Anyone else's sex drive down?
WILLYSGOTAWOMAN
New Jersey
It wasn't that long ago that I was ready to go just about all the time. Now that I don't go to scs anymore and there's less eye candy in general with going out into the world less my goodness there's a difference.
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That means playing a lot of five-on-one.
Oh, hell yeah. 40 years ago, when wife and I 1st got together, we were doing it like 300 times a year for a couple years. Pregnancies, babies, lack of sleep, dropped the frequency down to somewhere in the 200's range for the rest of 1st decade together. Time marched on. Aging, work, worries lessened the frequency over the decades, but I'd say we were still in the every 3 or 4 day range until almost age 60.
Vacations always cause a blip up, we love a good outdoor fuck, followed by a dive into river to refresh. Our dancing hobby always led to increased likelihood of follow up fun.
Even now, in the 2nd half of our 60s, we're getting giddy probably 60 times a year. And these are the full fledged - everyone gets their turn, no itch left unscratched - events. Not counting hot tub massages, before sleep cuddling.
But, that's not really what you're asking.
Yeah, this prolonged less 'going out into the world', less eye candy (including SC visits) era - is causing a bit less random lusting. Or maybe it's just continued aging.
Life is way more 'routine' than before, with less out and about, a bit more TV. In my case, I find my wife is starting things more. Maybe you could try offering wife a massage, or ask her to help get you up and interested. Good luck, carry on.