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12 years ago
Hey Carolynne it is always nice to see dancers on here seeing how there aren't many. I look forward to reading all of your comments :)
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12 years ago
Looks like there are plenty of good statements on here.
stenton1 I am glad you filled me in on what show girls can be like if you talk and interact with them OTC. I have never did OTC so I have never had any personal experience. I am glad that you filled me in on your experience. I will definitely be careful if I ever do OTC with a dancer.
ranukam: We seem to be similar. Seeing how I am young as well and not wanting to be tied down either. At least not now.
Stiletto25 and bang69: I understand what you all mean, and Stiletto25 I am glad to get a dancers side of things. Also I agree that there are plenty of good reasons as to why having a spouse would be more fulfilling.
GoVikings: Being young I am thinking about what kind of direction I want my life to go in. Which is why I enjoy talking to older people that have experienced more than me, and enjoy a lifestyle similar to mine. I do agree that doing what makes me happy is most important. Which is why for the time being I choose strip clubs and escorts rather than a relationship, however that can change in the future.
Estafador: You make some really good points. Paying as much as we do can be frustrating. Also I agree that it can be frustrating having to tell our life stories to multiple people. What would be perfect is getting a really cool girlfriend that also lets us go to the strip clubs. However having a girlfriend would definitely cut off getting escorts.
gatorfan: That would be pretty cool. Also I must say as a UK wildcats fan I am glad basketball season is here. Your gators will challenge my team for the SEC title this year in basketball!
Tiredtraveler: I agree with what you are saying. There are benefits to both lifestyles. Strippers can cause drama but if you don't do OTC the drama can be limited to basically nothing. However wives and girlfriends can cause drama for plenty of reasons. Although as many have mentioned a girlfriend or wife can be more fulfilling.
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12 years ago
jackslash that is a great joke. I am definitely going to steal it :)
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12 years ago
txtittyfan I agree with your statement. People do change as they get older. I am a different person as compared to the the person I was back in high school as I am much more outgoing and adventurous now.
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12 years ago
pabloantonio you make a good argument. A relationship with a girl that cares about me and having something long term does have its advantages. However I have seen many failed marriages and people have told me that they fall out of love with their wives which usually lead to divorce or separation. I think love is sentimental as well.
I understand that if I am not careful I can become a PL. However I think that as long as I have a good job and just go to strip clubs and see escorts for fun then I can avoid being a PL.
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12 years ago
Thank you lone_wolf I am glad you like my topic. I agree that thanks to clubs, technology, and modern culture there are plenty of other ways to get women outside of having to get married.
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12 years ago
You make a good case inno123. I understand what you are getting at completely. However I usually get my friends and family to help me through rough times. Also I doubt I will ever want children.
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12 years ago
I understand mrrock and I like your input. It is definitely something to think about. Right now I don't want kids and I am not sure if they are really something that I want to have. Maybe someday I will want kids but I am thinking that I won't want any in the future as well. Also you make a good point that the longer I wait the harder it will be to get a good girl. However I am hoping dating websites can help me out with getting a girl for me if I do want to have a steady relationship someday.
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12 years ago
I do agree with you Alucard that dancers can bring drama. I have done well to avoid it though. Usually at clubs I am laid back and just talk to the girls and get a lap dance then move on to the next girl.
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12 years ago
Well I don't really make enough money to have both a girlfriend and strippers both. I will someday but I am still a young adult and we young adults don't make a lot of money. I make 27,000 and I learned in a college class the average is 24,000 for recent college grads. Also girlfriends bring drama. Also given the divorce rate and separation rates I prefer not getting married. Getting tied down is another issue and I feel that I am too young to get tied down.
However everyone is making strong points. I think rickdugan, Alucard, and georgemicrodong all make good statements even though there are disagreements, but there is nothing wrong with disagreeing.
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12 years ago
I agree with you Alucard. Either way we are paying. Dates and gifts to girlfriends or wives cost plenty of money just like escort rates and lap dances.
