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16 years ago
At one club, it's small and the dancers are found and go up on stage after being called all the time. I don't believe they have the option at the small club to miss their turn.
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16 years ago
I like it when the dancer says "forget the DJ, I'm dancing for you now." I have to admit though, sometimes I've heard right after I got some laps the DJ said the dancer in front of me was up next. The dancer then asked me "you want another 2 for $30?" Typically the DJ only announces her name 2 or 3 more times and they find someone else I guess. It can be disappointing out on the main floor if the DJ announces a specific dancer you like and she doesn't show up.
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16 years ago
Speaking about the dancer I mentioned above that argued with me for almost 15 minutes after repeatedly telling her no, she never asked me for a dance again. Then I think she quit working at that club within a couple of months. I thought she looked dejected or depressed that whole night after she argued with me. Maybe she was new and didn't realize arguing with a customer for several minutes is the wrong approach. Getting customers angry won't get you too far.
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16 years ago
I have felt bad on a few occasions. I'm usually over it after 3 seconds and looking at another girl if not sooner. Most of the time I felt bad was because I was about out of money and would have liked to have tried her out or gotten a dance but I already spent too much money or didn't have enough. A couple of times I told a dancer I was about out of money but they could dance for me for free if they wanted. They declined. I didn't feel bad at all in those cases. One time I remember getting a bit angry. I told a dancer no, no, no, no thanks, etc. etc. several times. She didn't leave. Instead she stayed and argued. I left the table after about 12 to 15 minutes. The club was mostly empty at the time (early) so I guess she was being very stubborn by staying with me.
I didn't feel bad at all about rejecting her even though she initially made it sound like she wasn't going to make any money dancing if I didn't get a dance from her. A few dancers don't know when to leave and come back later.
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16 years ago
It's possible I have been to some strip clubs with a good looking female but she was a dancer already so I didn't count that. I can't remember now if I did that years ago or not anymore. Typically most dancers I knew in their off hours were not interested in visiting other strip clubs but I have seen several dancers I'm familiar with visiting other clubs. It seems like over 90 percent of the time they say hi or wave to me even if it's when none of their male companions are looking. The last time I saw a dancer at another club she gave me a surprise hug because I didn't see her coming. Now she is sexy no matter where she's at.
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16 years ago
Bookguy, maybe it just doesn't bother me if I see a very hot girl with a guy in a strip club. I don't worry about it. I've had a few hot girls who liked me in the past but I never went to a strip club with any of them. Maybe that's why it doesn't bother me. Sometimes it seems like the very hot girls are nicer to me than some other more average looking girls but not always. I tend to remember though, sometimes the better they look, the more high maintenance and needy they might be. I'm not sure if that's true or not since I've met some average looking girls and dancers who were pretty high maintenance and needy as well.
I really do enjoy seeing a hot female customer in a strip club especially if she shows something extra. I just see it as a plus.
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16 years ago
I don't look at the club discussions too much but I do sometimes. This is the first time I think in the last few days I've checked on the main discussion board. I guess I spent more time on Marketwatch.com this week. Probably not too many care but I actually got the number 1 voted comment on a top story today for Marketwatch. I was surprised.
They let you post comments on the articles there and you can vote up or down on other people's comments. Then they select the one with the most votes to display along with their article from the first comment page. I doubt too many here care that much though. I don't want a thumbs up or down here either.
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16 years ago
I may like a little bit of variety. One dancer I saw recently was wearing a very short skirt I guess you say with a more solid metallic look to it with a matching top. Very sexy outfit I thought. Nude is better but that outfit can get the girls in trouble in a topless club.
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16 years ago
I guess there are always the hot girls who go topless while tipping at the stage but I haven't seen any do that for a while.
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16 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
Here's a news flash, I've met a few dancers without any kids. One had a kid expecting the father to eventually marry her but he left her instead. He didn't even help support the kid so she was left working as a stripper as her only income. She temporarily became a waitress while she was pregnant so her income took an even bigger hit. Then I'm sure her expenses went up big time to take care of her kid without any insurance. She never thought she would end up in that situation.
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16 years ago
Happens quite a lot at one club I visit. Either another dancer fills in or a bouncer finds another dancer and has her fill in.
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16 years ago
a pretty dancer is cold and she wants to warm up by sitting on your lap and have you rub her.
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16 years ago
Even with 2 way touching, you reach a point of diminishing returns.
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16 years ago
Oh, I just remembered an exception but she was an exception as well. I guess I once did pay for $25 lap dances several years ago back when it seemed like I had more disposable income.
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16 years ago
I've never intentionally paid more than $20 for a lap dance. Usually I pay less per dance like $10 to $15 per dance if I get at least 2 dances. At $50 per dance, I could go years without getting a single lap dance unless someone gave me a big pay increase or I became rich by some other means. I currently go to one club where they offer two for one specials at $40 total and I've only gotten dances there about a total of 2 times in a few years. That is with a DVD or other token thrown in as well.
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16 years ago
Hopefully there will be enough people in the clubs buying lapdances because I won't be for a while. Not like I used to anyway.
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16 years ago
I hate it when you leave a strip club and find out your car is covered in freezing rain and sleet along with a few inches of sleet and snow on the untreated roads.
I hate it when I start getting static shocks from touching the metal rails near the stage due to the thunderstorm above the strip club.
I hate it when I accidently get large shocks whether I'm in a strip club or wherever I may be at.
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16 years ago
I love it when all the street lights seem to turn green before you get to them when you go to a strip club. I think my biggest record is something like 17 traffic lights all green. I don't have that many traffic lights to go through where I live now.
I love watching the large lightning bolts streaking across the sky as I travel to a strip club.
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16 years ago
I hate it when a dancer would rather argue with you rather than take a no for an answer for a lap dance request.