ITC / When did you discover Extras in a strip club ?
Warrior15
Anywhere there are Titties.
I was about about 35. Had been married for about 8 years to this point. Had been totally faithful to my wife unless you count a lapdance as cheating. Up until now, my strip club visits had been limited to mostly stage tipping and an occasional bachelor party where I watched. I had an early. afternoon appointment cancel on the north side of Houston and had some time to kill until my next one. My office was about a 30 min drive from there and then I would have to drive back. This is way before wifi internet let you work from where ever. So I pop into what was the Ricks' Cabaret North, now I think it's called Bucks Wild. I walk in probably about 2pm and the place was almost empty. Music was playing, there were two girls sitting at the bar and a bartender cleaning things up.
One of the girls jumps up as I walk in and takes me to the back of a bunch of tables. She was really cute but acted kind of odd. Looking back, I'm thinking she was on something. I don't do drugs, but I'm pretty sure she did. The club had these real high back chairs. So the blonde builds us a chair fort. I was kinda wondering why it was necessary since there was no one in there. The dances at this club were topless so she was wearing a g-string. She gets on her knees and starts playing with Junior over my pants. Then she unzips me real quick and starts searching for junior. I pull away at first thinking she's doing this in public. Then I look around and realize no one is there to watch us. So I let her take junior out and play with him. Of course I'm rock hard at this point. Next thing I realize is she turns around, sits down on me in reverse cowgirl position, pulls that g-string to the side and inserts junior. She did all that in about a half second before I realized what was happening. I was stunned but it felt so good, I wasn't pulling out. I was completely sober and extremely excited by this. I only lasted a couple of minutes. I'm thinking she was going to let me cum inside her, but I throw her off just before I did.
I was a mess. I canceled that late afternoon appointment. Hurried home before my wife got home. Tried to clean off the pants I was wearing. Felt very guilty for quite a while. Did several stupid things like buy my wife a car and take her on a nice trip because of the guilt. Did not dare tell her why I was being so nice. I think the guilt has gone away by now.
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My first strip club makeout session was front room, and before extras or private back rooms.
LDKing in a strip club is really bullshit. Perverted. Way to get blue balls. DATYing the dancer is better. But really only worth the cost if you are going to be seeing her outside.
So I have never really gone along with the idea of "extras". In AMPs, I've always gotten mind blowing FS. And it starts with an extensive makeout session, and ends with the girl having an arm locked around my neck and ramming her tongue into my mouth because her body had taken over and all it cares about is getting my load.
SJG
Got away from extras until I moved to Boston and discovered Cheaters Providence.
SJG
And that is all the girl should really have to do. The guy should be able to do the rest, get under her skin and make it happen with her.
At these Dances and Extras oriented strip clubs they've gotten it all wrong.
https://tuscl.net/discussion.php?id=7649…
SJG
Paid for the room, and got a dollars worth of quarters for the condom vending machine, got the speech for the host that there was no sex allowed, got the rubber from the machine as I read the sign saying "no sexual activity allowed" and headed to the room and found out that I cannot nut from a CBJ. She said it was ok, she would rather ride it anyways. Not many great looking girls, but they allllll did the extras. You could be picky bc you knew that they all would fuck. Good times.
Must be a common name. There’s a Peek-a-Boo lounge in Bradenton FL. I was going to post in the other thread. The first club I ever went to. Helped a relative move to Florida during the summer of my junior year in college. Just turned 21. Don’t know what it’s like now - but then certainly no extras. Just $5 table dancers and never really got close
“Fuck you for a hundred”.
I was so shocked and stunned I didn’t even answer. I just pretended not to hear. So I thought this was the norm.
