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18 years ago
Yeah they probably would prefer to use other strippers than guys. Still even if I don't get any compensation, there is no harm in trying to help my #1club out. I get the better looking girls to come to in the contact club. More fun for me.
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18 years ago
Chandler maybe you need to stop going to the upscale clubs and go to the "Hole in the wall" clubs to avoid these psychos.
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18 years ago
Funseeker: Yeah I could see someone sitting up in church daydreaming about getting a lapdance from Ginger when the pastor is preaching. I have found myself doing this on a few occasions.LOL!!
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18 years ago
When you ask the bartender or another staff member are there any more girls coming in tonight. Specifically your favorite or one of your favorite dancers.
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18 years ago
I would like to add that the Jukeboxes for the most part do not have up to date songs. Now maybe that is a good thing for some of you, but I don't want to hear any songs by the Commodores.LOL!! Some clubs allow there dancers to bring their music to the DJ for them to play during their sets.
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18 years ago
It doesn't bother me. If she is willing to "push the envelope" then I have no problem with it. I am not the one working there, she is. So if she isn't afraid then why should I be afraid?
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18 years ago
Shadowcat: Some of your statements are exactly what I am talking about. You stated that the black girls at your club seemed like they were out to scam you. Okay this goes back to what I said before. If your were a younger white male who dressed with the latest trends (FUBU, Rocca wear etc..) then maybe they would have step to you differently. I am not trying to pick at you are anyone but maybe they see you as a old, naive,(sp) white guy whom they can easily take money from because they think you don't have the common sense to pick up on when you are being played. Again, I am not every black dancers are like this but alot are expecially the ones working at the more predominately "black" clubs.
I think the average white female does look at dress as well. I agree that the white dancer who doesn't hang with black girls OTC would be turned off by guys dressing like thugs. Let me give you an example. Let's say I came to the Platinum plus and got with one of your favorite's whom said she would give black males dances whom don't dress like thugs. Okay even though she might give me a dance, does that mean I got or would get the same mileage as a young white male around the same age as me?
Here is an example of what happened last week with me. I was at a little small club. This club most of the time is more predominately white than black. However, on this occasion there were 3black girls, 1 spanish, and a white girl. One of the black girls was trying her best to get me to get a lapdance from her. She was cute but too skinny for my taste. I told her that I had already asked another dancer. She wanted to know whom it was but I didn't tell her. She made all kinds of promises that she was better than the other girls and I would really like it, but I still declined.
Well I chose the white female because she had the best body. short and curvy but not fat. Well the white girl never asked me for a dance. Maybe she thought that I would be more interested in the black dancers. I asked her for a dance when I tipped her at the stage. Well the dance she gave was okay but not the greatest. I left wondering if I should have taken the blackgirls offer instead even though I wasn't really attracted to her. Have you or anyone ever left the club with this thought?
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18 years ago
Luckyone: I guess your situation is a rare exception. I would think that if you came into the club looking for a black dancer and you wore the newest "Hip Hop" clothes and shoes a black dancer in general would think that you are a "cool" guy and not a lame guy. Yeah I am not saying you wouldn't have gotten advances from a blackdancer if you wore a regular T-shirt and clean Jeans. I just think black females are attracted to the way a guy dresses.
I would think that a white male wearing a Fubu or Sean John shirt and Jeans would get the same mileage as a white male wearing slacks and a shirt and tie. The thing is from what I have seen the guys(black & white) whom wear expensive outfits and "blingy" watches to the club hardly ever buy dances. Some will pull out a wad of ones tip it to the dancer on stage but want go in the back even when it looks like they can afford it.
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18 years ago
So judging by most of the comments, if I wanted to get the most "bang for my buck" then going to a predominately black club would be my best bet. There are not too many of them around where I live. There are still a few but one is in a town that has a 4foot ordinance for dances(It wasn't always like that) and the other plays way too much loud rap music. A little off of my style.
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18 years ago
I would like to point out another fact that might turn off some white dancers from some black males. Alot of young black males come into the club thinking they can "talk up on getting some". I have seen it countless times at both white & black clubs. A blackmale who thinks he has it going on, will drop a bunch of dollar bills on a girl while she is onstage. If she is the naive type, she will come by and talk with him after she gets off stage thinking he is ready to spend money. She soon finds out that the self acclaimed "player" isn't going to spend any money on dances but wants to get in her pants for free.
To be honest, I am probably not the norm when it comes to blackmales at stripclubs. I would say only about 30 or 40% of blackmales actually buy lapdances when they come to a club. Maybe the white females don't know off hand that I will spend money(not my whole paycheck) on dances.
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18 years ago
I will be honest and say lapdances. The first stipclub that I went to didn't do any lapdances or table dances. It was a local club so I tried it out for a little while, but quickly became bored with it. Then a customer told me about another club about 80miles north of my town. I decided one night that I would try it out and see how it was. I met this beautiful Hungarian dancer named Savannah. She asked me did I want a dance. I said yes, although I didn't really know what to expect. Let's just say I thoroughly enjoyed the dance and became a regular of Savannah's and that club for a while till she left. The rest as they say is history.
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18 years ago
Doug it is probably more coincidental, since I have only ran into 1dancer with that stage name in the past 10years of clubing. Mines went on to pursue a career in Real Estate.
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18 years ago
Bookguy: Cafe Risque building setup is similar to Cafe Erotica off of I-75 in Byron,GA. They have the buzz in buzz out feature as well. I haven't had an real complaints with them other than lately they could hire better looking dancers. They have always offered contact during their lapdances, but the customer has to keep his hands behind his head. The use to have the straps restrainst but have taken them out over the past few years.
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18 years ago
Yeah it is common at the clubs I attend. Usually the young African American Males are the ones that do this. I have never known exactly how much they are tipping but I doubt they tipped anything near 100dollars maybe more like 30dollars in all ones. These guys are usually not the type to buy lapdances. They do this to "show off" like they are rolling in the money. The dancer will probably look for them when she gets off stage but she won't get anymore money out of them.
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18 years ago
BookGuy you didn't report her to Management? I would have been pissed if she burned a hole in my pants.
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18 years ago
It can become an addiction if you are spending money you should be keeping for your family or yourself. There was an episode on Montel Williams a few weeks back about this guy who was addicted to stripclubs. Actually this event was about 5 or 6years ago. It was centered around 1 of the girls from the show G-String Divas. The guy was involved in some kind of illegal Pyramid scheme. This was how he was able to drop $3,000 dollars a week on this dancer named Summer. However, something went wrong with the scam and he ended up bottoming out. After a while he ended up owing a bunch of people lots of money. So he ended up killing his wife to collect the Life Insurance policy so he could pay his debts and keep his stripclub habits up of dropping money on summer.