Cash Apps - How do you feel about them ?
Warrior15
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In the past few weeks, I've had a couple of sugar babies want me to pay them via a Cash App. I don't have one and am not sure about it. I think the sugar babies don't like walking into their bank branch and depositing a lot of cash.
My fear is that I'm giving someone access to pull money out of my bank account. How many of you have used one ?
My fear is that I'm giving someone access to pull money out of my bank account. How many of you have used one ?
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Assuming that these SBs are significantly younger than you, they aren't walking into the bank to make a deposit. Hell, most people our age hardly get any further than an ATM these days.
What I suspect is going on here is a lack of understanding or caring about the privacy / security risk. And, they also don't want to make that extra trip to the ATM to make a cash deposit. They just want the money to appear in their account with zero effort (aside from the obvious...) to get it there.
If you firmly give them the choice between cash or no payment at all, I suspect they'll take the cash.
IMO, you’re not seeing laziness. It’s just a generational gap. People their age do everything with their phones. Carrying cash or going to the bank is not part of their lives. You’ll need to convince them that it’s in their best interests to keep that part of their income off the grid.
They make think you are stupid. You may think they are stupid. Neither is right or wrong, you’re just speaking different languages with different points of reference.
If you need to ask the question, you shouldn't even be allowed to carry cash!
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I just find cash to be much more convenient for everyday nominal purchases. Every time I get in line behind someone who can't get his/her debit card or phone app to work right, it just confirms how I feel about this. When I'm in a convenience store, I just hand over a bill, get change and walk out. In restaurants I usually don't even need to wait for change - just leave a rounded amount that includes tip and walk. Etc.,etc.
I even use cash to pay for gas now after having one of my debit cards duplicated and then used at other gas stations. It was a pain in the nuts having to dispute the charges, wait for the new card and then change my auto pay information with vendors. Cash can't be hacked, which is yet another reason why I find it superior to all of the electronic options.
Granted, enough girls use it that it seems the risk isn’t *that* high...but it still seems dicey.
Now if you wanted to send her occasional small amounts, and don’t have time to see her in person, and want to be a swell guy, then sure go for it.
About 5 years ago I was in the same bind. This dancer used Square, an attachment on her phone, through which she ran my debit card. It showed on m6 card as “Mary’s Lounge”. There was a 5% handling fee on that but house funny money, which was my other option, was a 10% fee.
I'm not sure what risks you guys are imagining. I guess I get it if you have a spouse and don't want to risk having a written record. Otherwise, it's not something I worry about.
I'm not familiar with pay app or others types of app? Are there any that you can remain anonymous when sending money? If what gawker said is correct and I don’t dough him I will look into it.
CashApp
For me, its not worth the risk of using an app to send money to a stripper. Too many ways it can go wrong. I use those apps to pay for many other things though.
I would do cash. Maybe in some circumstances, a single guy who runs his own businesses, some excuse to be paying some or all of the girl's rent, something like that. Pay by check to landlord. That way it does not look so much like she has income.
I had asked if anyone had ever made one of their P4P women into an employee, or contact employee, hence not taxable income from your end. No responses on that.
Someone recently posted that they claimed all money spent on a TJ visit, as company "research". I would not feel comfortable with that.
Not a tax person, but to me it seems like paying girl's rent, car payments, car repair bill, gas or insurance bill, could be argued as a company expense so long as you document it. And then pay by check is better, and directly to the biller. If she is out of your home metro and you have regular business there, then of course you are subletting (no, sharing) her apartment or house. Might be sharing costs of her car too. Don't want it to look like she is making money. She is just allowing expenses to be reduced. Don't want it to look as though the girl has income.
There are people here though who would know radically more about business accounting and taxation, and who would know what can be gotten away with.
As I see it, there would have to be some advantage to using the cash app, and making it traceable from both ends, like it is a business expense, and then why not just use a check?
Otherwise just cash. Problem with cash is just pulling it off the books in the first place. But once you have that, or are comfortable with just having it be from your taxed salary, then you just hand it to her.
I would assume that the last thing the girl would do with it is deposit it in her bank.
Had long conversation with a girl about these things at local strip club. She wanted me to do her taxes. I declined that, but we talked and I looked up all the filing and payment trigger levels for state and federal for her.
Sugar babies there Warrior15. This is what happens when a guy gets a big income, the money just goes right through his fingers.
In my organization it will never need to be that way.
SJG
I think if they really really wanted to, they could trace through bit coin.
SJG
Correct, if it's on your phone many people have access to all of it. Once saw a test where a guy took to phones, one on and the other not even 'ON". Both were tracked. Tells me, nothing is safe.