Next time I brought condoms but the funny thing is, I still occasionally go to this club more than 30 years later and never again have been offered extras
(Yes it does happen despite people saying there’s no privacy)
Bogart’s first BJ
Has a reputation for skanks but I got lucky with a very attractive dancer
Having said, my first, and only extra, while living/SCing in Dallas, actually happened at Baby Dolls circa 2008 – I met an attractive ebony that was a traveling-dancer – she seemed like a party-girl if not a pro/semi-pro on the side – we go for some dances in a corner in the balcony/2nd-floor of Baby Dolls (back then it was all tall and wide very highbacked chairs that many dancers made a little chair fort from to have a bit of privacy).
Anyway I had been hitting Baby Dolls on and off since 2000 when I moved to Dallas and had never had any extras nor been propositioned – so this ebony starts giving me dances upstairs and she had her mouth close to my crotch but I just took it as her teasing – after a song she actually unzips my kakis but I thought she would at most just play w/ it a bit discretely – she then takes my junk out – I think to myself “hmm this is getting interesting” but I didn’t figure anything would come from it (maybe a little handjob action) – she stares at my junk for a few seconds and the next thing I knew she had me in her mouth and I was getting a great BBBJ – she never asked what I wanted, nor did I tell her anything – it was all her “initiative” – she gives me head for like 2 songs until I bust – we had done several-songs total and owed her around $100 and just gave her the $200 I had w/o really thinking much about it; I was kinda in a daze – she gave me her # and told me “call me and we’ll have fun” – I never did – this was very atypical of Baby Dolls especially at that pre-Cuban time and still atypical today although today HJs seem pretty-common at BDs but not even HJs back then – I can only assume this ebony went that far b/c she was a traveling-dancer and probably didn’t care if she got caught and fired.
My first SC FS that I can recall was when I moved back to Miami and started SCing again after a hiatus of almost 2-years – this was early-2012 and was at a now-closed North-Miami black-dive called Angels and it was shortly after I joined TUSCL – it wasn’t till I joined TUSCL that I learned “there *is* sex in the champagne room (at least in certain clubs)” – similar to my Baby Dolls BJ above, this extras (FS this time) was unsolicited and it was bareback standing against a wall of the small main-room of this black-dive – I told the story back then in a 2012 TUSCL-article https://tuscl.net/article.php?id=38890
I am in the club during a bust: They came in. 4 of them dressed like bikers. They made a sweep of the main room and then headed for the couch room. It was not until the DJ announced that the couch room was temporily closed UFN. Drinks were buy one get one free. The couch room was closed for 1 hour and 15 minutes. Many customers left but I stayed. 50 dancers and customers got ticketed.
I get my first BBBJ in a strip club: After the cops left, I met Angel. A cute petite thing in a pink dress like Tinkerbell. We went to the couch room. She asked "what are your rules?" I replied "I don't have any. What are yours?" She relied "I don't have any either". Do you know what was under that pink dress? NOTHING! She got my dick out and was stroking the hell out of him. I asked "Isn't your hand getting tired?" She responded "YES" and then her head went into my lap. She swolled and did not ask for a tip. All I could think of was, I just got a BJ in a club that was just raided by the cops.
About two songs in, she leaned in close and whispered, "I'm taking your dick out." Predictably, I replied "Okay.", even though I had no idea where this was going, and was a little nervous about not being in a private area. Granted, she was wearing this loose skirt thing that covered the areas where we were ... ummm ... in contact. Anyway, I figured that she was going to do some sort of direct friction thing, which would have been fine by me, but what actually happened is that I suddenly found myself having quiet yet intense (and uncovered...) sex with a smoke-show dancer.
And, yeah, I get it. Uncovered sex with a dancer where I didn't know anything about her birth control or STD status ... not me at my brightest or safest. But, by this point (A) that rational part of my brain had gone completely dark and my lizard brain was lit up like burning oil field, and (B) while I was having a great time I was also freaking out over what was happening. So, there was a bit of paralysis at play.
