Need advice on OTC

Guys and ladies, I have an OTC opportunity and I have very little experience with OTC and would much appreciate your feedback as to whether this seems legit and how much risk is involved. Appologies in advance for the long narrative, but want to make sure I capture the important information.

I regularly travel for work, often to the same city. I work long hours and rarely go out at night when I'm on the road, but once or twice a month I'll hit a club. I was in my regular city last week and decided to go out. I chose the sister club of a place I'd been to before, get there around 10:30p pay the cover and grab a drink. I'm approached by an attractive dancer in her late 20's, early 30's, tallish and lean with dark hair and the kind of eastern european face that's not quite beautiful, but striking and very attractive. We talk for a while and have a good rapport, she fairly smoothly gives all the right compliments and I ask her if she wants to do some dances. We go to the dance area, which is not private and is packed, so we end up grabbing a spot near the entrance to the area which is very well lit and has everyone walking by and I'm thinking, this will be quick and uneventful. She gets on my lap and starts with a slow, high contact grind, which is nice, and then takes off her top and has a great set of C's for a very lean girl. She leans in and has her face very near to mine in an incredibly sensual way and starts kissing me and telling me how attracted she is to me. I'm in my early 40's, tall, in decent shape and not bad looking, but I've been around enough strippers to know this is part of the sale. Of course at this point I don't care as she's grinding on my lap and putting my hands on her chest as we have a full makeout session. We go on like this for a while with the added bonus of her grabbing at my junk through my underwear (she's asked me to take off my belt and unbutton my pants) but it's clear that nothing else is going to happen in this spot, the place is still packed and I very rarely LDK from friction, so after a while I thank her for a great time and pay her (I legitimately think she signficantly undercharged me for the number of songs, this club charges a very high door fee and drink charges and dancers keep all their dance money). She thanks me for an 'amazing time', tells me again how attracted she is to me and asks if I'm leaving. I tell her I had fun and that I'll probably stick around for a while.

I freshen up in the bathroom then talk to a cute, younger dancer (maybe 20) and get some dances from her. While getting dances from girl #2, girl #1 walks by with a customer and makes sure to catch my eye and give me a very sweet smile. I should have cut girl #2 off immediately, as she was more interested in talking than dancing, but went on for a while and she makes up for the other girl by signficantly overcounting on dances, but I wasn't going to argue so I pay her, thinking in my mind that I really need to start counting or at least look at my phone for the starting time.

I walk back out, grab a drink and a few minutes later girl #1 finds me, gives me a big smile and says "were you having fun? it seemed like a lot more talking than dancing going on". I crack up and tell her it was ok, but she was definately more fun. She asks if I have to go or can hang out for a while. It's now past 12:30 and I should really be going, but I tell her sure, I can hang out for a bit and ask her how long she's staying. She tells me she always stays until close at 3 and then takes the train home, which takes her about an hour. She had earlier told me that she has a day job in an office, which doesn't seem to hold true given that's she'll be getting home at 4a on a Wednesday, but I let it go. We have a really great rapport, very natural, which I assume just means that she's really good at her job. She asks me if I want to do more dances and I say I'm not sure, that she drove me crazy last time and there's only so much we can do. She says that we'll find a darker spot in the back and there's only so much we can do with no privacy, but we'll have a good time. I was really enjoying myself with her so I said sure and we headed back. The back where it's darker is still packed, but we hang out and talk for a bit and a spot opens up. She immediately has me take off my belt and open my pants button and climbs on my lap and starts another makeout session. She's rubbing herself on me in just the right way and although I'm sure there was some acting involved, it becomes pretty clear that she's having a good time too. I tell her that I'm sure she gets this all the time, but does she want to get out of there and she says yes, absolutely. Having no experience with this I'm shocked by the answer and ask her how long she needs to get her stuff and head out. She tells me that it's past 1 and she's worried she'll miss her train and an Uber would be very far and expensive. I told her that's not a problem, I have no problem paying for it. She hesitates and I ask if there's an issue with her taking an Uber home and she says "yes, I have to tell you the truth, I'm married, but I'm very attracted to you". She asks if I'm married too and I tell her yes, I am. She says "this will be perfect, I'm 34, I have two kids and I don't want anything at home to change, but I love sex and am incredibly attracted to you, we could have fun together on nights before I go in to work, but we have to plan it in advance." She asks me to write my number on a dollar bill and give it to her and she will text me. She says she is nervous about texting on her phone and asks if she thinks she could get a second phone without showing an ID, but for now will text me her email address and we can communicate that way. I have a cell phone that I use just for work so I give her that number, uncertain as to whether I'd hear from her.

I get back to my hotel around 2 and at 2:45 she texts me her email address and thanks me for a great time, saying she can't wait to see me and hang out. I respond back saying I got her text, I had fun too and that I'd email her.

The next evening on my way to the airport I set up a new email address and made 'horrible mistake #1', where out of exhaustion and stupidity, I register for the email address using my real name, not realizing that the name would show up in addition to the address when I sent it. So I send her a note saying use this email address and I'll see you soon. After I emailed her, I emailed a test to my work email from the new account to test it (why I didn't do that previously I have no idea) and realize that my first and last name show up along with the email address. My name is not very common and I've done some media spots, etc. so when you Google my name you get work profiles and pictures of me, so there's no chance of her not knowing who I am and given my work profiles, knowing that I have at least a some money. During all the discussions of OTC activity, she never once mentioned money, just that she needs a distraction and she thinks we'd have fun together. I full expect to get hit up for money for her time and I don't have a problem with that. My concern would be if this is a scam and I end up on the wrong end of an extortion grab. So guys and gals, help me with the following:

1) does this seem like a woman who is legit or a scam? 2) how much additional risk am I running given that she knows my full name (even though I live in a city that is nowhere near her)? 3) if I were to move forward, what's the right play in reaching back out to her given that I won't be in the same town as her for a couple of weeks?