Best way to ask about OTC
larryfisherman
California
Monday, January 7, 2019 11:35 AM
We get 25-30 different threads a year asking the best way to ask about OTC. I figure in this thread we can say what works best for us in regards to asking about OTC. Then maybe newcomers can get directed to this thread when they have questions on how to ask for OTC? Lol. Maybe, maybe not. It’s worth a try I guess.
Anyways, what works for me is telling the girl something like, “It would be nice if we could go somewhere where the club doesn’t take some of your money”. Usually she gets the picture.
What works for you?
Anyways, what works for me is telling the girl something like, “It would be nice if we could go somewhere where the club doesn’t take some of your money”. Usually she gets the picture.
What works for you?
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Fast forward to present day, rebuilding finances, I've asked as early as the first visit with just a few floor dances. This is of course depending on the vibe I feel. I haven't pulled one this way yet, but their replies indicating interest leads me to believe it can happen. If this works, now I'm spending $30 to $150. Only time will tell.
After a few visits ITC, I'll say something like "How about us getting together outside the club?" It's easier, obviously, if the dancer gives good signals ahead of the ask. If she's reluctant, or even if she says 'no', I'll give her a card with my number on it and say "Just in case...". I do just fine with that approach.
I keep it simple. It's not 3D chess. Not really.
If a lot of dancers think you want to date them, the that's likely a RIL vibe at work. I don't have this problem.
Nice start, but you may need to work on your sales pitch. Just change the words from "shitty motel" to a "nice little motel down the street with cash bump on the back end" and you probably have a winner more times than you'd believe. ;)
Have you ever said the hotel line, but didn't have the hotel at that moment? I just ask because early SCing I found myself getting a room with hopes I'd get OTC. My success rate was maybe 1 out of 7. However, despite not getting what I wanted at least I wouldn't have to drive 90 minutes back home in the wee early morning hours.
Nowadays, we arrange and i won't get the room until we're both in the lobby, visiting her at the club before she gets off, or she's one who isn't flaky all the time.
Usually I get the dancers phone number to text her. I’ll throw a few hints at her via text - to see if she didn’t want to say anything itc.
It’s simple - just casually ask. If it’s a hard no - let it go and enjoy the itc experience. If she says yes - and gives you her number - you’ve got an opening.
It’s highly likely you aren’t the first customer to ask her!
“Would you care to meet me before your shift sometime?”
“If we’re going to continue doing this, if prefer to get a nice room, if you’re up for that.”
I’m not into the hard sell most of the time, so I don’t make any ultimatums about it, but I definitely prefer OTC, and girls who won’t do it, unless they’re so good I can’t resist, have a limited shelf life.
Its not like you need to have a beer with your dealer and get to know them before buying some shit. Same thing here.
1) she giggles
2) she pretends she didnt hear you.
youre aiming for 1
"And also, I pay for pussy"
"And also, I beg for pussy"
I try for OTC after I’ve seen her at least a few times, we’re both comfortable with each other. I don’t do hotels, it’s her place or my place.
Do you specifically say "OTC" when you ask?
I had one I asked in Vegas if she did private dances (meaning outside the club) and she said yes. During our negotiating (I never got her OTC) she said full service. I immediately thought about tuscl.
I only club when I'm out on business. So I have a hotel already. I would guess most asking about bright like that running a 30% success rate plus or -5 and another 30% phone numbets fot future OTC. So 50%+ overall.
If I was highly interested in the dancer - I’d pursue it - and ask follow up questions - and determine if she would negotiate.
If the dancer is highly desirable - and she won’t negotiate - I’m going to say no if the price is above my sweet spot. I’ve chased pussy - with money - in the past - and I ended up pissing away a lot of money. Now, I set an upper limit and I won’t exceed that limit.
If they counter offer too high I might go 10% or so over the CR but rarely do I do that and I'm just thinking with my little head. Most of the ladies I have done OTC with, and that's not alot, because it isn't always what I'm interested in, seem to be happy with the amount and the experience at least in front of me and I normally either get an extended experience or future appointments. I assume this is because they find it the amount to be acceptable for the services requested.
If you're polite they pretend to like you coz it makes you more tolerable. But they don't really like you.