Anyway, we both finished a few songs later and she quickly tucked me in and climbed off saying "I really like that. You should come see me again." And because I'm such a wordsmith, I replied "Okay." again. But I was in a bit of a quandary, because I knew what I owed for the dances as priced, and I could barely afford that. So, I held out that amount of money and awkwardly said, "So ... do I owe you more?" She smiled, took the money, and said "Nah, that's okay. But you should definitely come see me again." She told me her schedule, gave me a kiss, and then bobbed off to the dressing room. I left with a new perspective on strip clubs.
So, anywho, I went back to the Foxy two days later, and couldn't find her. So, I asked another dancer, who said curtly, "Yeah, she doesn't work here anymore."
And that's why I always get a phone number.
She was not kidding. During the first song she gives me head and expertly covers me via a condom with her mouth. Before I knew it, she hopped on bored and rode me like crazy. Like many, it was unexpected. I gave her a tip and she was cool and said, "I know you will cum back soon."
For more money than I had with me, but not really a whole lot more, she promised we could really have some fun. At that point in my life, I had been to a number of strip clubs and had gotten lap dances, but I was not aware that there was anything further that could be done in a club. I was skeptical, but she was really down-to-earth and seemed quite genuine. And OMG, she was really hot. I left, swung by an ATM, and came back.
She took me to a normal booth (with a table between two bench seats) in a part of the club that, had it been a busy night, would have been in kind of a high-traffic area. She then set up a folding screen that gave us some privacy and pushed the table back to give us some additional space. During the next hour or so, she proceeded to get completely nude and allowed me to explore her body everywhere. She was not in a hurry, as she basically had nothing better to do, and she seemed to be enjoying her time with me. After quite a while, I was surprised when she took my belt off. Finally -- after she took my pants off completely and used her hands to good effect -- she put my rock-hard dick between her spectacular boobs and worked me until I exploded on her.
That was my first experience with what I would consider extras in a strip club. Since then, I have lost track of the number of times I have found extras at every level imaginable -- sometimes by asking, but many times just by surprise. Getting extras when you least expect it is always a real treat. Is this a great hobby or what?
First time I learned of "extras" in a regular strip club was around late 80's. Emerald's on Washington Ave, Bloomfield, NJ. (Long gone now, maybe closed 15 years ago.) Dumpy place sort of looked like an old house on the outside. Inside it was like a neighborhood pub except with scantily clad slutty women roaming around. In the back was a separate room with pool tables and a couple of booths kind of like small office cubicles only without the desk. No door or curtain, just a smoked glass window between you and everyone else.
A chubby 40-ish bleach blonde Latina with big tits comes by. She was about a 6 in my opinion, not my type, but the best looking out of the grandmas I saw there. Starts sticking her tongue in my ear and whispering about the great LD she wants to give me, in between groping my crotch (OTP) from time to time. She was convincing enough so I agreed to go with her, expecting more of the same and maybe a good feel of those big knockers she had.
As soon as I sat down she was on my lap and reaching around behind her back tugging at my zipper. She says, "take it out." I didn't argue. Gives me a nice grind on my now exposed dick, then spits a big gob of saliva in her hand and starts giving me the most unusual HJ. The smoked glass didn't give much privacy from the pool tables, and you could basically see the silhouette of whoever was inside the booth. So she gave me kind of a fake grind with her back to me, but was actually jacking me off. From outside it would have looked like a regular LD.
She caught all the jizz in her hand and cleaned up with tissues, still in the simulated LD position. She obviously thought this out completely, and was well practiced. She tells me to come back, and gave me the day and time to meet her. This time the club was dead. There was nobody playing pool and that's when I learned about the next level of extras: BBBJCIM.
Went back a few more times, but then I discovered the infamous "kitchen" at Bottoms Up in Irvington and the rest, as they say, is history.
So for me it was in AMPs.
My first HJ was administered to me the first time I went, by a dolled up Vietnamese fashion plate hottie. I went in, paid the $60 for the hour house fee. She proceeded, on my back first, then had me flip. Then seeing that I had no idea what to expect, she took it upon herself to administer an expert HJ. She never even asked me for another penny.
