Would you follow a dancer that is changing clubs?

Maybe. It depends on where it is.

One of my faves from a local club moved to a club downtown. I don't like the downtown clubs so I haven't seen her since the move. Another girl went to a club down the street. I have seen her a couple of times.

I guess the bottom line is. . . how badly do you want to see her again?

If you follow her, she knows she owns you.

I did follow my ATF, and it was a much further drive. It likely ended our relationship. Just to much time to venture there on a regular basis. I still see her at times, but not as before.

Would I follow a dancer?

1) If she's my ATF, or close

and

2) The new club has more privacy (or the same privacy where she came from)

and

3)The neighborhood the club is in doesn't make me fear for my life.

Fuck no. If you do you are foolish. Even if she is your ATF, now you are her ATM.

I don't know if I had followed her or if she happened to end up in the club I was at that particular night. Then again, I've never had an ATF who I was especially close to, at least compared to some of you.

I'm suprised at some of the above answers. Guys seem more loyal to the club than to their ATF, but for me, the whole reason to go to a club IS my ATF. I could care less about the club, the music, the drinks, the waitresses, etc. The sole reason I visit is to see my favorite dancer(s). If she decides to change place of business, and the drive is within reason, I would visit her at her new new club without question.

I agree with the statements about how "she would own you," but she probably owns you already, so you might as well follow her.

ATF has a rather broad (no pun intended) definition. There is an ITC ATF, an OTC ATF, a both I/OTC ATF. Also there is the sexual active ATF, the not active ATF, and the list can go on nearly endlessly. Of course the question asked never referred to an ATF, but I assume that was what he wanted to know. I do not know anyone that would follow a dancer they didn't know.

clubber: Since I have only spent time with her ITC and only on two occasions, she does not qualify as an ATF. I would call her "A person of interest."

I'm thinking probably not. If I had a relationship with her away from the clubs though, I probably wouldn't care as much which club she was working at.

I visit a few clubs already and I see dancers trying out other clubs I visit more often than I care to think about. It's like musical chairs. I think at least a few dancers may have even tried out one of the other clubs after I told them I visited there as well.

"Would you follow a dancer that is changing clubs?"

No.

Dancers are like trains - if you miss one, there is gonna be another one coming along right behind it.

To me it depends on where she will be working. I had a former favorite quit a contact club and start working at a no contact club. I went out there a few times but decided it wasn't worth my time. She said she made more money at the new club, which is fine for her but I had to go where I would have more fun which was at the old club.

BTW I also found out that she never really liked giving lapdances. She told me it was because the money was better but I read a post of hers over on the pinksite and she stated that she really didn't like giving lapdances.

For more privacy, cheaper dances, and same travel distance... Yeah if I liked the girl, and the club was tolerable...

"A person of interest"? Are you trying to bang her or investigate her? :)

True story. The one and only time I followed a dancer to another club, I met another dancer there and proceeded to ignore the first girl. A couple months later, the new girl was ATF, then GF, now SO.

So, who knows what might happen? Nothing ventured, nothing gained!

Only if it works for me!

When my ATF quit dancing, I followed her to her next job waitressing in a sports pub. But she called me and invited me to do so, and I was the only customer with whom she did so, which I think makes a big difference. And I agree wthat if she's your ATF she already knows she owns you so that consideration is irrelevant.

There once was a really hot waitress at a wings-and-sports bar in the Tampa Bay area, who went back and forth among waitressing, stripping, and escorting. It was an ideal arrangement for any who knew her. :)

Why would you your not dating?

umm ... grammar ... ?

huh?

Drinking and the Internet don't mix wondergrl...

awwww sure it does.

Well, I can you your not if when they were and be. Thanks tatatata :))))))))))))))

Wondergirl, you don't have to be dating. If I enjoy spending time with a particular girl why wouldn't I go somewhere else within reason to do so? I totally agree with Imnumnutz, seeing a specific girl (assuming there's one whose company I particularly enjoy) is the only reason to go to any club. I've never felt any loyalty to a club, but I have followed a specific dancer whose company I particularly enjoyed. I've found it to be a whole lot easier to change clubs than to find a new girl who I like.

I guess Im at that point in my life where I still need ALOT of variety. But then there is still so much to experience.

Bookguy- UGH Im not going to practice proper grammar when Im just chatting. :P lol
There are much more fun things to do. And I suck at typing. hee hee hee

Yes, and I have. BUT only if it is to a club that I approve of. Some clubs have attitudes or policies that I choose not to support no matter who works there.

Re Shadowcat's "person of interest" comment. I always have several "persons of interest" scattered about several clubs that I occasionally make what I calll "investment" with to find if they are ATF worthy. If one of those moved to a more promising location, I might continue my nurturing to see what happens, but only carefully.

Probably not - at this point I'm pretty fixed on where I'll go.

What I HAVE done on occasion is corral a girl I've met at another club to MY club - every now and again when I've gone prospecting outside my usual club(s), I've found a gem, and on a few occasions - when they've complained about their current club - I've persuaded them to check out one of my favorites, and even given the management at my clubs the heads-up and recommended her ;)

I suppose, though, if they moved to a new club I hadn't been to before, and it turned out to be amazing (great VIP rooms, whatever) then I'd "follow". Though that would mostly be me changing clubs, not "following" per se. Actually, that's how I found the Pink Pony (Atlanta) - my ATF from Tattletales (my early 90s haunt) moved to PP when it had just opened, and I tagged along. PP was my regular club for a long, long time.

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