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Clubber is correct feds can track your phone even with it off that's why the {smart" bad guys will remove the batteries. I recently purchased a burner phone made by LG and those batteries is not removable. Best leave your phone home on your next bank heist
Ish, I guess it's a matter of who you need anonymity for. As a practical matter, with CashApp you're anonymous to your SB/stripper. Although ironically, I typically don't move to CashApp until I know her well enough that I don't care about anonymity anyway, she knows my full name, etc., and vice versa, by the time we get to using CashApp. Be that as it may, if you use CashApp, the only way she'll figure out it's you is maybe through a subpoena. But if you're engaged in the kind of stuff with her that could get you subpoena'ed, you have other problems.
From the government, yeah, they can get a subpoena. Under what conditions would they go through all that?
If I were still married, I suppose I might be paranoid enough that I'd avoid CashApp. For the rest of us, it's convenient and lower risk than many other things we do with our strippers
I once had a dancer subpoena my penis
Be careful out there
But I still would not use CashApp unless there was some real reason.
I am not cheating on an SO. So I have no need to buy anonymity and silence from women. But there are still other reasons for handling cash flows carefully.
SJG
How the fuck??? She walk up to court and say, "Your honor, I demand a micro-subpoena!"
SJG
This?
https://cash.app/login?return_to=account…
^^^ doesn't even look like it works, looks real flakey.
http://financialapps.world/apps/finance/…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cash_App
SJG
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sjg, specifically with CashApp, you can be anonymous to the person you are paying. The government -- and CashApp itself -- has all the records, though.
I cannot see why the OP's girl would want to be paid that way, instead of cash. But for long distance transfers, seems reasonable.
SJG
Pros from a dancer's perspective: convenient, fast, no trip to the bank
Cons: real names are provided on both ends, the sender (you guys) can dispute charges so that the funds are reversed, none of the apps are sex worker friendly and the companies are known to close accounts that are being used for sex work (always use "groceries" or something instead for a memo).
Wiffle Waffle: paypal is easily reversible. I've never heard of CashApp being reversed outside of fraudulent use of an account. Do you know of cases?
In any case, all of these apps say they are meant to be used between people who know and trust each other, which I basically agree with. By the time I'm venmo'ing a stripper or SB, I know all their info (and to some extent, vice versa)
Why would the OP's SB want to be paid via this when he could just shove cash into her cleavage?
SJG
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Most likely explanation, she's setting him up for a scam. Like before they meet, "hey shoot me $30 to get my nails done", he does, she ghosts. Otherwise, cash is always preferred for safety reason.
Alternative explanation, they know each other really well, she trusts him, so there's no safety issues (in her mind). So she'd rather not walk around with whatever her PPM is in cash
So could someone use these apps under a totally fictional identity?
To convert your balance to cash, do you need to transfer it to a conventional bank? That would of course let the feds see who you are.
SJG
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CASH ONLY.
SJG
You cannot dispute a Venmo or Cash App transaction with the apps. That is misinformation, sorry.
Also please just don’t be a piece of shit who does that. 👌🏼
What you just wrote is information, sorry :) Or, more seriously, CashApp and Venmo don't get easily reversed the way Paypal can. But if the CashApp was backed by a stolen credit card number or bank account, it WILL get reversed. The bank will not pay. CashApp will reverse it. I realize many people are not aware of this, but it is nevertheless true. That said, if someone dealing in stolen credit card and bank info, they are professional thieves.
But for other uses, I can join Cash App and Venmo and be untraceable by even the feds?
How do I get money in and out, cause using another conventional bank account would out me?
SJG
"Most Venmo competitors, like Square’s Cash app, share the same core feature: You can send money with a few taps and swipes. Venmo is unique in that it has a social networking component. By default, all peer-to-peer Venmo transactions—aside from the payment amount—are public, to everyone in the world."
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enmo’s insistence on mimicking a social networking app isn't just weird—it can have unnerving consequences. In July, privacy advocate and designer Hang Do Thi Duc released Public by Default, a site that taps into Venmo’s API to highlight how much information can be gathered about you from your public activity on the app. She was able to trace the exact spending habits of a couple in California, documenting what stores they shopped at, when they took their dog to the vet, and when they made loan payments.
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This all confuses me.
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SJG
21st century, you scary!!! lol ... Venmo "publishes" all transactions on a timeline-like feature by default. So we all put in little funny explanations. So you might look and see a transaction "Jayce paid Janice $35 thanks for last night beyoch" or whatever. If you go into your profile you can turn that off and make all your transactions private, which is what all sane people do
Once with PayPal I sent money to my ATM and she had forgotten to change her recipient debit card when she changed banks, so it “deposited” the money in a non existent account. I had to wait 30 days for my refund but it came back to me.
Can you use CashApp with anonymity even from the feds?
SJG
I'm not sure why people care about such anonymity anyway. I need to be anonymous from my sex worker. But I'm not laundering money or anything, I don't care if the gubmint can figure out I sent $200 to someone. I suppose if you're married an in an at-fault state, you might want to make sure your transactions aren't discoverable by your spouse?
If these cash apps allow alias identities and you don't go through other banks, how can the feds tell?
Well, they can trace internet traffic.
Anyone use TOR or anything else, VPN, like it?
SJG