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6 years ago
@wyohio - So I don't think you can know at all in advance if this a scam/ripoff. As stated before my CF is a ROB but she doesn't rip off everyone. You have to piss her off. So if you do go through with this make sure to play fairly and never piss this girl off.
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6 years ago
Just drove by and the club is definitely still open and even looks busier than normal.
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6 years ago
Why go to vegas? Seems like you could get 2-5 visits at home with the same budget.
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6 years ago
@wyohio - It is hard to give you advice because although this girl knows your real name we don't know big of a deal that is. How much do you have to lose if she tried to extort you? You have put yourself in a position where that would be really easy. Past that from your post it sounds like she is looking for a regular OTC arrangement which it doesn't sound like you are looking for. Can you even afford that?
In all of this I am not saying don't do it, just look at the downsides in a clear way. If you do decide to do it I have advice which is: Don't ever piss her off! My CF is a stripper who is an occasional rob but she only goes after guys who do something to cross her.
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6 years ago
@blahblahblah23 - Is dealing with insane staff the part that stresses you out or something else?
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6 years ago
Personally I am not super interested in talking specifics about what mileage/extras a certain dancer usually provides. From reading other threads on here I think a lot of other hardcore TUSCL members feel the same way. For some reason a lot of the lurkers or more casual TUSCL members seem to want to post reviews that are just reports of what dancers are at a club and what activities they allowed/provided. Personally I don't see a lot of value in those reviews.
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6 years ago
Not wanting to be beholden to their parents.
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6 years ago
@nicespice - I figured most regulars fit into three groups, guys who just like to hang at the club, a guy who is in love with a specific dancer, or a junkie like myself or sirlapdancealot that comes to see a specific dancer but will move on afterwards. My assumption always was most guys who come to see a specific dancer are more in love than a junkie. Thoughts? Any major group I am missing? If you are saying that all three of those groups fit into the 10/30% numbers you stated earlier?
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6 years ago
@nicespice - Interesting insight about whining about a previous CF to a new potential favorite. Good to know. How frequently or rarely do you run into guys like us that are junkies like us? I sort of assumed most guys would club regularly with a favorite dancer they fell in love with and then quit. Also what makes a club not attract regulars?
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6 years ago
This is the lamest attempt at trolling so far.
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6 years ago
That is a broad question. What type of club/experience are you after?
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6 years ago
How do they regulate attendance on sundays nina?
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6 years ago
With the absorbent baby powder I always use plus cotton boxers there is zero noticeable stain. I am actually wearing the shorts I LDKed in this morning out to dinner tonight.
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6 years ago
I am also in Texas where shorts are pretty common with the high temps. So I don't feel particularly self conscious.
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6 years ago
The club I go to and my CF doesn't care so I recently switched to basketball shorts. Yeah they are pretty awesome!
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6 years ago
Sirlapdancealot - He has given me a lot of good advice and guidance in the ways of being a healthy regular LDKer
Dancers:
Bj99 - She has posted she really enjoys giving "romantic style" lap dances which are what I really like
Nina and nicespice - Both of them seem to have a really cool sense of humor and would be fun to meet
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6 years ago
I always assumed extras were available. However I incorrectly assumed that lap dances were zero or next to zero contact. The first time I got a lap dance I was really confused and surprised!
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6 years ago
@sirlapdancealot - I am definitely at that point in the fantasy. For me it is never really imagining sex more enjoying receiving selfish orgasmic pleasure from a beautiful woman.
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6 years ago
Thanks for the input amelia. I am also not one to grind back or forcefully grab hips. Expressing emotion is something I had not considered. Do you have a problem with it in VIP as well as in open floor dances?
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6 years ago
As far as why dancers are anti-LDK I have wondered that as well. It is weird as some of them that are also do extras. One theory is that LDK guys spend less per visit. I remember Bj99 (dancer with a lot of LDK experience) said most LDK guys take 2-3 songs. There may also be an aspect of it that getting an LDK takes the power and fantasy away from the dancer.
It is an interesting debate as to whether it even is a fantasy. If I fantasize about my CF grinding on my and trying to get me to cum and then it actually happens is it still a fantasy anymore?
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6 years ago
I have heard of strippers calling guys who come in for LDKs:
sweatpants boner man
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6 years ago
So what is the definition of 2AMer? Also what is feeding?
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6 years ago
Nicespice already admitted she doesn't know how. Given that I am in Texas I will volunteer to make a trip down to Austin to give her some training!
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Top side for me. My dick curves a little downward to it is extremely uncomfortable to tuck it upwards.
@Sirlapdancealot - My experience is really similar regarding teenage masturbation and grinding with GFs in high school.