Stop the judgements
poledancer83
Narnia
I have heard a lot of shit talk from other dancers about other dancers. Mostly about what some dancers allow customers to do. Some is touching and some sex but this drives me insane. Ladies we need to stick up for one another. Lets be real for a minute and say that no one who dances, me included is considered a goody girl. This may piss of some other dancers but lets be realistic "good girls" don't drag there pussy across a stage so a stranger can throw money on there ass. So before we start blasting our fellow dancers maybe we should look in the mirror. Im not condoning what other girls do but what I am saying is at least understand why they do. Every dancer has been asked at least once and if we were all honest we would say that we at least considered it. Again not to say its ok but to say we need to stop judging others. Every successful dancer paints the picture that sex could happen. Ive had the question how do you like it or am I to big for you. As a hustler I respond talk dirty and take my money and move on. Imagine the picture it would paint if I screamed at those questions and got offended and 10 mins later im spread eagle showing off every inch. Its just stupid to think that we are somehow better then the extra girls. At the end of the day we are all pro ho's to some degree. Some just go further then others because of their situation. So dancers be nice the say guy that just went all the way with her is about to give you a 10 and youll drop em and smile and flirt and the only difference is youll stop before she did. Show all your fellow dancers the same respect!!!
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For my part, I think it's an exercise in futility to try to get the strippers to stop judging each other. What I wish is that customer would stop taking the SW gospel and spreading it. By which I mean, using terms like "clean dancers" abso-fucking-lutely endorses the notion that extras a "Dirty" and so are the girls who do them. Some of the guys on this forum are in a bit of a denial on how strongly the terms we use shapes the way we think about things ... and every time one of us uses the term "clean dancer", it IS a judgement, it's something every lurker picks up at least subconsciously, and we're doing SW's judgey cunty work for them.
Non-judgemental terms: non-extras girl. extras girl.
From a moral point of view, whether she does extras or not is irrelevant to me since I don't consider sex or prostitution shameful to begin with.
Just, you know, intellectual curiosity.
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To change the subject - is there a larger view of PD's avatar? Since it looks very interesting - and by interesting I mean very hot!
I imagine for many dancers, being able to say "I may grind against dicks for money, but I don't fuck " helps them sleep better at night.
Also, the SW response would be if there were no extras girls, guys wouldn't ask. Especially if some girls offer cheap extras, it's harder to dance clean and make money. I'd counter the market should decide, but there will always be those who try to protect their interests through intimidation.