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2 years ago
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Hank MoodyI'm fine. I'm disgusted with my life and myself, but I'm not unhappy about that.
"Dougster did that too,*hint*"
I was one of the first people who thought he was Dougster when he first showed up. At this point I have no idea anymore, other than that all that original reasoning as to why they might be the same person still stands
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2 years ago
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Hank MoodyI'm fine. I'm disgusted with my life and myself, but I'm not unhappy about that.
"The other hilarious thing is when Icey gets so angry you can tell hes misspelling stuff out of anger"
That's a funny observation, I didn't realize anyone else noticed it. I used to have as my tagline a quote from him where he got so angry at me that he went double-dyslexic: not only misspelled every word but put the words in wrong order 🤣🤣
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2 years ago
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Hank MoodyI'm fine. I'm disgusted with my life and myself, but I'm not unhappy about that.
25: exactly, that's what I was referring to -- I think the troll thing is very easy to address far more effectively, but that block mechanism at least brought some oases of signal to the desert of all this noise. Which founder couldn't abide, so removed it. He knows this mess isn't bringing more eyeballs to this site, if anything it drives people away. Either it's his principles around free speech on the forum, or he is at a troll level that is so evolved that we cannot possibly understand him 🤣
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2 years ago
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Hank MoodyI'm fine. I'm disgusted with my life and myself, but I'm not unhappy about that.
CMI: makes you wonder exactly who will remain and who disappears when founder does his Thanos troll snap! lol
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2 years ago
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Hank MoodyI'm fine. I'm disgusted with my life and myself, but I'm not unhappy about that.
SJG, I have half a mind to punish shailynn for his insolence by forcing him to accept an invitation to our organization. We'll see who gets the fattest, ghettoist, cellulite-ist laugh.
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2 years ago
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Hank MoodyI'm fine. I'm disgusted with my life and myself, but I'm not unhappy about that.
"See what Subra did there?"
lol... I was genuinely not aiming that comment at JimmyMac. I couldn't aactually name the top perps off the top of my head. But it's always obvious that people pour in to those threads, how many of Icey's have tons of replies from guys complaining about Icey? All of them.
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2 years ago
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ilbbaicnlKeep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
Disinformation: if you are a guy and go for a job interview with a female boss, you will hardly ever be required to fuck the interviewer on her office couch in order to attain that job
Disinformation: if your female neighbor asks you to come by to fix her sink, sometimes she just wants you to fix her sink
Disinformation: when you have sex, music featuring a prominent bassline doesn't spontaneously start playing
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2 years ago
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Hank MoodyI'm fine. I'm disgusted with my life and myself, but I'm not unhappy about that.
You're right, he doesn't seem to have been trolling. That said, he's made many, many statements about his policy choices that leave me skeptical that any technical change can be effective without more substantial policy changes... but now I'm definitely hoping for the best!
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2 years ago
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Hank MoodyI'm fine. I'm disgusted with my life and myself, but I'm not unhappy about that.
Muddy, I missed that, but I wonder if you're misinterpreting him, or Nicepsice has the right answer :) Founders own statements always seemed to say that this is more about his notion of what free speech means, than some technical inhibitor . In fact he's given us tools in the past that worked pretty well, decided they constrained speec too much, and removed them again. The content of the forum is more directly related to Founders policies (which as the owner, he of course has every right to make), not some technical issue to be solved, it would be easy to address if he chose to.
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2 years ago
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Hank MoodyI'm fine. I'm disgusted with my life and myself, but I'm not unhappy about that.
While I agree "don't feed the trolls" is good advice, unfortunately in the history of the internet I don't think it's ever worked. There are exactly two options: Mod your forum, or have it full of trolls. Hell, some of the guys who complain most about the trolls, are the ones who respond to most of their threads.
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2 years ago
Just go man. Worst case, you had lunch with a gorgeous young woman, and a mild case of blue balls. Life could be worse.
Kills me to say it, CJKent is right, if for some reason you were radiating wealth, many SBs freestyle ("freestyle" is the term used, CJKent). More likely, it's an escort, but what the hell, only one way to find out
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2 years ago
The money isn't as consistent these days, so I don't think they can be guaranteed that much on any particular shift. But that's irrelevant -- with CA's move to employee status, shifts are much smaller so not every girl even has the option of working Friday or Saturday night anymore. So, if she's not doing anything anyway, here I am. That's irrelevant too though, since I prefer weekdays lol. (in short, nothing you've raised has any impact on OTC prices)
I don't necessarily pay so little. I pay for an OTC. Typically, we go out to dinner, go out for drinks and get good and buzzed, go back to the hotel room and have sex; sometimes I bring a bottle so we drink more there. I don't negotiate for overnights or how long the OTC will last. Some strippers just decide it's late, they're drunk and tired, so they might as well crash. I've had OTC strippers who pretty much always crash, some who did it when they got too drunk. But it's their choice, I just pay my OTC fee. That's why I question those who PLs who pre-negotiate time, it's just dumb.
