Was I setup?
BigJason2008
Met a girl the other night at a club, who gave me excellent dances, very cute, my type, and offered me for outside the club. I indicated I was interested and took her number. I met her again at the club later in the week and we setup a date. I go to show up, and she backs out.
She calls me the next day and asked if I can come now. I agreed, and met her outside her hotel. We go inside, chat a little, and she goes over the rules. I agreed and gave her the agreed amount.
We chat a little more and someone knocks at the door. I was a bit concerned, stood up, and moved closer to the door. She opened the door and let a middle aged man and woman in. I don't think she even looked through the peep hole. He comes in, competely ignoring me, and plopped down on the bed. I was like WTF. Still ignoring me, he told my girl to go grab towels from housekeeping, just outside. As my girl when out, I quickly followed. Out of sight, I asked her if I should leave and if so I wanted my you know what back. Her reply: that's my dad, he may leave in a few minutes. I said I'll go wait in my car... call me when he's gone.
So I wait in my car, with it running for a fast exit. After a few minutes, her dad and his old lady come outside and then go back in. Immediately I get a message from my girl that I should leave now, he's gonna get mad. I left and haven't heard from her since.
My question, Was I setup? I don't see how it was anything but that.
She calls me the next day and asked if I can come now. I agreed, and met her outside her hotel. We go inside, chat a little, and she goes over the rules. I agreed and gave her the agreed amount.
We chat a little more and someone knocks at the door. I was a bit concerned, stood up, and moved closer to the door. She opened the door and let a middle aged man and woman in. I don't think she even looked through the peep hole. He comes in, competely ignoring me, and plopped down on the bed. I was like WTF. Still ignoring me, he told my girl to go grab towels from housekeeping, just outside. As my girl when out, I quickly followed. Out of sight, I asked her if I should leave and if so I wanted my you know what back. Her reply: that's my dad, he may leave in a few minutes. I said I'll go wait in my car... call me when he's gone.
So I wait in my car, with it running for a fast exit. After a few minutes, her dad and his old lady come outside and then go back in. Immediately I get a message from my girl that I should leave now, he's gonna get mad. I left and haven't heard from her since.
My question, Was I setup? I don't see how it was anything but that.
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last commentmore lessons to follow. (let em rip guys)
Looks like I learned that one the hard way.
$$$$ to learn a lesson :(
No, duh!
Mistake #2... did not meet at HIS hotel
Mistake #2.5. not suspicious of dancer having a hotel room...
As has been stated in other discussions, never meet her at HER place... too many ways something can go wrong. (setup, boy friend/husband) Always meet somewhere on YOUR terms, preferably a neutral, safe area.
BigJason: I don't know how much you paid up-fron, but thankfully you weren't jumped / rolled, or worse. It's an expensive lesson, but at least you are okay.
Hit these right on the head!
Mistake #1... paid in advance
Mistake #2... did not meet at HIS hotel
Mistake #2.5. not suspicious of dancer having a hotel room...
You are lucky, you only lost the money you gave her! I would of had to have gone back to the club to see if she is still working there. They might be running this scam/rob on 3 or 4 guys a day. Then onto the next town.
You actually should right a review here (and other review boards) of what happened at that club. Yes naming and describing the girl etc... It might actually save someone from the same thing or even worse.
If they are stupid enough to try to call the cops, you're only response from their questioning and, eventually, on the stand in court is, "She invited me to her room and then there was a knock on the door and she let this guy in and he told me he wanted my money. I feared for my life and defended myself."
A man can cheat himself out of a lot of pussy by not going into these sorts of possible set-ups. He just has to be prepared for the day they happen and deal with it.
The scumbags who do this are cowards. They don't expect you to put up a fight.
In a quarter-century of pay-for-play, I've had this happen to me only three times. Each was dealt with in a similar situation to what I described you needed to have done.
Another option is to tell the manager on duty there's something strange going on in room (whatever it is). If it's a reputable place they'll take an interest. If it isn't, then lesson learned: avoid the cheap dive motels for fear they may take your kidneys...
[And as far as this being worthy advice, remember "Everything written on this site should be considered a work of fiction."]
You need to think BIG & BOLD for payback on this one, so I suggest you immediately talk to Nathan Ford and enlist the services of him and his crew:
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What the hell are you doing at this ungodly hour, anyway? It is approaching the lunch hour here but it must surely be very early on the east coast.
Here's rule 1.0
Do research or get references so you don't fuck a "stranger."
Don't be too hard on yourself. Many of the guys on this board sound like seasoned pros now, but many of us have made at least a few tuition payments along the way.
The lesson learned here is NEVER pay a dancer in advance for OTC. If she is serious about it then she will take payment after the fact. If a dancer absolutely insists on payment upfront, even after you have some club experience with her, then the odds are good that she intends to con you and your best bet is just to walk away.
RickDugan: Yowza! I LIKE that new profile pic of yours! Very nice taste! (feel free to PM any info about her or where you found that pic - or post it here, if you don't mind the off topic posting)