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6 years ago
I fk'n love handjobs, so if the price is right, that's a sale on its own. Cumming on her face just adds a little dirty taboo fun to it
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6 years ago
Agree with Estaf, RW is a bland generic blonde. Definitely one of those chicks where I don't get why people think are so hot.
Would. But I'd probably just ask her for a HJ and to cum on her face. Or in her hair.
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6 years ago
-->"I've fucked 5 guys in my life. You are not going to be number 6. Oh, and your cock is not the next cock I'm sucking, either."
That line is an instant, "okay then, bye!" for me, no matter what comes next. But, if she's offered me "handjob and cum on her face" for a reasonable price, I'd take that in a split second!
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6 years ago
-->"A lot of strippers don't have cars or get rides. So really you're basing your decision to enter a club on how many other swinging dicks are there."
Yeah, that's why I was hedging. Do the number of cars in the lot really reflect the # of strippers? I'd think it more reflects the number of customers, in which case, the fewer the better. I'm perfectly comfortable being one of only 2 or 3 customers in the club
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6 years ago
Are you equating cars in the parking lot to number of strippers? Unfortunately (or fortunately), none of the strip clubs I go to have parking lots, but most have convenient street parking or close parking garages. No way to estimate how many people are inside. If the club did have a parking lot, I think a big difference between you and I must be: if I have a CF (and I strive to always have one), then I'll have made an appointment with her beforehand, I know she's inside, and I could not care less how many other strippers are on shift, so # cars in the lots has no bearing. If I didn't have a CF and was going in cold... I dunno, we don't have lots here so I don't have any experience correlating cars in the lot to SC trip fun
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6 years ago
-->"My guess is that she had a little cock and balls and that you had a front room make-out session with "her." ;)"
My new ATF says a small penis shouldn't be any type of problem. I still wish she didn't have one.
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6 years ago
Yeah, my prediction is, a developer buys the land, demolishes the building, and puts up highrise apartments. $10M price for the land is chump change compared to what he'll make from the apartments
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6 years ago
SC: Phatboy is a fake user, doing schtick. He goes back and forth between a cringeworthy impersonation of a pimp, and sounding just like one of us (because it IS just an alternative persona of someone here). That's why it doesn't trigger an avalanche of defensiveness.
To put the shoe on the other foot: I don't think we're unlovable, but we're probably not a great dating target for strippers, either. Works both ways.
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6 years ago
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Mr_PUA_Guy50The guy in the fancy suit picking up your ATF at the club
-->"Always funny how the thug types think they are better than an esteemed gentleman who has perfected the art of seduction. "
Haters gonna hate, man.
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6 years ago
I adore, appreciate, and respect all the strippers who have become my ATFs, and especially love the few who have become my FWBs. I have stayed in touch with strippers who retired 10+ years ago ... I wouldn't do that with someone I think of as "diseased" or "unlovable".
Of course, that doesn't mean that I'm going to go around suggesting 50 year old guys date strippers, either, because:
1. The strippers I've gotten really close to, enough to glimpse into their lives and their relationships with men -- it's always been not-pretty
2. Lots of guys across many different forums have discussed dating a stripper -- once. All of our stories are VERY similar, with very few exceptions: a roller-coaster of high-highs, mixed with deception, manipulation, betrayal, flakiness, etc. It's not just a coincidence that we're all saying the same exact things
3. I can't prove it, but given that most of us are in our 40s, 50s, 60s ... I might hypothesize that a 23-year-old smoking hot stripper who is going to date a 50-year-old, is even more likely to be damaged in her romantic relationships.