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2 years ago
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ilbbaicnlKeep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
Here's a fun story. Some years back, there was a customer of the higher-end alcohol clubs, who the girls nicknamed "Nips". He was known across at least two of the clubs I went to. Nips apparently had nipple rings, and he'd take girls to the VIP, and like them to pull on the rings. And apparently, he like the girls to pull them HARD, the girls will be pulling hard and he'd be telling them to go even harder. Even the harder core girls got freaked out.
So the girls, being mischievous imps that they are, would sometimes send a baby stripper over to him. "He's a nice guy, he always gets VIPs" they'd tell her. Once in the VIP, of course, our baby stripper would be freaked out about yanking on his nipple rings, and he by this time had figured out what was going on, because he'd joke with the baby strippers, "oh you got set up to come do a dance with me, didn't you?"
Errbody stans Nips!
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2 years ago
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gammanu95My casual drinking is your alcohol poisoning.
Yeah, GG was lowbrow, but he was great on the roasts and a number of other ties as well
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2 years ago
Escorts aren't cheaper than OTC unless you're doing something really dumb, like doing 60-minute OTCs. If you're doing OTCs with a stripper who has a an escort-like pricing model, then you're getting the worst of all worlds: escort-like professionalism combined with stripper-like reliability. If you're doing that, better off with escorts, perhaps. But if you're doing "per date" style pricing with OTC, given that many OTCs go for hours and sometimes overnights, the pricing difference vanishes. Many escorts in this area charge $1500-$2000+ for an overnight; even with hotel room, dinner, drinks, etc., you won't spend that on an OTC. I have a lot more thoughts in my article here: https://tuscl.net/article.php?id=44731
TL;DR on escorts: multi-hour OTCs are better value than multi-hours with escorts, with a hotter girl, who hasn't fucked 4 other guys that day... if you're willing to put up with the possibility of her flaking etc. If you just want a warm hole to bang for an hour, escorts are fine I guess
To me, FBSMs are a bit different, and I personally have always had room for both SCing and FBSM. FBSM really is a bunch cheaper, I don't really want more than an hour FBSM, FBSM when done well provides a different more sensual experience that puts it in a different category. So from time to time, I want to just set an appointment, get a super sexy massage and expert handy, all for much cheaper than an escort or OTC? I'm in!
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2 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Yes JS69 wrote a long TR about his Juice encounter
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2 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Perhaps a tribute Juice would appreciate: I still halfway suspect Juice wrote that obit just to troll us
RIP juice
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2 years ago
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gothamytefrom that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
Nicespice gonna catch the Suds
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2 years ago
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gothamytefrom that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
"I don't bring up time unless the dancer does. Usually, they don't."
Right. IME, a stripper negotiating for time is a surefire sign her OTC model is professional -- in the sense of the other thread about professionalism. Almost never a good thing. OTC with a "professional" stripper is the worst of all worlds, escort-like professionalism with stripper-like reliability.
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2 years ago
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gothamytefrom that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
"An hour or 2 hrs"... damn, negotiating for time is IMO the single dumbest mistake a PL can make. gotham are you assuming all of us OTC based on time? Are all you guys specifically negotiating for some set time period for your OTCs, and I'm the weirdo?
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2 years ago
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ilbbaicnlKeep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
Yeah I ask close to 100% of dances I take in the VIP if I can spank them. Pretty much they always say yes, I start super light, then turn around and yell "harder!", and now we're off to the races. Lots of other super fun things to explore once we break the ice. Uncommonly, I meet a stripper who is dominant and I let her do her thing.
I fkn love when I get out of the VIP, then I see the stripper walking the floor and her ass cheeks are red. I did that!
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2 years ago
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ilbbaicnlKeep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
"Subra you do that in the bathhouses too! lol"
Hey Shai, don't get jealous, you'll always be my best girl!
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2 years ago
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ilbbaicnlKeep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
If I were to name my 10 top SC journey moments, one would be the first time I asked a stripper (Chase at CP!) if I could spank her. I've been doing light bdsm with strippers in the VIP ever since -- decades later. Long as she's consenting and you're communicating limits etc it's a great time.
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2 years ago
I'd like to hear what some of your interesting or difficult-to-obtain bucket list items were -- maybe I lack imagination but I think I've hit most of mine. I'm sure some of you guys have some juicy ones that might light a fire for the rest of us.
Some of mine have been two strippers at once in an OTC, stripper turned FWB, sleeping over a stripper's place and spending the weekend with her and her two stripper roommates, extras in a non-extras club, extras right out on the floor in a non-extras club (!!!). I didn't really think of these as bucket list items, they all sort of just happened and I went with the flow
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2 years ago
While I suspect skibum is right, there's so much noise here that I'm willing to respond to anything that looks like signal 🤣
Most attractive strippers have boyfriends, OTC girls included. IME, the boyfriends almost never know about the OTCing -- on her side, our logistics challenges will be all about getting around that. Again IME, these relationships are almost always unhealthy, however much they loved each other at first, now there's lots of verbal abuse, resentment from him about her job and suspicions of infidelity, resentment from her about his infidelities, resentment from her that she's the breadwinner, and on and on. Never met a stripper in an "open relationship". She OTCs in the context of a broken relationship, usually, but there's codependence and other issues preventing a breakup.