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ilbbaicnlKeep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
VH_Kicks I understand what you mean. We do live in a conservative country and I do wish the United States was more liberal like Europe, Canada, and Australia. In parts of Europe prostitution is already legal while here it is a prison sentence. Whether or not our country becomes more liberal is to be seen, but I hope it does.
We seem to have very similar beliefs.
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ilbbaicnlKeep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
Strip clubs and lap dances will be around for a long time, and hopefully our entire lives. They may even become better in the future especially if prostitution gets legalized.
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12 years ago
I suggest www.stripperweb.com
There is plenty of helpful advice on that website for new dancers. What makes me spend money on a girl is that she looks good and gives good dances. I will tip a dancer if the dance was good or if we went to the VIP. Turnoffs would be a bad attitude or if the girl has a bad reputation.
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12 years ago
I am an atheist and don't see anything wrong with strip clubs. Everyone there is there by choice. Also anything that happens at the clubs are between two consenting adults. The girl doesn't have to give a customer a dance nor does the customer have to get a dance.
So those statements sum up why I don't think there are any moral issues, but that is my opinion. Neon44 whether or not strip clubs are for you is something for you to figure out. If you think they are fun and you enjoy going then go. However if you find yourself uncomfortable then look into other hobbies.
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12 years ago
Looks like there are plenty of different opinions. I think that whether or not we are PL's depends on who you ask. I don't think I am since I just go to have fun and know that the girls don't like me and just want my money. However someone that does think that the girls are into him can be considered a PL. Also it cost money to get girls no matter how you look at it. A dating website cost money, dates cost money, and clubs cost money. Again all of this is just my opinion and I am glad everyone took the time to make theirs. There are plenty of good points in this thread.
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12 years ago
Number six. Platinum Plus Lexington would be perfect if it wasn't for that. I have never been to a club with number one or two, but that is just me. I don't mind number three or four since those dancers are rare and there are plenty of beautiful ones. Pool tables I don't think are too bad. Number seven I wouldn't mind as much if I didn't have to tip him for just putting soap in my hands.
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12 years ago
Everyone has their preference. There are good points that can be made for going in the day or night time. I personally go at night but that is when the younger crowd goes. I am 23 so I am still in my party phase of life so I go on the weekends at night. There are good and bad dancers to be found regardless of the time you go. However I would think plenty of good dancers would actually go earlier in the day because we young party guys don't have as much money.
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12 years ago
Stiletto25 you don't have a bad reputation. I respect you and wish that you worked the KY strip clubs so I could meet you! VIP all the way :) You seem really cool and I always look forward to reading your comments.
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12 years ago
I don't know why the guy just didn't go to the strip club and get a dance. I guess he was wanting more so he called an escort.
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12 years ago
Have to say I agree with pretty much all the comments as everyone makes some really good points. I don't really have combative conversations any more. In college, which was a small liberal arts Christian college, was where most of my combative conversations went down. Fortunately I don't have to defend my culture that much anymore.
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12 years ago
I have eaten at the Spearmint Rhino in Lexington a couple times and like their cheese sticks. The sauce was cold though. Never ended up sick thankfully.
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12 years ago
I have eaten at the Spearmint Rhino in Lexington a couple times and like their cheese sticks. The sauce was cold though. Never ended up sick thankfully.
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12 years ago
Wow there are a lot of atheist on this website. I also work with a couple atheist. Seems like there are a lot more atheist out there than I once thought years ago when I first starting thinking of myself as an atheist. Love it :)
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12 years ago
I am an atheist. So religion plays no role in my life. I hate it when the church comes into the strip clubs and tries to get the girls out of the industry. It causes for an annoyance. I always go to the strip clubs on Saturdays so I don't really know what they are like on Sundays. I go on Saturdays since nothing beats watching UK football or basketball during the day and then hitting up the club at night!