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15 years ago
usually, its an electronic tag. you call them and then they have your number. they call it in on a slow night. or whenever they think itll be a sure thing for them.
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15 years ago
tootsies is a good place to check out various options. as always, negotiate before stepping behind the curtain. and always lowball (no pun intended)!
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15 years ago
its common here in south fl. sometimes you have to ask for it, othertimes its offered. but its becoming very prevalent to have some sort of "system".
example? a girl with enormous bolt ons was offering to give me a very professional handshake russian interaction for 500 for an hour. another girl was offering to teach me greek for 600.
shop around and be careful
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15 years ago
good, fair question.
for me, i prefer staying away from...
- questions about my relationship status and why it is the way it is. why am i single? does it matter? do i have kids? ( do i ask about your boyfriend?)
- where i work. we can talk about what i do, but not the location. it makes me edgy. like you may come see me
- why i am at a club on a nite like tonite. im coming in to discuss the merits of schubert vs handel? no.
- why you found religion/buddha/jesus. you found spirituality? awesom. what does it mean to you? even better. that you found it strung out on meth while your 3 month old was crying? buzzkill.
- the worst? dont dominate the conversation. ask questions. listen. dont be like my ex girlfriend who talked to much. theres a reason shes an ex.
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15 years ago
cyn
i never knew.
i always listen to metallica, and never pictured it as a dance style song. ya live and ya learn...
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15 years ago
one girl told me she liked some slow metallica. Im a huge metallica fan, but c'mon. i wanna see some movement.
i dont care what nationality a girl is, if they hear pitbull, daddy yankee or any r and b, those girls move.
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15 years ago
the amusing ones. i always get a chuckle when a girl comes over and introduces herself as "forbidden, stallion, or malibu".
right. i totally get that its your real name. cant imagine the parents picking THAT one
its ok if you have a "boring" name. honestly.
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15 years ago
UPDATE
im not sure anyone cares, but i saw the guy. at church, but not at the club. he gave me a wink and as he walked by, in a low voice said "ill bring the girls".
and then walked off. phew.
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15 years ago
thank you minnow. based on the appearances of the tag teams, i would agree with your estimation. do they figure that a guy will automatically revert to "drooling idiot who thinks they chicks are gonna dyke out"?
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15 years ago
BUT
at the same time, some experiences can be valid, thus prompting a legit review. it is conceivable that one could have a great time at a crappy place, or a crappy time at a great place. but, the proof for the most part can be in the pudding (yuck).
as we have mentioned before, a club that goes for a while without review, or few reviews, has some indication of what it has.
caveat emptor.
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15 years ago
ozy
i avoid fone conversations. i dont need to play shrink to any dancer. i text just as much as they do, but it has usually ended in dead ends. so far, ive been able to eliminate the leeches. but now im down to zero....
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16 years ago
Book guy- we are in the same situation. im a younger, single guy. hes older and married.
also, i kinda blend in. a bit generic. he, stands out. i know for a fact its him, but im not sure he knows its me. boy, imagine if he "thought" it was me and was wrong! not something he'd wanna chance on. next time, i may make him buy me a shot. 'cause im a good sport
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16 years ago
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minnowAny place that interests me.
based on your philosophy BRO, you should open a club. I know id be there!
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16 years ago
ROB's ruin customers and the club. I have eliminated clubs as a place to go, based solely on one or two ROB. it hurts when i look like an atm. dont make it so obvious...
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16 years ago
thought id weigh in on this one. Never gotten a bruise or a mark, but have DEFINATELY had some painful ld's. nothing worse than a dancer who grinds my loyal soldiers, or who is just bad. making me want nothing more than to tip her to GET OFF as opposed to me getting off.