I’m a sex addict I think this hobby has made it worse. All I think about all day is smashing pussy. I wake up thinking pussy, shower thinking pussy, eat thinking pussy, work thinking pussy, dream pussy in my sleep. Every-time my check hits im either in the strip clubs getting an extras or in the clubs looking for pussy(paid obviously). Crazy part is the no matter how many women I screw it seems to never fully satisfy me. I’m always looking for the next chick to bang. Is there a solution or am I fucked up ?
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last commentLike with any addiction you're chasing the dragon.
Get help when youre ready to
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Most men think about pussy a lot. But don't let it control you.
If you think you have a problem, you have a problem.
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I definitely am sexually compulsive to some degree but ultimately I control it most of the time. I suspect there are other people like that here.
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If its just pussy get a girlfriend. If its the chase and different pussies. Then it becomes a problem. Especially when youre paying. It adds up
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Hi Mr. Monger,
I hope this helps. If this is you, seek treatment for being a sex addict:
Top 7 Warning Signs at a Glance
Obsessive sexual thoughts.
Engaging in risky sexual behavior.
Excessive pornography or masturbation.
Cheating or compulsive infidelity.
Skipping meaningful life events for sex.
Feeling shame or depression about sexual urges.
Withdrawal symptoms when abstaining from sex.
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@icey yep exactly that it it’s different women because once I hit a chick I feel like I’ve been there done there with her it’s about the experiencing new women
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@puddy I knew I had a problem when I was finding myself in a loop of getting getting sex from a new girl but never feeling satisfied. It was like a insatiable hunger that’s when I knew I had a problem
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@sammy63 I hit all those points I feel bad but it’s like this monster takes over me and throws me in a endless cycle.
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Mrmonger its not just sex. Its chasing that one high that will fulfill you. But it never does. So you keep moving on to something new hoping it will. It wont cure it. But doing and focusing on things that make you feel good about yourself. Fulfilled. Can help control it. Its like exchanging a vice for a more positive addiction sort of
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I was there where you are when I was a younger man. I used to think how much more productive I would be if I was t always thinking about women and sex. I wished I could have just quit but it was impossible for me. I worried about how it would ruin my life but I still couldn’t get enough. The only things I can tell you to maybe comfort you is that a lot of guys have the same addiction, way more than you think and it slowly decreases as you get older.
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The good thing is with p4p, the costs should put some sort of limit on things. Unless youre starting to take out loans or really sacrificing on important bills for the sake of p4p.
And with non p4p, the time should put some sort of limit on things.
Another thing that puts a limit on things is other hobbies that require money. Some people are into vacations, high end restaurants, cars, jewelry, watches, etc.
Even if i was richer i wouldn’t want to be spending more than around 2k a month on any p4p or even relationship. Ideally 1k a month. If your spending more than that you would basically be giving up an upgraded car, nicer place to live, etc.
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It’s called chasing the dragon, whether youre addicted to chocolate ice scream or pussy, could be drugs or anything that gives you tha high, yiu can never reach the pinaccle you once had. A normal thinking human realizes this own gesture about homosexual and lays low without it affecting his regular life, but an addict ignores it and chases the dragon for the original high that will never be there. Be conscious and aware you need to lay low.
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If you can afford it, it's just a hobby.
I vaguely recall there is some controversy around sex addiction because nearly every man would qualify. It's kind of like food addiction where chasing that dopamine rush can be a sign of other underlying issues, be it depression or every untreated ADHD.
I guess I will say for most guys jerking off kills the compulsion. So if you nut and are still chasing that high you may want to be evaluated
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I'm a sex addict.
the prettier the better.
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I chose orange pineapple ice cream over naked women yesterday.
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We all are.
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Like @PT said. If you think you have a problem, you do. But you need to ask these questions and seek help from a qualified professional. Not a bunch of clowns who all share your condition to some degree. You might also want to quit this site. It is an enabler to your addictive behavior.
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The thing with getting help is you have to be ready to get it and you have to do it for yourself.
And not being ready is okay. Addiction is a tough journey and each case is very individual.
You can work on harm reduction strategies though. beginagaininstitute.com
Harm Reduction for Sex Addiction
sexualrecovery.com
But the key thing is you have to be ready. Relapse is okay. You know your pace
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Lol^
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The only thing helpful to sex addiction is a constant supply of sex. Love all kinds so much seriously thinking about launching an amateur porn channel. Hard part is finding girls around the Ny/NJ area willing to do it. Anyone know anyone message me.
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@icey thanks I will definitely take this into consideration especially considering I just relapsed today smh. I’m kinda frightened that I won’t be able to stop chasing ass/p4p.
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It can be daunting. But everyone starts somewhere
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' $ ✅ ' ' ' ' ' I would luv mongering,
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with lots of porn & youtube vids,
& have her for me hand body messages & her scratch mi back regularly!
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