Big Spender

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Bolamper
How much do you regularly spend at a club not including extras. I've spent as little as $20 and as much as $1700. For some that's chump change, for others, they think I'm crazy. How do you set your limit? Do you put money aside just for clubs or do you just use what you have?

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Call.Me.Ishmael
4 years ago
I would never spend $1,700 in a club before extras. There have been only a countable-on-one-hand number of times I've done so *including* extras. But I don't really care how other guys spend their money if they're having fun. Also, it depends on the market location and the types of clubs. In some cities, it's easy to blow through a grand without blinking.

Anyway, I bring a set amount of cash into the club with me and I leave all my debit/credit cards in the car. I'm pretty good about not overspending, but on some rare occasions I've been weak and gone to the club ATM. As to how much I bring in, I know roughly how much I need on a per-visit basis to have fun (and I know that my budget can handle that amount being spent). So ... I bring that amount.
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Tetradon
4 years ago
I never touch the ATM, out of stubborn pride about not getting ripped off.

Most I've dropped in a club not including extras was maybe $600 (3 VIPs at Desire without seeking extras, a couple lappers, and a lot of Ketel One).
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Papi_Chulo
4 years ago
I avg b/w $200 and $300, but I don't place a set-amount/budget; $200 to $300 is usually enough to get my fill; more than that and it often becomes overkill and kinda diminishing-returns - during my peak SCing-years I'd binge from time-to-time and spend over my avg but it was not the norm - if one SCs enough at some point one has kinda seen it all and done it all and it's not as when one is new to the game and can't get enough (at least that is how it's been for me)
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Jascoi
4 years ago
i used to spend a lot... especially in vegas. actually i was out of control after splitting from my ex. extras were a basic requirement. (and still is.) i’m a little wiser now where i enjoy the ladies. but i’m still learning.
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Bolamper
4 years ago
Vegas is where my larger number was.
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dirtyburt
4 years ago
I usually bring in about $2000. And set my nights limit at $1000. ( Usually it’s only a monthly trip)
Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t. A few weeks back, I started out with Sugar Babe OTC for $1000. Then I got sucked into taking her to the club, she actually drove me.
Three hours later, I was totally fucked up drunk, and spent and additional $500 cash plus SB grabbed my phone and got into my Venmo Account . ( I still haven’t checked my Venmo Account)
Glad I only had $1000 in that account.
I am thinking that whole night was close to $2500. I will check Venmo later tonight and let you know.
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whodey
4 years ago
Most not counting extras was around $1000
Most counting extras was around $1500

Average not counting extras is around $200-300
Average counting extras is around $500-600

There are also nights that I spend under $10 because there are no girls there worth spending any money on. I usually take around $1000 with me just to make sure I have enough to cover whatever fun I find.
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doctorevil
4 years ago
Regularly-not including extras? It probably averages $200-$300. Although it has been well under $50 on occasion. I have never spent anywhere close to $1,700, with or without extras. The most ever in a single club? Maybe $750, which includes two VIPs, or a double VIP, with extras.
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Cashman1234
4 years ago
I don’t remember many nights when I was drinking heavily - but I think the average high amount in recent years is about $800 (including extras).

I don’t drink much anymore - so if you combine drinks and dollar parade expenses - it’s likely $40-50 a trip. The rest of the cash would go to extras.
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gobstopper007
4 years ago
I typically take $900-$1100 when I go to treasure club. I usually spend $300 or $400 but always want to have some extra in case I opt for a limo ride. Think the most I spent was $1200 once but that included limo with two girls.
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Huntsman
4 years ago
I average spending in the range of $50-250. I live in an area where extras are far from the norm. Also, strip clubs are just one modality to enjoy the ladies for me. So my average spending in the club is probably skewed downward for those reasons. There is only so much fun to be had with my pants on.

I also think of opportunity cost. Both in terms of more fun I could have with a lady outside the club as well as what hunting or fishing trips I could have if I don’t exceed my norm. So clubbing expenditures for me when it’s gonna be eye candy and a few lower mileage lap dances is in the range I mentioned. Beyond that, I’m feel just blowing money.

To me, it’s like enjoying a good beer. I like that a lot. Sometimes I get a second beer. It’s pretty good. But if I keep going, I’m not really enjoying the subsequent beers much at all.



