Should you stay with your own race for the best mileage?
First of all, I know for the most part dancers only care about the money but over the years it seems that race might play apart(to some degree) in how much mileage you get during a lapdance.
I have gotten both good and bad lapdances from both black and white dancers, but I think that for the most part I have gotten a little better mileage from black dancers.
Yeah I know things vary on the person giving you the dance but IMO in me being a blackmale I have found that the white girls(whom don't date black men or hang around black people) tended to not give the same mileage as some of the black girls.
I also believe that black dancers on the average don't give the same mileage to a white customer as they do a black. In these cases I am talking about when you first meet a dancer, not after she has gotten to know what type of person you are (that was for Shadowcat).
I just want to get some honest thoughts on this matter. I am not trying to sound like I am being racist. Think back throughout all of your stripclubbing days and ask yourself on th average whom gave you the better dances. Also ATF's don't count in this instance because they may not have thought much of you when they 1st met you, so the mileage probably was lesser in the beginning than it is now.
I have gotten both good and bad lapdances from both black and white dancers, but I think that for the most part I have gotten a little better mileage from black dancers.
Yeah I know things vary on the person giving you the dance but IMO in me being a blackmale I have found that the white girls(whom don't date black men or hang around black people) tended to not give the same mileage as some of the black girls.
I also believe that black dancers on the average don't give the same mileage to a white customer as they do a black. In these cases I am talking about when you first meet a dancer, not after she has gotten to know what type of person you are (that was for Shadowcat).
I just want to get some honest thoughts on this matter. I am not trying to sound like I am being racist. Think back throughout all of your stripclubbing days and ask yourself on th average whom gave you the better dances. Also ATF's don't count in this instance because they may not have thought much of you when they 1st met you, so the mileage probably was lesser in the beginning than it is now.
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To be honest, I am probably not the norm when it comes to blackmales at stripclubs. I would say only about 30 or 40% of blackmales actually buy lapdances when they come to a club. Maybe the white females don't know off hand that I will spend money(not my whole paycheck) on dances.
It is interesting to watch preferences in clubs. Many guys prefer ladies of a different race and IMHO thats not a bad thing.
I think dance quality has less to do with race (or gender) and more to do with the smell of $$$$ on a customer. Just MHO.
But that's the crux of the matter, "middle-class" versus "poor." Dirty activity takes place in dirty areas of town, and poorer groups of people in America tend to have a larger percentage of Af Ams. Sad but true, mostly the blacks in the USA are mostly poorer than most of the whites. And poor neighborhoods, with their clubs, are where extra-curricular and even stretch-the-limits-but-legal activities are more likely to happen.
Asian girls run the gamut. I can't generalize. South American girls are generally "more passionate" in a kind of way that I don't like -- it all looks like an act, all that "oo baybee come heeeere" crap, and breathing through their clenched teeth -- but not necessarily more, or less, liberal with their activities in dances.
For get-down total extras service, Af-Am clubs that are nevertheless comfortable for white clients are generally my best source. Unfortunately, that can mean going to a dangerous area of town, and can mean seeing some seedier-looking women. Not that there aren't attractive Af-Am ladies, but those girls tend to be doing less, or moving out and doing it at the white clubs.
N.B. -- the uses of the term "act white" and "act black" are, of course, advised, and not meant either to be accurate or to cause offense. If you want to discuss it further just ask, but I think we all know what we're talking about here and I hope we all don't want to reject or judge one group or another on the basis of something as unrepresentative as skin color. :)
I should point out that, among black dancers, for the reasons I just laid out, my experience is with those who are more "white-acting", if you'll excuse the term, so I may not be sampling as much mileage as I could "outside my own race".
Also, no matter what you say about white customers and black strippers not relating, I think this issue is liable to be a lot more relevant for you, Jpac. Still, I hope the existence of prejudice doesn't cause you to give up on white strippers altogether. It's definitely more fun to evaluate them one at a time.
An extra note: I get the impression some girls from South America may be sexually aggressive too but maybe some girls are just more attracted to me and try harder. I try to be careful with who I get alone with. Some girls are horny and I don't find out until I get alone with them.
I would think that a white male wearing a Fubu or Sean John shirt and Jeans would get the same mileage as a white male wearing slacks and a shirt and tie. The thing is from what I have seen the guys(black & white) whom wear expensive outfits and "blingy" watches to the club hardly ever buy dances. Some will pull out a wad of ones tip it to the dancer on stage but want go in the back even when it looks like they can afford it.
I think the average white female does look at dress as well. I agree that the white dancer who doesn't hang with black girls OTC would be turned off by guys dressing like thugs. Let me give you an example. Let's say I came to the Platinum plus and got with one of your favorite's whom said she would give black males dances whom don't dress like thugs. Okay even though she might give me a dance, does that mean I got or would get the same mileage as a young white male around the same age as me?
Here is an example of what happened last week with me. I was at a little small club. This club most of the time is more predominately white than black. However, on this occasion there were 3black girls, 1 spanish, and a white girl. One of the black girls was trying her best to get me to get a lapdance from her. She was cute but too skinny for my taste. I told her that I had already asked another dancer. She wanted to know whom it was but I didn't tell her. She made all kinds of promises that she was better than the other girls and I would really like it, but I still declined.
Well I chose the white female because she had the best body. short and curvy but not fat. Well the white girl never asked me for a dance. Maybe she thought that I would be more interested in the black dancers. I asked her for a dance when I tipped her at the stage. Well the dance she gave was okay but not the greatest. I left wondering if I should have taken the blackgirls offer instead even though I wasn't really attracted to her. Have you or anyone ever left the club with this thought?