OTC Trip?
DougS
Florida
I'm on the verge of an OTC first - if she doesn't back out. My curr fav has accepted to go on a business trip with me. I brought it up with her in the first place, just to get her reaction and as a converstation started. Figured she'd give me some lame excuse why she couldn't go, but no, she was definitely interested. I told her that I'd look into the schedule and get back with her. She actually asked ME about the trip before I brought it back up with her.
So, I have arranged the date and informed her; she said she's going, though its still a few months away.
Because I thought there was no chance of a "yes", I really didn't think it through and have some concerns. First, we either have to fly out of two different airports, or I need to drive to Indy - or she needs to drive to South Bend. Not a big problem, but a bit of a pain. Actually, both of us flying out of SB is a problem if my family sees me off. (don't want to tell fav to sit away from me and pretend she doesn't know me - that might be a mood breaker for sure)
Because my trip actually requires me to "work" during the day, what does she do until 5? I have to make sure there is an outdoor pool so she can tan, for one thing. Then, I might have to let her take the rental car? (bad idea!!)
Another problem is my valuables... gonna have to be careful. I trust her, but there's always a chance that something could come up missing.
Lastly, the city to which I'm traveling is one of the prime destinations for strip clubs (and extras). IF she backs out, I know I will have no problem finding "entertainment". I have considered that she might be thinking about finding a club to work during the day while I'm at work - I doubt it, though.
It could be a very interesting and fun trip - or it could be disasterous. Has anyone else attempted to take teir fav on a business trip?
So, I have arranged the date and informed her; she said she's going, though its still a few months away.
Because I thought there was no chance of a "yes", I really didn't think it through and have some concerns. First, we either have to fly out of two different airports, or I need to drive to Indy - or she needs to drive to South Bend. Not a big problem, but a bit of a pain. Actually, both of us flying out of SB is a problem if my family sees me off. (don't want to tell fav to sit away from me and pretend she doesn't know me - that might be a mood breaker for sure)
Because my trip actually requires me to "work" during the day, what does she do until 5? I have to make sure there is an outdoor pool so she can tan, for one thing. Then, I might have to let her take the rental car? (bad idea!!)
Another problem is my valuables... gonna have to be careful. I trust her, but there's always a chance that something could come up missing.
Lastly, the city to which I'm traveling is one of the prime destinations for strip clubs (and extras). IF she backs out, I know I will have no problem finding "entertainment". I have considered that she might be thinking about finding a club to work during the day while I'm at work - I doubt it, though.
It could be a very interesting and fun trip - or it could be disasterous. Has anyone else attempted to take teir fav on a business trip?
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Then too, what do you do if you've spent all the money, and she just doesn't show up at the airport?
As for your valuables, if you can, use a hotel with safes in the room. That *might* be a deal killer if you don't handle it right, of course. The rental is a no-brainer; it's likely to be company paid if this is a business trip, so you can always use that as a reason. Plus, most rental agreements have all authorized drivers' names on them, so think about who might see that. As well, insurance, either yours or the rental company's, won't pay for accidents had by unauthorized drivers.
You didn't mention one important thing, which means you didn't think about it, or it doesn't matter. The cost. If you're paying her way, I'd have to think she's going to want a level of remuneration consonant with what she'd expect to be making at work over the same period. Maybe a little less, because it's guaranteed, but also maybe a little more, because it's exclusive. Even if she's treating it as a vacation, and paying her own way, she's gonna want something for the time she's spending with you.
I've thought about taking girls on short trips as well, but these types of things have kept me from actively pursuing it.
You, obviously, are going somewhere with all the amenities. Take the girl with you. Give her a credit card to keep her happy while you are doing your business. A day of shopping on your dime? Guaranteed happy times for you every night!
Second-read my article-Trip With the Stripper http://www.tuscl.net/b.php?AID=276
That will require setup so that she can check in and get her boarding pass on her own, hopefully she's traveled and checking in is not a challenge...so people just are not comfortable at airports like us well seasoned travelers are.
If you need a diversion, tell the family that you have a teleconference you need to take before the flight and get there really early and just head to the gate to wait...lol
Now why on earth would you think that poor old farmerart would be able to answer that question? Well, I MAY have some info.
