Rejecting reviews
twentyfive
Living well and enjoying my retirement
This morning I received a nasty PM from someone who’s review I rejected, this is the third time that’s happened, I was even accused of rejecting his review intentionally because i don’t like him, yet that’s not so, the member is someone whom I’ve had very little interaction with and genuinely had no way of knowing who’d written that review.
My reason for rejecting his revywas because there was nothing about the club it was all about a girl, with nothing about the club just his visit with a very specific dancer.
I’m not interested in anybody’s opinions just curious if any of you guys have received a PM of this nature as well.
My reason for rejecting his revywas because there was nothing about the club it was all about a girl, with nothing about the club just his visit with a very specific dancer.
I’m not interested in anybody’s opinions just curious if any of you guys have received a PM of this nature as well.
59 comments
I think anonymity both ways does sound appropriate.
The guy didn’t include any details in his review. He said that other reviews had the detailed information - so folks should read those reviews to get a better idea.
There is no anonymity in a published review but there has to be at the voting stage or some of you would reject for reasons other than merit.
If you ever reject one of my reviews you will fucking regret it...
Funny though, I've rejected easily 100+ reviews over time and never once have I received a PM about it. That includes rejections where I gave the reviewer real shit in the comment box for posting crap.
As far as anonymity for reviewers, there are good and compelling reasons for that, so I am fine with it.
I’ve also never received any messages from reviewers, though I have no clue whether or not the reviews I rejected were ever publish; I’ve never gone back to look.
But I also agree that the reviewer should remain anonymous until the review is published, *and* that the names of those who approved a review be published with the review itself. Maybe even the names of those who rejected it.
Maybe a little more transparency, like keeping a count of how many approvals and rejections each member grants. Prevent the outliers from voting for a period of time.
The fact that a few shit reviews still make it through is certainly no worse than before, and really only reflects on the people approving those reviews than it does on the system in place.
I think there might be a few things founder could do to decrease the rate at which shit reviews are approved, but he hasn’t asked me. And probably shouldn’t. :)
I have noticed those rejected reviews were eventually approved with the suggestiins added.
I would welcome a PM from a rejected reviewer because they need to contribute to the site not just write a lame ass review.
However, I once did get called out (along with 2 other members) for rejecting a review in a re-submission. The very next day, this guy re-submitted his review and at the very beginning, he named me and the other 2 members who rejected his first submission so that everyone who reads reviews for that club would know what I did. It doesn’t bother me that I was called out. If anything, it gives off the impression that this guy is a just a whiny little bitch.
I don't really care if the review is anonymous when its being reviewed or not, I can see both sides of the argument. I would like to see who approved reviews though, I think that would be interesting. I'd also like to see the dissenting names.
I also agree that the barrier to reviewing reviews could be higher than or different from VIP status. Maybe someone who has had 5 reviews published in the last 12 months or > 10 total or something. Could be two tiers, one to read unpublished reviews & one to vote on them.
The new system definitely upped my review game. I’m always thinking, I do not want to have write this shit again. It makes you sort of be way more deliberate in your writing. That being said I’m still not winning any awards for my review writing anytime soon.
https://www.tuscl.net/rev.php?id=338737&…
These usually sit in the queue for an afternoon, until enough slow Approvals pile up from more generous VIP moderators.
That said, I've seen some real doozies that I seriously question how 3 or more sets of eyes could have approved them, but there it is.
On the flip side, for clubs like Flight Club, Follies, HiLiter and others with 1000 reviews, I’m a little lenient with details like club layout, where the bathroom is, etc.
It’s a sliding scale about what needs to be said. The quality and efficiency of the review process isn’t perfect but it’s def improved.
I try to give constructive criticism but sometimes a particular review will just piss me off too-much and then I'm not as constructive - but it's better to be constructive b/c many people just don't know what they should be putting in a review for it to be a good-review thus it's better to help them out than get on their case and turn them off from TUSCL.
i have rejected a few really graphic xxx reviews that names a specific full stage name of a girl in a usa club.
overall i don’t reject many reviews. i tend to let really weak reviews remain unpublished until you other guys rejects it. (maybe i should get more involved.)
You bring up a good point though. The best approvers are guys who cover many clubs and can sniff out the BS immediately.
What if that girl is not most reader's type, the reader then does not know what the club has to offer - it's ok to mention one's obsession w/ a particular dancer but not make that the whole damn review.
Just to give a heads up to anyone that wants a review published give me something about the club, tell me what I can expect to spend, or at least what you know of the costs, I’d rather you don’t name dancers that showed you a good time if I feel I need that I can PM you and you can provide that privately if you trust me, and one last point I am most active in the early AM and more likely to read a review of a club that is in my general area, although I read some of the out of area reviews and only pass well written ones that are most likely in my opinion to be genuine, if I’m on the fence over an out of area review I’ll defer to another and not approve or deny leaving it to others to vet.
It’s nkt perfect but it’s better. Fake reviews got through before too and there’s always been the VIP incentive, it’s just a bit different with the VIP board now. We just all need to be a bit better using the comments to call out fake reviews.