I was surprised by this, but this would not get me to go there often, or to spend much money.
Soon I figured it out though that in that kind of situation, alone in the room with a willing girl, you could also fuck her.
But I saw that the way was not to initiate a discussion about it, but just to do it. And usually the best way is just to make a small verbal come on and then to start kissing her. If she goes with that, what happens will be mind blowing, and being so disarmed by the approach, she will be very reasonable about the money.
Girls have told me that guys try to verbally talk them into FS, while the guy is still lying face down on the table. And sometimes guys start pilling up money on the little night stand table next to the massage table.
I have heard this many times, but it seems so silly. You don't go about it this way.
The 'extras' offering in San Francisco strip clubs, to me that has never seemed like a good way, too too much money, blue balls, and the girl has not been softened up. DFKing or DATYing, or both, then FS. Doing BJ or HJ till completion is something to do at some later time, after you are already pumping loads into her regularly.
SJG
SJG
I was 16 but looked several years older. I had been to the club a couple of times before but was too chicken shit to ask. My GF ended our date early and left me with a major case of blue balls. looking back i realize how awkward i was but some woman i considered old, she was probably early 30s but i estimated her to be 40 took pity on me and offered a bj for some pot. I flagged down some friends driving by and a few minutes later, out in the alley behind the bar, i received a BJ i thought could not be beat.
!!! WOW !!!
I was horrified!!!!!!!!!!
Times change lol, FYI I am no longer so innocent or naive lol.
Signed,
All of TUSCL
Fast forward about six months, it's cinco de drinko, and my buddy and I grab burgers and then walk Miil Ave (lots of bars, right across from AZ State Uni), before deciding to walk into The Library (bartenders and waitresses rocked Catholic schoolgirl outfits...and we drank for cheap, sometimes free). Door guy tells us we're just in time. We ask for what, and he said a bikini contest. Sweet! We go in, grab a couple beers, and a few mins later it started. Round 1 was nothing special, they walked out on the bar, people cheered, that was it. Round 2? Different story. Place is pretty crowded at this point, the bar was rectangular, but had kind of a runway stick out in the middle. Round 2 became stripper showcase - apparently the contestants were almost all strippers with the evening off. Girl one one walks out, does her thing, takes her top off, and the crowd went nuts. She walks off to the side (right in front of me). Girl two comes out, does a twirl, teases about taking her top off, and I feel a nudge on my shoulder. Weird. Above the bar was a pipe going across the ceiling. I looked toward the bar after I felt the nudge, and next thing I know, just as girl two is ripping her top off, topless girl number one was hanging from the pipe, swinging like a monkey, spread her legs, and crashed into my face. The place went apeshit while she hung there, humping my face for about 30 seconds. ANYWHO... after the final round, it pretty much turned into a Skinimax lesbian movie, with four or five of the girls getting mostly and making out, playing around with each other's bodies on the bar...that I still happened to be still standing up against. IT...WAS....AWESOME. Every year on cinco de Mayo, my buddy and I tell each other happy anniversary. I got #metoo'd by a flying stripper.
As far as strip clubs go...any time anything has ever happened, the girls just did it. They never asked anything...just...took initiative.
#Metoo'd over and over and over again... so violated!
But not complaining!
About 20 years ago, I used to go to Seattle strip clubs with buddies from work, mostly as a wrap up following dinner and drinks. This was not for extras (I wasn't really aware of extras at the time), but more for just lappers with stick shifting and boob grabbing. One of the clubs we went to was the Sands, today the same club is known as The Playground. Because I lived nearby, I would also occasionally stop by in the late afternoon just after work and do more of the same, not realizing that the day shift was much more extras focused.
There was a cute, sweet mulatto girl with C's and long hair named Jamie. She upped the game for me one day by making out with me during the lapdance. I came back for more, and the next time she upped the game again by getting DC Jr out and then doing a sort of slow sneaky bend down to pull a cover from where it was hiding in her stocking. I was basically speechless while she suited me up, and then CHJ'd me while DFKing. It was AWESOME. I've mentioned my appreciation for CHJ before, and upon reflection this may have been the genesis of that particular predilection.