Standard rates in Vancouver (a very competitive town) are $1000-$1200 for a single all-nighter. Never done more than that in Vancouver. Dinner and drinks and whatever else are extra. But for the sex - MSOG.
Once last winter in France, I hooked up with a gorgeous Czech lady through a high end agency in Milan. Spent the weekend at my place in Saint Raphael. Cost was 3000 euro for the weekend (approx. $5000 at last year's exchange rates). Also a fee to the agency (electronic transfer but I have forgotten the amount). OUCH !! Lovely, smart (spoke 6 languages), well educated lady. Ho-hum sex - definitely not worth the cash.
Last year on one of my trips to Detroit I hooked up with a dancer I met at H8S on a previous visit. Had an absolute blast with her - Tigers game, funky restaurants she knew, drinks (and she was a superb drinking partner), two nights in a lovely bed-and-breakfast on Lake Michigan, couple of other nights of horizontal activity. She was happy with $2k and the other stuff cost me probably another $1k. A screaming bargain!! Damn, I wish her phone number still worked.
So, you see, it is not inexpensive. And, going this route means putting up the cash BEFORE the girl even enters your web unless you have some history (like I did with the Detroit lady). I must admit that I was some twitchy coughing up 3000 euro before even shaking the hand of the Czech lady. You generally do NOT bargain when you go this route either. Tried that once and the girl turned on her heel and stormed out of the hotel!
Shit! I just re-read this. I am seriously pathetic, aren't I?
yeah, that's a concern too. The airline ticket will be non-refundable. I haven't priced it yet, but am assuming it's going to be in the $600-$700 range. As I've thought through this... I was planning on getting the ticket (actually it will be an E ticket most likely) and giving it to her. It will be up to her to decide. BEFORE I purchase, we will have one detailed discussion about tickets and how once they are bought, the money is gone, etc.
I didn't mention the cost, 'cause I don't expect there to be any. SHE is the one that asked that money not be part of her and I. SHE is the one that didn't want to see me in the club any more. Soo... the way I see it.. I pay for the airline ticket, hotel, meals. That will have to be made clear, to make sure she isn't thinking differently.
Farmerat:
Good suggestion, though I'd be afraid what the bill might be for unlimited shopping. Maybe instead, I get a "gift card" and load it with a shopping allowance for the week, to be spent at her discretion.
Dudester:
It'll be five days / five nights (no choice), but I see what you are saying. You never "know" someone until you've lived with them and had to put up with annoying habits. Not that I expect this goddess to have any, and I don't think >>I<< do, but it could be a good test to see how we get along! Also, traveling with someone is a good test.. some people (myself included) get stressed making flight connections, etc.
Very interesting and entertaining article, btw.. good job!
Jackoff:
Yes, I've been OTC with this girl, though only three times so far. At least in those three sessions, we get along well, and there never seems to be any awkward silent moments.
ddrek:
I've flown out of SBN many times, and also have envisioned the family goodbye and potential uncomfortable glances between myself and Miss OTC. I've already decided there's no way an SBN departure will work. I think I will plan to fly out of Indy, which will be cheaper, and should work out better all around. I don't think she's even flown before, so I wouldn't want to risk her trying to navigate checkins and fly by herself.
I will have one or two more OTC sessions with her before I purchase the tickets, so we will have a lot more talking before finalizing. As good as the idea sounds, I'm thinking I might be better off solo. Like I said earlier, the destination city is well known for it's SCs - and I've had some very successful visits in the past.
Obviously there's still a lot to ponder... but thanks for everyone's insight!!!
In terms of valuables, the best option is simply not to travel with many. Your cash and credit cards will normally be on you, so you really only need to store clothes in the room during the day.
With respect to the rental car, I don't know. It is going to be tough to not let her use it at all while you are working and you don't want to come off as an asshole. Best bet is to simply have her name added as a driver when you get to the rental counter and to pay for the insurance option on the car.
"Shit! I just re-read this. I am seriously pathetic, aren't I?"
I don't even think about it anymore, as I find it way cheaper than my 2 x-wives were.
I will have to break the news to Miss CF soon. Now I'm thinking about maybe scheduling a quick three day trip or something, without an actual business alibi (and would mean my work won't be paying for MY share)... nahh... I better talk myself out of THAT one... that's just gettin' too risky with FAR too many ways that can backfire on me...