the dancer ended up pummeling the woman to the ground. The husband was likely so humiliated. This could have all been avoided if they would NOT allow the women in. Its a GENTLEMENS club. Get it???
In reality its realy just a spy mission so they can see what their man does when they arent around. They keep a close eye on how their husband or boyfriend acts around the pros.
And if you are a guy...trust and believe that when an argument happens or cheating accusation comes up SHE WILL use the strip club "Fun Outing" against you. LEAVE YOUR HEN AT HOME or let her go do her thing and you do yours.
The dancers might act nice because its there job , but believe me they are telling other customers and dancers how they cant wait until the bitch leaves.
To Sativa, take your M to the SC anytime he says it’s ok, every time, without concern. Note, there’ll be SCs that are more couple friendly than others. For the SCs I go, it’s very rare not to see one or more couples in it.
However, I couldn’t imagine taking a wife I’m with day and night to the club. That’s my time.
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At a club in The Block years ago, I was with a woman and her boyfriend. We were refused entry at 2 clubs before ultimately being able to after a 3rd club. I don't know if entry was refused due to jealousy risk, fear of pimping, or another issue. Ultimately, we had a fun, drama-free night.
Sure, there have been times when a couple comes in and I sense that the women really doesn't want to be there. But that's not my problem.
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I like seeing civie women in the club, rare but sometimes at mine. Obnoxious behavior by either sex is just plain obnoxious.
I don't give a fuck if someone else wants to bring their girl in.
I'm old enough to not give a fuck what anybody else is doing in the club.
What would be a problem is if I mistook a wife/girlfriend as a pro, and they....or their partner gets worked up. Then I would say, get her the fuck out.
That is all.
That said, I think there's only been two times in my almost 40 year clubbing career that I've seen couples in a club. That's probably because the places I go to most often aren't where you'd likely go with your husband. Not unless you want to watch your hubby get groped and DFK'd at the bar, and then in the VIP get a BBBJ and DATY as a warm-up to FS. Because that's the kind of places I go to.
I don't know what you are trying to get out of this. Everybody has their thoughts, and fishing here ain't gonna mean anything specific.
Trust your guts, move forward - If you want advice, be specific with questions.
BTW, other people in the club don't know if you are wife, GF, another wanna be stripper, a pimp is bringing you... unless you and them sit there in the club for a prolonged period of time, and if that is the case, and none of you are doing dances, then the opinions of those people shouldn't matter to you.
Depends: how hot are you, and does your daddy share?
The event was a competition with dancers from various local clubs. It was a nice show that got raunchier and raunchier with simulated and not so simulated sex acts on stage. The place was packed to the rafters and close to half of the audience were women. Mostly dancers from a variety of clubs but some like my companion were not.
One thing that was blatantly obvious was that the women were much louder and more animated in expressing their approval and excitement. This was especially true during the raunchiest acts on stage. At one point the women pushed their way forward and crowded the men away from the front row seating.
In short this sums up my comment and observations over the years. Women in general don’t seem to know how to behave IMHO. I don’t care who else is there but I should not notice anyone because if I do there is a good chance they are acting the fool and I didn’t come to see you demand attention consciously or otherwise. Just sit down, shut up and discreetly touch yourself like everyone else.
Strip clubs were pretty much the last place men had where they could "let there hair down".
Every other place, women have crashed it some type of way. Barbershops, pool halls, golf courses, you name it. Anything that was once an establishment where it was majority men no longer is.
As soon as women join in, you can no longer speak the same way, act the same way - I mean, technically you could - but you run the risk of offending a women and possibly dealing with some unforseen repercussion for it.
By the same token, any establishment that is primarily women still is - so you get to keep all your women stuff and just add ours to it.
You ever notice no one ever ask the opposite? Is it ok if men are in the club/place of business where women congregate? You know why that is? Cause we don't want to be there!