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5 years ago
Is that video even related to the story? Does not look like it. Different locations.
It must be pretty embarrassing to get caught up in a prostitution sting since the media likes to shame mongers and make an example out of them.
P4P is probably as common as people smoking weed. You just have to be smart about it.
Don’t solicit street hookers or ads and you’ll be fine. Safest is to pull from a strip club.
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5 years ago
OTC or bust. Let us know how it went, Gawker.
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5 years ago
Except for the FIV thing. I really mean that. To me that’s assault. I doubt anyone would agree to be digitally penetrated.
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5 years ago
@minnow it’s all tongue in cheek 😉
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5 years ago
Well just because a dancer can potentially make $400 an hour does not justify the actions of PLs that try to stick a finger in their vagina.
What’s disappointing to learn is that strippers hate to be touched or even to touch men.
I like touch but I don’t want to use the cuddle buddy service. That’s pretty lame.
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5 years ago
That’s why I like having a favorite dancer and just getting dances from her until she leaves the industry. That way I traumatize less dancers with my touch.
I also think a dancer feels less anxiety with her regulars because she knows how they behave.
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5 years ago
I’m more confused than a penguin on a desert.
Are dancers traumatized by touch or not?
If I touch, it’s buttocks or breasts, never pussy.
The dancer is the one putting my hands on her breasts.
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5 years ago
I always found it fascinating how in a lap dance interaction, we would love for a dancer to touch us all over and even grab our junk but touching a dancer back gives her mental anguish.
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5 years ago
I will still go the BYOB clubs though.
I will just drink with my buddies and not get dances anymore. Sorry, strippers but this is for your mental wellbeing.
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5 years ago
I refuse to sit on my hands or pay for conversation. Fuck that.
I would rather just stay home and watch porn.
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5 years ago
This thread is depressing 😞
Who knew we were causing so much mental anguish to strippers.
Shut down all the strip clubs. The girls will just have to work a normal 9 to 5 job like the rest of us.
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5 years ago
Si what’s the takeaway from this thread?
Just tip for conversation and not get dances ?
Sit on our hands?
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5 years ago
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Thanks for reminding not to have kids. That’s a lot of stuff kids need to go back to school. I bet all parents dread this time of the month. It’s a big hit to their pocketbooks.
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5 years ago
I wish I had moved on sooner from my first CF. In hindsight, there were many clues that she hated the job.
My present CF grabs my hands and put them on her body. Judging by the snail trail on my pants, she also gets wet from the dances. I think my previous CF mentally checked out during the dances because she was never wet from what I could tell.
My limit is fingering. I could never do that. That’s just so intrusive but i know some guys go for it.
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5 years ago
To each their own I guess.
The strip club is not a place to go looking for meaningful relationships with strippers.
I appreciate my CF and treat her well. We talk, we have some drinks and then we go to the back for some dances. That’s what the strip club is for and that is the service strippers provide.
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5 years ago
The only thing I don’t understand is why you don’t get dances from her if you find her attractive.
Being “friends” with a stripper I find hot is not going to stop me from buying dances from her and instead giving her cash for conversation.
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5 years ago
🐪 toe
I had a CF that wore yoga pants all time. Her camel toe was prominent and would get me hard just from seeing it.
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5 years ago
“CDC estimates that youth ages 15-24 make up just over one quarter of the sexually active population, but account for half of the 20 million new sexually transmitted infections that occur in the United States each year”
The majority of strippers are in that pool (18-24)
With those numbers, it’s more likely that we will catch something from them. That’s why I would rather stick to one stripper instead of trying out many.
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5 years ago
Dental dam
You can use it as a barrier when you want to chow down on ass or pussy. I just don’t see the point of it. Might as well not do it.
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5 years ago
I’m just curious. What changed in 4 years that you have decided to ask her out now?
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5 years ago
Yes there are and the strippers are the ones hitting on them, not the other way around. I don’t have a problem with that. Good for them.
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5 years ago
Story makes no sense.
She’s been stripping for 6 years but she was bartending 4 years ago? 🤷🏻♂️
You met her 4 years ago, never commented on her stories or messaged her and out of the blue just ask her out to lunch?
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5 years ago
I am familiar with PTs but i don’t bother with the manager’s names. I don’t have the slightest clue of who “Todd” is.
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5 years ago
I’m not jelly. I am mad. Because of this asshole, I can’t get nude lap dances from my CF anymore. Topless only.
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5 years ago
Have some decency, fat strip club managers. At least offer to pay them for OTC like the rest of us. 😂