A few times later, Jamie upped the ante again: we were doing the regular makeout/chj, and all of a sudden she pulled her panties aside, licked her hand, rubbed her VJ for a second, and POUNCED on DC Jr. I was so naïve that I had no idea that was what she was about to do. I don't know what I thought, but FS was not something I expected at all. This pretty much freaked me out, and I quickly lifted her off of my cock, and asked for the regular hand finish. We were both a bit embarrassed, but things wrapped up as usual.
After the finish, I said "that was a bit more intense than I'm used to". To which she replied "it doesn't really get any more 'intense' than that"... in a way that made me think that she was implying that FS was the limit of her menu.
I certainly did not ask for FS, or even suspect that it was coming. So, either she though that this was the next step in our business arrangement, or was just in the right mood at the right time, or both, or something else I can't come up with. I moved overseas not too long after that, and upon returning to Seattle 5 years later, Jamie was gone and none of the new girls had ever even heard of her.
She told me Les Girls was different and most of the dancers will promise me the world for $80 and try to get me to one of the private booths. She told me not to do that. I asked why? She said because I will do whatever you want to do for $40.
She did, but a condom did cost $5 extra.
The place was shutdown a few years later and then bulldozed.
In retrospect, it was a long trip to the musty damp club basement - and it was very private as well. I guess that’s why it was a good spot to fuck a dancer.
A lesson learned by a 28 year old.
Up until that point I only visited strip clubs sporadically, but that even gave me a whole new perspective. I started doing more research and for a while specifically targeted clubs where extras were possible, though good intel was much harder to come by on a consistent basis back then.
That extras club phase lasted a couple of years. I was also visiting non extras clubs during that time because I could not always get to the other types. But once I cracked the OTC barrier in a club in Queens, my worldview widened even further. I started to understand the broader availability of side fun with strippers regardless of whether they did extras ITC. I then quickly began to prefer OTC for the comfort and general higher caliber of talent than existed in most extras clubs in my area.
Fast forward 18 years and I doubt I will ever again sit inside another extras club and get serviced by subpar talent. I am too spoiled now.
We get back to the lap dance room and she's whispering all kinds of sexy Spanish things in my ear. She starts french kissing me and next I know her hands are in my pants. Then she says "I'm going to suck your dick." I dont know what the hell is going on because i wasnt expecting it and I'm concerned about the security guard that is walking up and down checking on the rooms. She gets down on her hands and knees in front of me and puts me in her mouth. I bust almost immediately.
We hang and chat for another 10 minutes or so while she let's me touch her all over her body (I'm and ass guy so that's primarily where my hands stayed)
That sounded reasonable, so I purchased a $20 dance and entered a small room which had a comfortable sofa. The dancer closed the curtain for privacy and told me to sit in the center of the sofa. She immediately removed all her clothes and began some grinding for about like 15 seconds. She stopped, placed her legs across mine and began massaging my crotch with her hand while she reclined on the sofa. She asked if I liked her clit which she made quite visible. When the dance was about over, she asked If I wanted her to continue for another $20. How could I say no? This time she quickly unzipped my jeans, took out junior, proceeded to give me a hand job and said I could explore her if I wanted. She came prepared with tissues which she used about half way through the second song. After I finished, she complimented me and said I had a beautiful dick. She further said that she has seen a lot of dicks and I truly do have a beautiful dick. I guess she should know.
I technically purchased a dance or did I actually just purchase a hand job under the name of purchasing dance.
SJG
We had a thread about the Chair Forts, improvised private space, in the early days of UHM in Dallas and Houston.
More plausible deniability for the owner, and probably the house gets no cut. Very different from today's DV Clip Joint.
But usually just getting a girl DFKing is enough to assure that she is really opened up to you.
SJG