In short, "don't date a stripper" has nothing to do with "diseased and unlovable", you're projecting that. Still, totally understandable that you're hurt over "don't date a stripper" advice, I totally get it. But what do you suggest -- we all pretend that we HAVEN'T all heard these horror stories of dating strippers, over and over? I will endeavor to state it in my sensitive and understanding terms, don't mean to make anyone feel bad
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6 years ago
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steeldog65I swear, it's just shrinkage due the cold
I don't understand how you used to have her number (presumably saved in your contacts) but now you don't. You purposely erased it? Why would you ever have a stripper's # and not drop it into our contacts? I'm just trying to understand the logistics here
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6 years ago
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Mr_PUA_Guy50The guy in the fancy suit picking up your ATF at the club
I continue to be disappointed there's no chapter on peacocking in the strip club
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6 years ago
"FS up in one of the rooms upstairs", sounds like New Century Theater. At least, if you remember riding into the Tenderloin, rather than being on Broadway...
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6 years ago
Deja Vu corporate-izing the scene (they own all but 2 of the clubs) is definitely part of it -- I don't think it's just a coincidence that the SC scene here was amazing pre-DV
MBOT, of course, is its own story, since it's one of the two clubs that isn't owned by DV. As I've asserted many times before, I feel that it is the best strip club that's ever existed in the US... Vegas-level hotness plus full open extras is a pretty good combination, even though it was always a bit expensive. But the club never recovered from the 2007 consent decree after the stripper lawsuit -- I can only assume that the structure of that so tied the hands of management, and was such a lead weight financially (e.g., the strippers are employees with health benefits!), that they had little room to maneuver. I just know that pre-consent-decree MBOT = best US SC ever, post-consent-decree MBOT = giant increase in costs, giant drop in customer with commensurate drop in girls and quality, etc.
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6 years ago
Interesting! It was rumored last year that DJV had bought the place, but SESTA/FOSTA killed off teh reliable sources of info, so wasn't 100%sure the sale went through ... evidently, it didn't
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6 years ago
I would not date a stripper, so whether that stripper has kids or not is moot. I'd say you need your head examined if you're thinking about going this route, whether or not she has a kid isn't the issue.
FWB with a stripper, doesn't matter if she has kids or not. Awesome regardless, plus you'll never meet the kid, the only issue is sometimes her babysitter might fall through
-->"I'll never pay a stripper for OTC. Either she does it voluntarily or we don't do it at all."
You're fucking strippers for free on the reg? Phatboy, take notes! :)
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6 years ago
-->"It did not happen to me, however I am unsure as to how I'd even react to such a situation"
I'm having trouble understanding why a stripper with a kid is a "situation", or why you need to react to it. Not trying to be a dick, I truly don't understand what a stripper having a child, has anything to do with your OTC or why this is some sort of difficult decision point. Why is this even a question? Some moral quandary? Or is it that you're concerned she'll have a looser pussy from childbirth, in which case, I can kinda understand the concern at least, but hasn't been an issue among the strippers w/ kids I've OTCed with.
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Ah, in my regular club, the manager can and does drag the girl to the video cameras for things like this
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Why would you all go tell the guy (in front of the stripper, and facing that drama?), rather than just doing your civic duty by telling the manager and leaving it at that?
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I can't be sure what I'd do until I'm in that situation. But at least in my fave clubs, I keep on friendly terms with the managers and bouncers. At minimum I think I'd tell the manager, keep myself insulated from the ensuing potential drama
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6 years ago
NJ, so what's the agenda? Jerk yourself off while she's on-cam being sexy? You can buy her out for a private session, right? How much does that cost?
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6 years ago
Count me among those who don't get cam shows. Especially when the alternative is that after a mere drive, you can actually touch her (and vice versa).
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6 years ago
It's hard to believe people are dumb enough to fall for it -- although I believe newbies often do. I get hit up like this especially on SA, not frequently, but enough that I recognize there's a fair amount of women trying it
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6 years ago
Ya, definitely true that a "personalized" picture from a 7.5 who you have a fantasy relationship with, has a lot more fap-itude than a nude pic of a 10 who you don't know. My disconnect, I suppose, is how anyone can suspend disbelief enough to develop that fantasy relationship with a random instagram account. At least in the strip club, we've had a faux-connection for a while...
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6 years ago
My aliases: nicespice, juice, san_jose_guy