Comments by heatherlake

If I,(yes, I'm a girl), go to a strip club for a lap dance with NO panties on..what might happen!!! Be specific...

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OKAY< since I'm a girl..boys listen..my husband went to bachelor party a few weeks ago..Dinner, then 2 strip clubs ..the first was totally nude...when he came home we joked about the amount of lap dances everyone had, including himself!! He told me what happened and I don't think I've ever been SO TURNED ON, and we've been married over 17 years.. He told me how the girls got so close to his face ..we talked about the piercings he saw, een what he smelled, I thought that might be a stretch, though.(yes boys..UP CLOSE & PERSONAL) , but it was all air..This place was in a Chicago Suburb, Diamonds, in West Chicago..Anyway, We've ahad sex at least 3 TIMES A DAY for the last 2 weeks, I've run out of sexy new garter belts and see-thru bikins..I'm going to have to go shopping. I signed on here to get information as to how to approach the couples thing..don't quite know what to expect. But, back to the THRUST of the topic..if your lady doesn't like it, try to find out why.. (it may not just be the typical jealousy thing..she may be uncomfortable with her looks, body legs. boobs, age, whatever.) If you know someone's wife or whatever who does like the idea, maybe a good open minded talk can help..a great sex life with your partner is nothing to take for granted. I've never loved my husband more...

I was under the impression that they were all FIT, YOUNG, SLIM and had tight asses.. what could I have been thinking..And I thought I was going to be intimidated if I went with my husband....what's the deal....Is this every where??..I'm in Chicagoland!!

I don't think I'd be interested in going to the private room..just a regular lapdance would be nice..but I'm not certain what to expect..It would be a couples thing..I'd be brining my husband along.

Do you, (or should you), really go into the VIP room for that type of fun?? I've never been but would reallllly like to go with my husband..I think it would be a grrreat show. Were you the only girl getting a lap dance??

He went to a nude club for a bachelor party 2 weeks ago, and, we've been talking about it ever since..He hadn't been to a strip club in a good 10 years, but we both think it might be fun..He mentioned he had seen couples there that night...I'd like the show to be on me, or him, but primarily FOR HIM..I think it'd be a grrreat turn on!!!

What are we talking about when we're talking "high contact,"? I know he's experienced "no contact @ Diamonds in West Chicago..It's totally nude and I think that's been a complaint there..but it is the rules..I'm certain I'd be treated a bit differently..but all in all, it'll be fun!!

Since I've never been, Would this be a better time of day to go for me..I'm figuring it would be a bit less intimidating...I'd like to check out the place before I go with my husband..or should I just bring him along??

Not trying to be an exhibitionist..just trying to have al little fun..The show, if any, would be for my husband...he's a very nice guy...

It doesn't sound like that is anything that would ever happen in the Chicagoland area..Oh well.... the search is on!!!!

Mo one has really answered the question...Hasn't anyone been and had fun???

I don't think I should be negotiating..especially not for a first timer..I think I'll just sit back and watch..Do you think I'll be approached?? If so , what does one say..Should I admit I've never been? Or, does that make the girls go-away???

And..thank you all very much for the advice..I will definately wear something nice, and, yes, it would probably be better if someone else did the adjustment in that area....

Haven't been yet..Heard some good things about a place in Ottawa, The silver Slipper..It's been rumored to be couples friendly....

Fantastic!! And many thanks fo the insight and information.. have FUN Thursday &, If you have a free minute, keep us posted...........

Yes, I went..Didn't even get a dance...very disappointing..I looked better than some of the girls there..We got there about 11pm, Friday night..I was very excited to be there...and noting..kid of a dumpy place..The ladies room was dirty and therre were to dykes arguing inthere. I wrote a review, I'm hoping they'll post it.

Went to the Silver Slipper ..Very disappointed ..no lap dance.......no nothing...I'm going out toniht..but not back there..wish me luck!!!

I wore a skin-tight halter, no bra, a pink jacket with rhinestones, Yes, ..No panties, but I did wear tight capri pants.. and heels, (Sorry, No skirt..maybe next time.)it was a chilly night in Chicago-land, and it certainly did show,(that it was chilly), in the club.

"Chitownlawyer", Where, pray tell, might that be?? Please share.................

I agree that this venue of entertainment is "Primarily" geared to the male , however, females can have a good time as well, ...Your fantasies about some gorgeous thing dancing and grinding you may be quite similar to your GF's fantasy of, perhaps dancing that way for a perfect stranger...The thought that my husband might get off a bit watching someone show him all and let him touch her is quite erotic...

Sounds like a grrreat time!!! Where do we go...? Sign me up!!!!

That is a shame...It can also explain why I wasn't approached for a dance, and my husband either...Hopefully, I'll be able to give out a different vibe next time..I was hoping we were on the right track as the club we visited was reviewed to be quite "couples friendly"!!! Oh well, we'll try another one..As if it's such a chore....

Parodyman, Didn't know ther was another choice in Ottawa..As we left the Silver Slipper..empty handed , so to speak, we were headed for Diamonds..We weren't quite certain where to go and had no idea there was somewhere else even remotely close by..We would have tried it in a heart-beat..I wrote a review on the Silver Slipper..If you have a chance to read it, let me know and give a pointer or two so next time there may be a "happy" outcome for all.... Thanks

Thanks everyone for being supportive..I shouldn't have taken what was written so seriously.. It was a bit harsh, but, "parodyman" was kind enough to e-mail an apology..and I thank him very much for that..It is true that I am a bit of a fish out of water which is why I turn to you all for your expertise in this matter..The fact that I seemed to fail at my very 1st outing just makes me want to try again..And I will, until we are successful..Thanks everyone and I look forward to ALL of your invaluable information...