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On the subject of tying dancers to extras, especially in Seattle

drewcareypnw

not the real drew carey, but I play him at strip clubs...

I took the day off doing some of my favorite things: record shopping, comic book shopping, eating, and whoring. I stopped into a local club, enjoyed a delightful and energetic VIP session, and left more than happy. I'm leaving this vague for reasons I will reveal shortly.

Afterwards, I stopped to chat for a few minutes with this friendly and charming little dynamo. She asked me "are you on any of those sites?" I said that I was on stripper related sites, but did not specify which. She then specifically asked that I not describe any aspect of our VIP or mention her name directly or any other way. I said "ok sure" and asked why.

She said that she picks who she does what with based on her initial estimation of them and a vibe. She doesn't do the same things or even anything with everyone who asks, and doesn't want B showing up asking for what A got. Even though she understands that we want to know what we are getting, who is good or bad, etc.

...so there it is from the horse's mouth. At least this dancer doesn't want us tying names to extras, or anything else for that matter.

This falls under #2 what I think of the 3 typically given reasons not to share names:

1. Pimp may beat up dancer based on the review.
2. Dancer doesn't want B showing up asking for what A got.
3. LE may shut down the dancer or club.

For me, the best reason to not connect a dancer to extras is because I think that probably she doesn't want me to. The dancer I met today is an unambiguous example of this. In general I personally don't do this, rather I make up funny names if I am describing an trip to the club. In this case, I won't even do that.

I should say that I still firmly believe ROBs get what they deserve and get named. Obviously this was in no way a ROB, it was a great time with a great girl.

FWIW Seattle brothers

-DC