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DH721Indiana

Has anyone noticed if the dancer's attitudes are different if you are with a friend or alone? If a couple of guys are together, just hanging out, having a good time, then how does that appear versus a guy all alone? My wingman got a serious disease (married) and moved away so I go by myself most of the time. I live in Indy, so most of the clubs are pretty tame/lame. I have traveled to Louisville, Cincinnati and Chicago to check out a few of the clubs in those areas but I haven't tried enough of them to find one worth the drive, yet. I have a friend in Atlanta, and we have discussed me coming down for a weekend to enjoy V but we haven't been able to coordinate our schedules. I am just curious what my fellow mongers think.

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jaybud999

I'm not sure if their attitudes are different, but I think having wingmen gets "wing women" to approach. I.E, if there's three of us, three of them tend to show up at the table, versus a single female approach that has to make a decision on who to talk to first in the group? I think it's a possible advantage on the monger side because you get to interact with more women at a time, and make your decisions that way.

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Icey

A wing man in a strip club? Theyre working. They wont reject you if you ask to buy a dance

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DandyDan

It depends on the club, but I believe in some clubs, they will approach groups before they approach solo guys, especially if its crowded

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Dolfan

I rarely if ever go to a strip club with a wingman. I do however pretty regularly go with a group of friends. I find the dancer approach to be very different when approaching a group than a single person. But, I'm not sure if it's an apples to apples comparison, because my attitude and approach is different. For the most part the clubs I visit are different too.

Like jaybud said, I find that when I'm with a group it's much more likely for a group of girls to approach us than a single dancer. They usually show up looking to have drinks, flirt, dance & mostly get tipped right there at the table. Occasionally we'll sorta pair off with one customer focused on one stripper, but for the most part it's a group activity with a single large conversation between everyone and general ass shaking and low mileage stripper shit. Of course, that's what we're looking for so there might be a little selection bias in my observation.

That's very different than when I show up alone. When I'm alone, occasionally a duo will approach but for the most part it's just a single girl at a time. Either wanna dance girls, or ones who expect to chit chat for a bit and then make a sales pitch for a room.

You're not clear what your expecting or looking for. But whatever it is, I really doubt having a wingman is required to get the attention of a stripper nor do I think it'll be a particular hindrance. That assumes you guys are both more or less on the same level & looking for the same things. Special circumstances could obviously impact that, if you're on a tight budget and your friend is a big spender, you might get an easy meal after he chums the water. Conversely, if he's a creep or an asshole, he may scare off the girls. Or other similar situations.

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twentyfive

I have a few friends that go to certain clubs with, but lately I’ve not been visiting clubs very frequently. It never really was a wingman thing it was usually just a couple of guys having a few beers after some other activities like golf, or an afternoon on the boat type of day. About having fun with the girls, some of the guys participated, others not really so much.
Never found it to be anything but a little fun, never really made a big difference in how I interacted with the girls in the clubs.

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minnow

See my article on wingmen, beneficial or not, that I submitted a year or so ago. Just bring up my profile, you'll see it near the top under my articles.

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Jascoi

I've have good times with hanging with Wingman and friends and also I've had fun solo. It's been good either way.

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Icey

Dancers approach groups because if they all tip its more money. Has nothing to do with wingmen or anything else. When youre in the ckub as a customer. Its all straight forward

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ilbbaicnl

One of my favs told me she does better with non-solo customers if she has a wingstripper.

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chunkychicano

Icey you ignore the fact theyrehuman. Their general goal of working a strip club is to make money, but it doesnt mean each micro-action and micro emotion is about money. Their favorite customers arent necessarily the ones spending the most money on them.

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JamesSD

A lot of girls don't like approaching pairs of guys alone, especially at clubs where they mostly make money selling dances. "Buy me a drink?" clubs might be different where a girl can ask the group and see who bites.

Higher mileage girls often like solo dudes more than groups.

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