CHARACTER DEROGATION AT THE STRIP CLUB

rattdog
New York
to my surprise in all the years i've delved into this hobby of ours this has happened only a few times. it maybe due to the girls that i associate myself in these clubs, as they have a tendency to not pay any mind of what other girls do at the club.

i showed up at one of my usual spots to visit one of all time faves. found out she was not working that night. whatever was my reaction so stuck around nevertheless.

a rip off bitch that i tried dances with months prior comes right up, says hi, and sits by my side. after about 5 minutes here comes the character assassination bit:

" i know that girl is your favorite right now. but i'm going to tell you something. the stuff she does for you - you think she's doing special stuff to only you? nah. she's doing that to all the guys. i know - i see her do it. she's a nasty fucking bitch."

i just sat there in silence and stared at a wall. i mean why respond? even if she was still telling the truth i don't care. my fave is a 9, makes out with me, let's me suck her tits, and grinds me with her awesome ass while the pecker is out.

did that low rated 7 low mileage rip off specialist who is over 10 years older honestly think she was going to dissuade me from anymore further involvement with the 9 and eventually get some dances that evening with her?

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Icee Loco (asshole)
3 years ago
The girl is a bitch but was probably telling you the truth. Of course she does whatever with anyone who pays for it.

She wasn't trying to get you. Just trying to get the other girl to lose you as a customer. It's about her not you.
docsavage
3 years ago
This hasn't happened to me very often over the years and I have been a little surprised by that. If one stripper insults another stripper when she is not around, it could get back to the stripper being insulted and there could be retaliation. For this reason, I think most strippers have declared a truce with each other and don't engage in this sort of thing.
shadowcat
3 years ago
A couple of months ago a dancer told me that another dancer was doing porn. I had read on USAsxguide that the other dancer had done a gang bang and I told her about it. She said the other girl is married(I knew that) and that she had done 5 guys bare back at the gang bang. And that the BJ girl was telling every one in the club about it. This was not a turn off for me because I already knew the girl's reputation.
Muddy
3 years ago
Sounds petty
Warrior15
3 years ago
I'm sure your Rip Off girl is not making any money. Partly because people figure out their actions and stop paying them anything. But she probably perceives your Fave as a threat to her. I would have just tried to end the conversation as quickly as possible. And if she didn't leave soon, I might ask her to.
datinman
3 years ago
My response, "Holy Shit! Really? Hey, can you point out any other nasty fucking bitches I should avoid because they provide extras?"
Call.Me.Ishmael
3 years ago
It happens once in a great while. My reply is usually something like: "Thanks, but I don't come here for gossip or club drama. Enjoy the rest of your night."
jackslash
3 years ago
I see it occasionally. They want to denigrate the competition, and what they say may be true or not.
rickdugan
3 years ago
I've had it happen countless times. I've heard a variety of accusations involving STDs, drugs, criminal behavior, hygiene habits (she washes her bottoms in the bathroom sink), secret SOs (like they don't all have one), activities with other customers, etc., etc.

IME these little attempts at redirecting my cash flow almost always come from girls who do not know exactly why this girl is earning so much from me, including what *I* am doing OTC with the girl in question. Also the STD accusations have never once been true - the uptight girls often use this ploy precisely because they know how scary that thought can be to a customer.

rattdog
3 years ago
"Hey, can you point out any other nasty fucking bitches I should avoid because they provide extras?"

no need for her to do so. after my great fave quit that ripoff bitch's best friend became my next fave.

guys, ever notice that whenever that happens they don't mind that at all when they are friends? i'm guessing that best friends working together in the club don't mind sharing their customers with each other. it actually sometimes seems highly encouraged among them.
skibum609
3 years ago
Never had a stripper bash another stripper to me. I can listen to the same shit at work for $300.00 an hour. The minute I suspect bashing is on the way I change the subject. I don't care about any dancer's opinion of another, and anyone who reads my posts here knows that my concern for other's opinions here is the same.
shailynn
3 years ago
I’ve had this happen although it hasn’t been a real common thing for me. I feel it happens (at least to me) in more divey type clubs or where lap dancing/vip paying customers are scarce. I’ve been to many clubs where there might be a decent crowd but very few of the crowd is buying lapdances/vip. At that point it seems dancers will apply just about any tactic to sell dances.
rickdugan
3 years ago
@shailynn: I do agree that it is more common when times are tougher, but I've had it happen in every type of club out there. When times are tight and you've been identified as a good source of cash flow for a girl, there will always be others looking to get a piece of it.
gammanu95
3 years ago
I give the Gossip Girl a dollar and tell her to ask the DJ to play "Get Back" by Ludakris
Icee Loco (asshole)
3 years ago
It's malicious bad mouthing but you should hear her out. Doesn't mean it's not true. Then try to gather some Intel elsewhere.
Icee Loco (asshole)
3 years ago
If you know iys a lie tell her off and tell tye girl
Tetradon
3 years ago
What Icee said, but only the densest believe they're the only ones a girl does anything for. Most of us just don't care.
rickdugan
3 years ago
===> "It's malicious bad mouthing but you should hear her out. Doesn't mean it's not true. Then try to gather some Intel elsewhere."

===> "If you know iys a lie tell her off and tell tye girl."

In other words, give the malicious actor what she wants by behaving like a drama queen? No thanks.
CandymanOfProvidence
3 years ago
Say "You're talking but all I hear is..."
then let out a fart like a trombone and leave it at that.
VanessaM
3 years ago
Wow. I had dancers do that to me not a lot but it has happened. And every time the customer still dances with me. After all bad press is still press so thank you hating ass bitch ❤️❤️❤️
VanessaM
3 years ago
@rickdugan

So what if it’s true?! If his favorite is making him feel good that’s all that should matter. If dancing is how I make my money shouldn’t it be my job to make every man feel like he is the star?

All that hating dancer told me is that his favorite is a lot better entertainer than she will ever be. And that instead of watching to hate she should admire n pick up a few tips
VanessaM
3 years ago
Sorry i meant to @ceo
Icee Loco (asshole)
3 years ago
Bharlem. Of course she sells a fantasy to everyone that's her job. I was referring more to things like being told she has stds robs people bad mouths him to other dancers. Whatever like that.
Icee Loco (asshole)
3 years ago
And if its just about her with other customers. That's really none of your business. That's real stalker material.
Papi_Chulo
3 years ago
I can't recall that happening to me but then again I don’t generally have fave-dancers that I stick-to nor even a particular club I stick-to and the dives I hit tend to have a good-amount of dancer-turnover.

But on avg women tend to be more catty and then throw-in $$$ and one would assume stuff like this while perhaps not necessarily the norm is likely not that uncommon either.

If something like that happened to me I’d likely not pay-it much if any mind – I’d just smile and hope she goes on her way – perhaps something like this would have an effect on an inexperienced newbie PL, but most of us on-here know what the SC-game is all about.
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