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6 years ago
Which Monday? This coming one, or the one after that? I'll be there the Monday after this one.
Raiders/Rams this week should be good. Debating on if I should just go to the game in Oakland.
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6 years ago
SJG posted: "Strip clubs are where I learned how to talk to young women."
MAAAAN if that doesn't explain a whole lot about your ........ mindset. You should post that sentence as your quote under your screen name, so new posters will have some context about the person they're chatting with.
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6 years ago
Damn son, don't get all Dougster on us with the multiple threads.
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6 years ago
^^^^^^^that frustrates me to no end (Papi's post about clueless dancers wasting time with non spenders). Especially when she's exactly my type and yet she's talking to this fucktard who hasn't so much as pulled out a dollar for over a half hour. I usually assume they are regulars. But then a lot of times when the girl leaves them and FINALLY approaches me I tell her I was waiting until she was done with her regular. And she goes, oh that's not my regular, I thought he wanted dances but I guess not. Like, damn girl, are you new or just that bad at reading dudes?
That's why I like experienced dancers, they seem to pick up on vibes pretty damn fast.
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6 years ago
I don't ask, I usually just test out my favorite looking dancers with a single dance, sometimes two. No words needed, those dances will tell you if you should continue or not. You can tell real soon if she's a rapid position changer, has air dance sequences that are too long, or seems to avoid wanting to grind for a good length of time. All that stuff is obviously bad if LDK is the goal.
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6 years ago
Twentyfive hit it spot on. Agree to disagree, that's a trait lacking from SJG. Others know how to debate without name calling.
Gawker, your avatar is fucking amazing! Or should I say, that girl is amazing. What a pose! What a body! Friend of yours?.
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6 years ago
Phatboy99 you posted " Say you see her for a year, you spend so much money on her and for nothing."
What do you mean, nothing? Each time a guy goes to see a dancer in a club he's getting some kind of physical contact and good company for whatever length of time he pays for. For a lot of guys, that's all they want. To be able to have physical contact with a hot, usually much younger girl and then walk out with no strings attached.
Phatboy I see why you and SJG agree with each other all the time. Your MO is pretty much the same. You go to strip clubs in hopes of finding a girlfriend or an extended OTC type of affair. Hey if that's what you're looking for no one's stopping you. For you Phatboy it's probably easier. You sound like a younger guy and therefore attracting one of these young girls is easier for you. Not gonna comment on SJG's success rate in the club.
But for a lot of older guys, it's not feasible to go to the club looking for a girlfriend. More than likely a girl wants a boyfriend who is closer to her age, not twice or even more. And honestly most of these guys aren't looking for a girlfriend anyway. A lot of guys are married and still visit the club simply because they want company from a younger hotter woman than their wife. Thats the beauty of strip clubs. It's totally possible for a price. And once they walk out the club, the experience is over, just like they want. Not the same as dealing with a side bitch, who commands more time than you might be able to give AND presents a much bigger chance of getting you caught up with your main chick.
Phatboy99 you said you wouldn't want that type of customer/P4P relationship. Nothing wrong with that. But I hope you realize that same P4P/customer relationship is what keeps ALL clubs (including the one your girl dances at) in business and making money.
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6 years ago
That girl in the video is definitely LDK worthy if she gives cool dances. That ass was banging!
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6 years ago
Phatboy99 how are you gonna know if a girl is a ROB if you're just meeting her for the first time? You're not, so besides just common sense you have to keep your wits about you. You call that being paranoid, whereas regular patrons of clubs call it preventing yourself from being scammed.
As for 'what we're doing to these girls' once again, that is what a strip club is. Dances, groping, grinding. No one is forcing the girls to work there, they choose to. I'll ask again, what do you propose a customer does when they go to a club? Not get dances? No groping or grinding?
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6 years ago
^^^^^But that's what a strip club is, pay money to get dances, contact, and time with a beautiful woman. Are you saying patrons should keep seeing different dancers and not the same one? Because a lot of dancers actually like having regulars for steady income. And the patrons like seeing the same girl because of the understood relationship and mileage.
You might not get the point, but both patrons and dancers do. So what's the problem?
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6 years ago
Thanks Dominic, for an answer that actually addressed the concerns I mentioned.
The 'no touch' solution IMO is a terrible idea. If every strip club were an air dance, hands by the side type place I could only imagine the decline in the popularity of strip clubs. I for one would never set foot in one ever again if that happened. And I suspect I wouldn't be alone, so once again that's fucking with a lot of girls' money.
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6 years ago
Ok I'll try to get your response in this thread then, Phatboy99. How exactly should patrons of strip clubs treat the girls? You criticize patrons for being untrusting of the girls, but the reason that happens is because some of them are true ROBs. It's cause and effect. Your posts make it seem like patrons have all these negative views of dancers for no reason other than just plain being scared and untrusting.
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6 years ago
I'd actually like a response from @Phatboy99. SJG your answer doesn't address any of the things that Phatboy mentioned in his post about the PTSD dancers suffer from doing their job.
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6 years ago
Phatboy99 that is a pretty poignant post.
However, what's the solution? You asked if we give a fuck about the girls. My answer is, I care about them as much as I'd care about any person I'd meet. I wouldn't wish anything bad on anyone. That said, they chose to work in a club. A club that allows groping, some clubs even more. So what are we supposed to do, not go to clubs? Wouldn't that just fuck up the girls money? You called it dirty money, yet they return week after week to make it, right?
I'm curious, what do you suppose we PLs do?
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6 years ago
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san_jose_guymoney was invented for handing to women, but buying dances is a chump's game
^^^^^That's basically what he does in every LDK thread, except replace fag with chump. So sure, give him a dose of his own medicine.
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6 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
^^^^^^I need to find a stripper like in your example! I LOVE titfucks lol and love girls who love to give them.
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Cool thread. Good idea PC and thanks Nicespice for being so honest (hopefully) with this.
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6 years ago
Damn, Dad is out trolling his own daughter. I guess Dad is Eminem and Nicole is MGK.
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6 years ago
So front room groping comparisons? I don't give a damn how much more groping you can do in the front room of Follies vs Hong Kong. If I had to pick between the two I'd take Hong Kong any day of the week.
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6 years ago
Wow! I had an entire post written out but it cut the entire thing off after my smiley emojis.
I just don't understand how Anislee said you can get more groping in a US strip club (even one as good as Follies), than a Mexican brothel where you can take the girl upstairs and have all the space and freedom in the world, and for dirt cheap at that.
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6 years ago
That's why I want him to explain more. I've never been to TJ (that's gonna change in a week and two days
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6 years ago
^^^^^^wait, what? You said he'd grope a lot more in Follies than in Hong Kong??!!
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6 years ago
There's also the time difference. Might be 10pm for you, but it's later on the east coast. Folks got work in the AM and doing other things besides posting on a strip club web site.
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6 years ago
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flagoonerEverything written by this member is a fact.
Sounds like you're just going off of TUSCL topics, which we know is nowhere near any accurate representation of men everywhere.
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6 years ago
The article feature has been down for a long time now. Doesn't look like Founder is in any rush to put it back up.