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dirtyburt
4 years ago
Yep..... she drained Venmo. Not sure how she got my phone from me...... but that’s what they do. But she left me $50. Haha
So that is my record night close to $2500.was it worth it????
Hell no....... Never again.
Plus, Only One Nut, but I do remember a video being taken. Too drunk or roofied for second nut. 1 1/2 hours trying. I do not have a copy of video yet, even when I do get a copy it still won’t be worth it.
Need to connect with my other lower tier SB’s for the next few months.
Glad I was able to take that Big Hit and not be hurting from it. I have a “Go to Hell account” designed for this purpose.
So,I guess I add another item to my list.
I will never give up my Guns or Phone, until they “Pry them from my Cold Dead Fingers”......
Later DB
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Call.Me.Ishmael
4 years ago
^^^ Why I don't get shitfaced in clubs.
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gSteph
4 years ago
^^ I like Huntsman's analogy about 2nd and subsequent beers above. I don't do extras either and am there just for a couple of rounds of fondling. So, 2 or 3 (maybe 4) dancers at 1 - 3 dances each is my sweet spot. Enough to have a good time but not too many boobs, so I can remember them all.
My visits for last couple years have run from 50 - $200. Doing my part to maintain the fun to dollar ratio.
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georgmicrodong
3 years ago
I've become something of a spendthrift the last few years. Without extras, which usually don't even happen in the club more than once anymore, three or four hundred isn't out of the question, even though most of the time it's below a couple hundred. For reasons which are probably pathetically obvious to those who've paid attention, I'm no longer as interested in the quick fuck and leave scenario.

So I sit and talk. And get dances. And buy drinks. And occasionally find someone who's willing to be more relaxed and casual about the whole thing. Seems to be working out so far.
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jeff11
3 years ago
There were only a handful of times I spent over $1000 at a club and each time I had found someone I really liked and felt connected to. I'm talking VIP for hours. It is rare. On average I will spend $50-$500 depending on the quality of the dancers/dances. I've also walked out of the place spending only enough for the cover and a drink. Some rough clubs out there man.
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wallanon
3 years ago
"Plus, Only One Nut, but I do remember a video being taken. Too drunk or roofied for second nut. 1 1/2 hours trying. I do not have a copy of video yet, even when I do get a copy it still won’t be worth it."

How do you not have the video? Or how does someone not you have you on video that you haven't seen?
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rockie
3 years ago
Most spent in one specific club visit may have been $590. I'm pretty sure I've spent over $700 a couple of times when I've visited 2 to 3 clubs in one day.
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Hustler313
3 years ago
It's your money and you do with it what you please. If you like someone and you know there are worth it and your having fun then money is just a number.
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wallanon
3 years ago
I don't have an amount I regularly spend. It's visit by visit. This week I've been in clubs on 3 different days, which is more than usual. For the week I'm averaging about $240 a day so far, and my limit is set by whatever I'm carrying at the time. I don't put money aside, but do typically have enough carry cash to cover drinks and a VIP trip in case I feel like dropping by a club.
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shadowcat
3 years ago
Less than $100 if I don't see anything I like up tp $500 if I wind up going to VIP. I keep a cash fund at home so that I can go whenever I feel like it and when that fund drops below $600, I replenish it. And I replenish it with at least $100 in small bills and nothing larger than $20's.
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dngr
3 years ago
So I generally would bring about 1K in cash but that was only for tipping and would probably spend about $2 to 300 of that if it was just lap dances. I would use a credit card for drinks and they key to using a credit card in a club it make sure you have a waitress you trust and get her every time. Or at least ask her to refer you to another waitress if she's not going to be there. But I would use the card to by my drinks, dancer drinks, the waitress drinks, any food, etc.. and the bottle.
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g3ne01
3 years ago
I’m on a bad binge where I’m spending over a 1000. In the past few months I’ve probably spent 5k across whores and strippers and onlyfans and chaturbate and niteflirt and massage parlors. Some might call it a problem. I don’t ever push for extras or get any pushed on me in the club. Maybe I should ask more. I got a BBBJ from a girl one time and have eaten a girl out a couple of times. No fucking in the club and never came in the club.
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Leonard313
3 years ago
Jesus H Christ. I thought I was a big spender. I guess not.

I don't usually go to clubs where extras aren't offered...but I occasionally might go to one where extras are questionable (whether offered or not) and there are times I've gone to an extras club and just didn't get any action thrown my way. I never ask the manager/bouncer/DJ to get a dancer for me for dances...I figure if they are interested they'll come to me.

Answer to question: $100-$120 (if no extras)...probably as much as $450 before I knew any better. But, around here...not getting extras is not "normal"...so I fairly consistently spend $300-$400 per visit.
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Eltriste
3 years ago
I don't get extras.

The most I ever spent jn a club was 5k. That was for a surprise party for a girl I dated. I bought pizzas, a cake and really nice pastries, a piñata stuffed with $500 in one's and weed. Then 1k for drinks and to tip every girl. And 3k in one's to make it rain on the girl I dated. It was one of the best times I had in a club.

The second most was like 4k. That was after a breakup. But I had bottle service a vip package....complimentary limo. Plus took care of the stripper hoes.

Third highest was $1800 . But again that included bottle service.

But on average its like $500. With girls used to less nowadays its like $300 on average.

If a girl I know js there I just bring weed and she hooks me up with drinks. Some girls get guys to buy them drinks them give them to me lulz
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