Have you ever said "I love you" to your ATF or dancer?
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I mean, not the casual talks like "I love you; baby I love you, too", but quite seriously and sincerely, during lap dance, holding her tightly, face to face, watching into each others' eyes.
Sometimes I do this. I am not sure how serious I am about what I say, but I just cannot help when holding a gorgeous girl whose face and body fulfill all my fantasy about female.
I just wonder, is this a common thing (say "I love you") that some of you also do occasionally, or not.
BTW, I told my ATF the joke I picked up here (this one: Why women have breasts? Because men suck.) and her response was almost nothing as if she did not get the joke (actually she did). Why I find it very funny but she doesn't? I try to flirt using some jokes I pick up here (since English is not my mother language, it's hard for me to make my own joke), but maybe the jokes here only appeal to we males???
Sometimes I do this. I am not sure how serious I am about what I say, but I just cannot help when holding a gorgeous girl whose face and body fulfill all my fantasy about female.
I just wonder, is this a common thing (say "I love you") that some of you also do occasionally, or not.
BTW, I told my ATF the joke I picked up here (this one: Why women have breasts? Because men suck.) and her response was almost nothing as if she did not get the joke (actually she did). Why I find it very funny but she doesn't? I try to flirt using some jokes I pick up here (since English is not my mother language, it's hard for me to make my own joke), but maybe the jokes here only appeal to we males???
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The only "I love" that comes out of my mouth to a stripper is "I love your (insert female body part here)".
I think for singles (like me), such boundary blurs.
Sure. Many time to many dancers.
Some jokes test cultural awareness, intelligence or just the hearer's sense of humor. That's why some folks just don't get it.
One dancer I met told me not to use the word sex but love. You don't ask a girl to have sex but to make love. I started thinking the proper translation when you say to a girl "I love you" means "we're going to have sex". I thought some guys say that all the time not meaning one word of it and then the girl has sex in some cases believing the guy is going to stay with her. Know any single mothers that are stripping where the boyfriend left after she got pregnant? Happens all the time.
I like a lot of people but I'm not too emotionally attached too most. So my answer is No. I don't recall ever looking into a dancers face and mean it with the love word. One dancer said that to me and started crying when I said I was moving. I was not in love. If she was serious I found it amazing she could bond to me like that without us ever going all the way. Now if talk about loving a dancer one minute and hating her the next, I know what that feels like.
Strippers are very hard to *love* because most of them don't have a clue what a *relationship* looks like - it's more than a place to crash, wheels and access to chemicals.
Get a grip man, this is a fantasy world and nothing is real here except the physical. Thoughts, words, and feelings don't exist. They are like a ghost, we believe they are there, but they are not.
I had a OTC girl that I saw 2-3 times a week for a long time. We threw around the love word all the time. I love fucking you, I love spending time with you, I love kissing you etc... One night I get a phone call and it's my girl (intoxicated) calling to tell me she was IN LOVE with me and no longer wanted to see me for $$ and hadn't for a long time, blah, blah, blah. I blew it off as a drunk talking crazy. Well we met the next day and sober she tells me the same thing. I told her that although I loved being with her and doing all the things we did together I was not in Love. It got to the point that I had to explain to her that I really didn't pay her to be with me, but that I paid her to leave me alone when I was done with her. I've had divorces that ended better than this did. The lesson I learned be careful using that word with any woman. There interpretation may be different than yours. Although telling a stripper in the club might be a little different than OTC. I just know I will never ever use it again even to tell them that I love them sucking my dick! Love in a strippers world has always meant $$$ to me, which is fine. If they throw the IN word in front of it RUN LIKE HELL!
Q: What's the difference between a blonde and a bowling ball?
A: You can only get three fingers into a bowling ball.
However, I do need to understand that since it is fantasy, I should not be into it too much, and it's done when the session is done.
Thanks for your points, which are very explanatory!
Q: How are strippers like bowling balls?
A: You pick them, put your fingers in them, throw them in the gutter, and they come back to you!
Right now, with "C", my current favorite, there is this relationship blooming. Will it end in love, maybe, but one never knows. vm will likely think I am nuts, and he probably is correct!
You, like most people, really don't have a clue about what constitutes *True Love* (romantic). If that's your desire -- as it appears to be from reading your posts -- then you need to redirect all your time, energy and resources away from strip clubs, and into endeavors that can actually lead you to that Promised Land.
Good luck in any course you take...
more of, I love your tits, i love the way you grab my cock. Save the lovey dovey stuff for someone who you don't pay
Love and dancers is not much of a mix. It is like when they reach down to see how big your package is then after a few seconds you realize it is your wallet they are rubbing, not your cock.
I was a bit surprised by the answers, but my response may be a bit biaed given my particular game.
Imagine this scene: She goes with me to my hotel thinking that I am a normal, married guy just looking to get a little strange. She thinks this will be simple: She needs the cash and I want the pussy. No chance, she thinks, of me falling in love as I am married, own a business and have kids back home. However, to her surprise, while I am inside her, I hover over her, start moving gently and whispers "I love you" with a serious look in my eyes.
LMAO - the odds are good she would be freaking out and running for the door, clothes hurriedly scooped up off the floor, before I could even tell her that I was joking. ;)
If you hadn't paid her yet, I think she would whisper back "yeah baby, f**k me.
Huh? I guess even "lying, thieving, whores" need love, eh?
But otherwise said it to a dancer--yes, after we developed a relationship. So you don't love the dancer, you love the person.
There are some strippers who aren't stupid, lying, thieving whores, but it's extremely rare. Actually by definition they are all whores, but an extremely small percentage miss all three of the other adjectives. There are four levels of "i love you". I've met some who rise to level 2 or 3, but never 4, which I guess is what the OP was talking about.
Wish I had access to Peabody's Wayback Machine and get a do over