Being on the hook

Some girls want an initial financial transaction so they know you're serious. I see screenshots of it often from escorts and sugar babies I follow on Instagram. If you do send money before the meet, do not send more than $50. From what I see from others on Instagram, $50 is usually sufficient enough.

Otherwise, she really might be trying to scam you. Especially if she asks for more. Definitely proceed with caution.

It is likely a scam. She will keep asking for more money, then never meet. The picture looks close to being jailbait too.

Send her a dick picture if she asks for money up front, she's a scammer.

Like I think she’s legitimate because at one point she was sending me nudes but then again she continuously is asking for more money

Dude - you're being played like a fucking grand piano - no f'ing need to pay $$$ upfront to a fucking complete stranger you met on the internet - there are probably tons of women on the internet that make a living out of getting desperate saps to send them $$$ based on some vague internet promise which they have no intention of followup thru on - the $$$ she's asking for is likely only the beginning b/f she comes up with more excuses and asking for more - it doesn't matter if it's legit or not, no need to send a complete stranger $$$ upfront - IMO $$$ is only for services rendered and only after services are rendered - very-good chance she's running a scam and trying to get bites from various men and making herself a tidy profit.

LOL. I can't imagine anyone being so naive; you're sending her money because... she asks for it?? On the off chance anyone is really confused about this -- no, don' send her money just for asking. If you send it, it shows her you're a sucker, and opens the door for her to do it more. Also, if you ever see any variation of the phrase, "you have to send me $ first to show me you're serious", run.

@OP have you ever heard the phrase "A fool and his money are soon parted" just living the words ain'tcha

^^^ OP has one of those posts that's so obvious, I automatically assume it's a troll account, he picked something that he knew would get us all riled, and then there will be followups "okay, I paid her $150 one last time, and then ...". On the other hand, I could imagine someone relatively starting out in their SC career falling for this, she establishes a relationship and then tries to tickle his inner white knight. I dunno

NEVER EVER EVER EVER send money to a random Instagram account. It’s a scam. I fell for it twice, purchasing goods (pair of shoes, computer program) and never ever again.

I know a lot of guys that just “out of the blue” get these hot girls hitting on them through Facebook or Instagram, I always tell them “that’s a straight scam.” Guys never can think without their dick so if some fat slob makes up an account and hits up 50 guys a week, and 5 of them are dumb enough to send $100 a week, well that fat slob can stay at home and eat hot n readys from Little Caesar’s and play video games all week instead of going to a job at Family Dollar.

damn i’ve been down the op’s street before. $$$ for nothin.

I agree it’s likely a scam. Maybe you can offer cash if she sends explicit photos of herself. I’m not too sure what the market rate for those are though.

^Less than dougsters going rate for a blowjob I hope lol.

-->"Maybe you can offer cash if she sends explicit photos of herself"

Ya, I'd totally pay for that, since there is no place in the world where I can find a zillion pics of smoking hot naked girls for free, so definitely it's worth it to pay for pics of a naked girl :)

^You would be surprised. But then again, I guess when one develops a rapport for a (usually) camgirl, and want her dressed/posed a certain way, that’s what creates demand.

@25 LOL

Ya, definitely true that a "personalized" picture from a 7.5 who you have a fantasy relationship with, has a lot more fap-itude than a nude pic of a 10 who you don't know. My disconnect, I suppose, is how anyone can suspend disbelief enough to develop that fantasy relationship with a random instagram account. At least in the strip club, we've had a faux-connection for a while...

LOL Subra - yeah often times one needs to break it down to the most simplest of terms in order to possibly lift the PL-veil, and even then ...

Maybe you can send her $$$ if she promises to send you a card for Valentine's and Christmas every year

^ maybe she’ll meet up with him at the 7-11 !

OP, are you seriously this stupid or are you just bored and trolling. If it’s the former, you deserve to be bent over a table by someone who’s probably an unemployed 35-year-old guy who dropped out of high school and lives in his mom’s basement.

There’s a sucker born every minute.

It's hard to believe people are dumb enough to fall for it -- although I believe newbies often do. I get hit up like this especially on SA, not frequently, but enough that I recognize there's a fair amount of women trying it

Tell her you'll give her the $ in person so then you'll really know she's not a 40 year old dude or a 400lb woman. If she agreed to meet, and she's real flip the script. Oh I thought we'd have some fun BEFORE I pay you. Also, my wallet is up in my hotel room....