Escort in my 'hood...
Thursday, April 14, 2022 2:35 AM
Fellow TUSCL'ers - Something I've not read much on. Would appreciate your take...
At a civvy bar I sometimes hang (associated with a high-end hotel), escorts show up from time-to-time. I managed to find myself in a brief conversation with one (I think). It's not like they advertise, so did not initially take it for that. However, her enthusiastic reception of our conversation and urgency to get together for lunch or drinks soon (bearing in mind she's a late 20s hottie, talking to an early 60s PL), makes me think she's a professional.
Being a lower-end club VIP guy (think Follies), I am not a high roller, although occasionally look like it.
She wrote to say she'd like to get together soon. Question: How to respond?
1) Tell her I think she's a prostitute, and I'm not a good candidate for what she likely charges.
2) Just meet with her, and see where it goes.
3) Fabricate some lame reason to not meet her, and see if she gives up.
4) Other?
Thanks, guys. I'll report back any findings... đ
At a civvy bar I sometimes hang (associated with a high-end hotel), escorts show up from time-to-time. I managed to find myself in a brief conversation with one (I think). It's not like they advertise, so did not initially take it for that. However, her enthusiastic reception of our conversation and urgency to get together for lunch or drinks soon (bearing in mind she's a late 20s hottie, talking to an early 60s PL), makes me think she's a professional.
Being a lower-end club VIP guy (think Follies), I am not a high roller, although occasionally look like it.
She wrote to say she'd like to get together soon. Question: How to respond?
1) Tell her I think she's a prostitute, and I'm not a good candidate for what she likely charges.
2) Just meet with her, and see where it goes.
3) Fabricate some lame reason to not meet her, and see if she gives up.
4) Other?
Thanks, guys. I'll report back any findings... đ
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If she initiates work talk. I'd not bother with her. It seems like too elaborate of a scheme 8f she is a hooker. Most are direct. Games are always a bad sign
Most likely scenario, she is a prostitute like you believe and possibly willing to negotiate to a price point that works for you both.
I will play along and comment on your discussion.
She may be a âfreelancerâ or âUnder The Radarâ Sugar Baby.
Looking to âdateâ sugar daddies and get cash, gifts, and 5-star hotel stays.
When you meet her next time just ask her what type of ârelationshipâ would she be interested in.
Just make sure you can afford her and make it a mutual benefit win win relationship.
1. We have high end escorts, centerfolds, actresses, models, Strippers ITC/OTC etc that provide PSE/GFE for the sake of pleasure.
2. Mistresses/Sugar Babies/Sidechicks etc, for the daily needs of our bodies.
3. Wives and Trophy Wives (with an ironclad prenup) to bear us lawful offspring, and be the faithful guardians of our homes.
4. Realistic Sex Dolls/Gynoids/Fembot, and Internet Porn and Instagram/Onlyfans âModelsâ, for kicks-and-gigglesâ
Just remember to be careful out there.
Also Pics and Vids or it didnât happen.
I've never encountered a P4P chick who works like this. Seems like it could be some sort of long con. Escorts typically quote you a amount of $ for a certain amount of their time. There's nothing illegal about it. But that also can be a con. Ask for a link to her escort website if it turns out she's an escort, and check her out on theeroticreview.net .
Seems like she could be looking for a sugar daddy.
Kills me to say it, CJKent is right, if for some reason you were radiating wealth, many SBs freestyle ("freestyle" is the term used, CJKent). More likely, it's an escort, but what the hell, only one way to find out
Kinda reminds of a time I had a girl in vegas say hi as I passed and I'm like um hey and then she said something along the lines of looking to have a good time and in my head was like ohhhh hooker, shortly after I passed I saw security escort her out and was like well must have been one.
Not #1.
It's definitely some form of p4p. Best to get it in the open promptly.
To answer your question:
Q: She wrote to say she'd like to get together soon. Question: How to respond?
A: Text her that instead of âlunch or drinksâ you want to invite her to dinner.
A classic candlelight dinner at a fine restaurant (doesnât have to be the most expensive, but good service and good food are the key).
Be the gentleman in the relationship and if she agrees take care of the menu in advance and order something special that you know is good.
Some good food, good wine and a nice atmosphere that makes her feel comfortable, safe, cared for by a man that that could properly provide and protect her is the key to a relationship between a gentleman (potential Sugar Daddy) and a potential (Sugar Baby).
Behave like a civilian and donât you bring the issue of money for her time, let her be the one to bring her issues/needs (many sugar babies just want to have a few things they canât afford, pay some bills and a mentor/father figure to help them)
If everything is going well during your date, you can suggest a second date in the form of weekend trip so you both will have the opportunity to spend some time the privacy of a nice hotel, get know each other better and get a little closer.
Hopefully she will realize that better than becoming your Sugar Baby, she might be a good girlfriend on her way to marry and become a good trophy wife, because âBehind every great man is a great womanâ
Good luck on your date with your future wife.
:D
When are you going to write the report on your findings?
:D
Based on your description - itâs likely sheâs a pro. But, donât miss out on the opportunity - in case sheâs not.
You often have to buy the sugar baby dinner first, but don't have to pay for her time eating.
If at all possible, move things to your turf or a different neutral site. She must initiate all conversation about giving and getting; you stay the perfect gentlemen until then, and for a little while beyond.
The possibilities of scam, con, blackmail, law enforcement, and other "negativities" is very real, so ultra-caution is advised. Enjoy the PG-Rated interactions for what they are, and advance beyond that once you are really really sure it is safe, proper and affordable.
Hey if you've got the time to kill spinning your wheels then by all means play it out, but if it were me I'd cut her loose. I have neither the time nor the patience to get caught up in go nowhere interactions. Worse though, IME girls who are initially ambiguous about what they want are usually trying to set the table for a bigger ask. Ugh. Idk about you, but I can think of 50 ways I'd rather spend my time and money than playing along with something like this.
Chapter clothes, and onward to the next PL adventure... đ
Of course you followed up with her, lmao. You probably did it before you even started this thread. As much as your instincts and simple common sense all told you that this didn't smell right, even the remotest hope that this might be a lightening strike was enough to keep you going. đ
Man the shit that we do when there is a hot girl involved. Too funny.
I will grant you that. Pretty much every dumb decision in my life has involved a hot girl. Probably more to come...