The word “No” in Strip Clubs
Muddy
USA
Might aswell be a gun shot sometimes. It’s almost as if strippers/waitresses/ bartenders never heard the word no. Makes me wonder how many fellow PL’s are just not saying no and always coughing up a bunch of money for appeasement. No I’m not tipping your friend $40. I’m not fucking doing that. I feel like have to go around teaching waitresses all over America that I’m not buying an $11 bottle water. Not happening. Then it usually gets pretty nasty from there. My question are these spineless customers out there is sponsoring this behavior?
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+ forced parking charge
+ door-girl expecting a tip for taking your $$$
+ over-priced often watered-down drinks
+ cut-songs
+ outrageous ATM charges equivalent to loan-sharking (and many will limit the amount per transaction so they can fuck-you-over more than once in a visit)
+ etc
Strip clubs function differently than pretty-much any other business in society - thus the avg custy is ill-equipped to know how to handle himself in that type of environment - as long as most of the sex-industry remains illegal, strip-clubs will be ran by shady people and remain shady environments - most folks are brought up to be cordial and accommodating as a default quality, in strip-clubs this will often be used against unsuspecting custies - many dancers will use chivalry against the avg unsuspecting custy.
At the end of the day, one is on their turf - kinda pointless to be mad about it b/c for-the-most-part most clubs are not gonna have the custy's best interest in mind (custies are seen as $uckers to be bled-dry any chance they get) - all one can do is just-say-no and not let it get to you - there are good clubs out there, but most will fuck-you-over whenever they get the chance - all one can do is be smart about it, or not patronize certain clubs, or just stop dealing with strip-clubs if the negatives start outweighing the positives.
Again there are good strip-clubs and good dancers that treat custies fairly, but there are plenty of bad-actors in that game.
NAAAASTY
Yes. We have a shit load of simps afraid of women. Most of these hoes never hear no outside the strip club. It's probably rare for them to hear NO from a man ever.
And interesting. I just feel like I’m the only in the club who watches his money. Lol is that nuts. I’m not gonna fold because they get all bitchy with me.
I always take care of the bartender because I know they get stiffed a lot by PL douche bags who just don't care about the bartender. I don't tip on every drink, I do it when I'm leaving. If I've only had a few drinks it's usually like 10 bucks. If I've been there for a while and also bought drinks for girls maybe 20 or so, and if it's one of those all nighters then usually about 30, maybe more depending on how long I've been there and how much I went overboard with drinks. This is at my favorite dive bar where I know a lot of the cheap ass locals don't tip anything to bartenders. It's worth it to me because I get great service, nice conversation, and often some useful intel on dancers. I rarely go to high-end clubs and if I do I don't usually stay that long.
The ATM scam is my #1 pet peeve and I've walked a couple blocks or even got in my car and drove to a convenience store just to avoid it. I refuse to pay $15 or more to get money from a $200 limit ATM. A few times I've left to find a different ATM and then just decided not to go back, so for 15 bucks they lost the opportunity to bilk me for another few hundred.
So when I'm clubbing I just sit there with quiet confidence, tipping/buying drinks when I want and saying "No" when I do not. Easy peasy. I control my space by quickly moving girls along that I'm not interested, but even that has become pretty efficient now. And in those rare moments when a dancer does react badly, it's like water off a duck's back, much like when my young children used to have tantrums when they were babies.
Man if I had to go into clubs with as much stress or angst as I sense from some on here I'd probably go much less often. The girls can sense that too and are more likely to pull shit on guys when they sense weakness. Just sayin.'
I do think a lot of people just let others’ view affect them too much. Reminiscent of George Costanza in Seinfeld
Just imagine each one of them is in it only for HERSELF, and could give a fuck less about the club she works at.
Either you're paying her, be it tips, dances, drinks, whatever... Or you're useless and she doesn't care that you leave and never come back.
I'm not sure many guys have taken the time to think that through.
I'm still not spending time or money on women I am not interested in. I just don't see the need to personally be rude about it.
Say No and mean it...
learn to walk away and walk out if need be
Spend money when the ROI is there.
I have tipped bartender / managers $100
I have paid girls extremely well who make me happy.
When I was in the strict club and the girl is breaking every rule with me....while other guys get their dances broke up and thrown out...
its because I tipped the bartender/manager $100
now I'm getting free drinks all night
CF is letting me eat her pussy and fuck her later and might even go home early with me
Again I have no problem telling the girls who can't dance, won't fuck, and are just annoying, NO!
I am very polite and charming and free with my money if it gets me what I want.
This Bkk-ape needs to learn the fundamental rule of rickism: it is great to be an asshole but you should avoid being 100% a dick.
Here‘s how to apply this here:
1.0: Saying “no” and shutting the conversation down = just SOP for a customer that doesn’t want something.
1.5: Saying “no” and implying it is because she has cum in her hair from her last private dance = a bit assholey but funny as shit if she runs crying to the lavatory to check for hair cum.
2.0: Saying “no” and flinging feces at her = total dick move
Shoot for something near a 1.5 on this handy dandy rickishness scale. Remember, if you’re flinging #2 you’re at a 2 and that’s too far! ROAR!!!
Well done Juice!
In my view - the understanding that the pretty girl in lingerie standing in front of you - asking you for money - doesn’t really like you - helps to keep my wallet closed.
It’s a tricky realization for many guys. In most cases - if a girl is in sexy lingerie and talking to you - smiling at you - and touching you - she’s probably really interested. In a strip club - she’s interested in emptying your wallet.
Each interaction in a strip club is designed to separate a customer from his money - and to provide as little in return as possible. That’s another thing to keep in mind.
The ATM is like a cup of water being offered to a guy who just crossed the desert - as he will pay a high price. Guys who use the ATM are usually convinced the girl is ready to give it up in VIP - and they already spent their cash on all the shit described in the comments above.
Before you go to the club - do yourself a favor. Don’t worry about combing your hair just right - don’t worry about your cologne - just stand in front of a mirror and repeat these simple phrases - over and over: “No thank you.”, “I appreciate the offer, but no.”, “I’m sure they do look better with your top off. But no.”, “Oh really?! The best VIP experience ever! No thank you.”...
Find a spot between being a total moron pussy that spends money on girls you don’t want -And- avoid flinging feces in public
You know why rickthemonkey got his rick card revoked? (rickvoked, if you will)
Simple: see the frickin feces flingin comment. ROAR!!!
The girls all talk to each other, if your there enough they know if your cheap broke aggressive smelly.
They also know if your will groomed, respectful, and if you spend money.
No doesn't matter to them. It's "maybe" guys that really is a no that burns them.
So don't spare the feelings nicely tell them no. Just do it early.